Relationships

Is it possible to feel the same way about someone at the same time? Mine have consisted of me liking them & them not as much as I then when I don't like them as much they like me much better? If you don't like someone as much as they do at the same time is that a sign that the relationship isn't meant to be?

Considering that you speak of this happening multiple times (you said "them) .... it sounds to me like you are chasing and liking immature boys/girls.

There is a such thing as the timing being off, that doesn't happen often.

My suggestion would be to start hanging around a much older and mature crowd, those aren't boys/girls, rather men/women .. and aren't as likely to play attention games

It's called a mutual connection, sometimes it's even established before you have sex

I think what you're talking about is an indication that you need to take things slower and let things build up over time, if you start to spend some time apart from each other you will grow more fonder of each other's company as the saying goes.

Try not to expect the worst in people because it will bring out the worst, have an open heart and don't expect the same relationship everyone else has, lose your insecurities and try to be as genuine and forthcoming with your feelings

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
It's called a mutual connection, sometimes it's even established before you have sex

I think what you're talking about is an indication that you need to take things slower and let things build up over time, if you start to spend some time apart from each other you will grow more fonder of each other's company as the saying goes.

Try not to expect the worst in people because it will bring out the worst, have an open heart and don't expect the same relationship everyone else has, lose your insecurities and try to be as genuine and forthcoming with your feelings

I really liked what u said it made sense and after awhile the problem has to lead back to u so by me moving too fast I throw off the balance when they r just taking their time.