On to 2022!!

It’s my reflection time of where I’m at and where I’m going! For me, I’m being anti-social and concentrating on me, seeing how this path evolves. Ironically I’m hearing about so many comments to my daughter about me from my ex-husband lately. What I think, etc. he never cares if his current wife is there. Weird. 10 years we’ve been split up. They say it takes 1/2 the relationship to heal OMG it seems to be true. The path is clear, no one pulling on my chain pulling me back thanks to my actions not letting others yank me back.

Looking forward to the new year! Attempting to fix an issue in my career and just seeing where the year takes me. I’m ready!

Anyone else do this reflection & welcome the New Year thing?

Sounds a lot like last year - if you spell it out loud: 2020 too

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Just ready to welcome a fresh new year with less bullshit and more new wonderful memories to create ✨

Posted by neves

Sounds a lot like last year - if you spell it out loud: 2020 too

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There’s been a lot of growth in the down times. We found a way to live in the middle of all the crap. The little things build to bigger things & life continues on 🙃

Posted by -Capriquarius

I don't, but I like to look at people like you and seeing how you evolving is optimistic. It gives hope it's never to late to start a new life 🙂 🥂

It’s never too late 😁😁 I think I became more like this after my life fell apart. One step at a time, it all builds to a better place.

Posted by -Capriquarius

I don't, but I like to look at people like you and seeing how you evolving is optimistic. It gives hope it's never to late to start a new life 🙂 🥂

It’s never too late 😁😁 I think I became more like this after my life fell apart. One step at a time, it all builds to a better place.

Posted by WarAngel

If things develop on the job front like I hope, I'll be very satisfied with how 2022 ends. 😊

Good luck to you!!

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

Posted by -Capriquarius

I don't, but I like to look at people like you and seeing how you evolving is optimistic. It gives hope it's never to late to start a new life 🙂 🥂

It’s never too late 😁😁 I think I became more like this after my life fell apart. One step at a time, it all builds to a better place.

I think most important is to still trying to enjoy life and not stress yourself about taking time on things. 🙂 enjoy the journey not only get obsessed about goal

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Yes true. It all builds anyway. When I look back, I am in a far better place, healthier, happier & kids healthier too. So it’s all good. I may not be where I wanted to go, but I am where I needed to go. So that’s what I’ll continue doing, letting life evolve. ❤️

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Posted by neves

Sounds a lot like last year - if you spell it out loud: 2020 too

...🤔

There’s been a lot of growth in the down times. We found a way to live in the middle of all the crap. The little things build to bigger things & life continues on 🙃

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I guess... 🤷‍♂️

I went on an 8 mile walk and reflected a lot on myself and life today. Which is never an easy process, but necessary. I want to get myself back to where I was in 2020. I just had such a drive to be healthy, and to not fill my body with poison daily. Now it's like I'm actually trying to kill myself slowly over time or something. Back in 2020 I used straight willpower to get my life at the best it had ever been. Once that willpower weakened even the slightest, I ended up crashing harder then ever. I started drinking again, over eating again, and destroyed everything I worked so hard for. Now I realize it's more then pure will power. It's looking at the situation as what it truly is. Drinking is poison. Over eating is poison. It's time for me to not look at these kind of things as something I decide to not do anymore. I have to not do these things anymore, but also realize it's because it's truly a poison to my life, and not just a choice. So 2022 for me is seeing all my vices for what they really are. They aren't something that I can just run from. I have to face them, and see them for what they truly are to overcome them.

Posted by Soul

I went on an 8 mile walk and reflected a lot on myself and life today. Which is never an easy process, but necessary. I want to get myself back to where I was in 2020. I just had such a drive to be healthy, and to not fill my body with poison daily. Now it's like I'm actually trying to kill myself slowly over time or something. Back in 2020 I used straight willpower to get my life at the best it had ever been. Once that willpower weakened even the slightest, I ended up crashing harder then ever. I started drinking again, over eating again, and destroyed everything I worked so hard for. Now I realize it's more then pure will power. It's looking at the situation as what it truly is. Drinking is poison. Over eating is poison. It's time for me to not look at these kind of things as something I decide to not do anymore. I have to not do these things anymore, but also realize it's because it's truly a poison to my life, and not just a choice. So 2022 for me is seeing all my vices for what they really are. They aren't something that I can just run from. I have to face them, and see them for what they truly are to overcome them.

That’s good to hear 🙂 Self-care and loving yourself enough to do it. It’s a better road to travel on, leads to a better place wherever it might be.