Saying...

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by RealTalk on Wednesday, May 23, 2012 and has 14 replies.

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Horrible things to someone you care about...even though they hurt you, you still feel bad...I've said some really horrible things, unforgivable, below the belt things to someone I care about because they hurt me, & now I feel bad about it. 😢

I really should not feel bad because they deserved that shit man. But a Virgo has a conscience after all. Whatya know!!!! And people think we have not emotion? I wish...

I'm drunk BTW, so I may be bi-polar in the morning 😛

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I know Virgos sometimes say things they dont mean..My Virgo has said to me things in the spurt of the moment and when he realizes what he said he retracts real quick and apologizes...It is possible to say things to a person you love..and because you love them its why you will regret it later...None of us are perfect..Some people say more than others, but there is always something we might say that will hurt the ones we love..It doesnt mean we love them less. As soon as my phone charges I will call you..you know that phone is always out of battery..🙂.hugs and kisses!

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Awwwwww, TBD...I know. Can you believe I actually feel bad? After all of that? But I do. I can't believe it came to this & it's a damn shame because it's well warranted. You know they deserved that shit, but I fon't feel good about saying such vile things...😢 I did love this person dearly. But they really hurt me.

Your phone needs an upgrade!!! 😛

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^^^LOL. I think I'm past drunk...is that such a thing? Past drunk? My head's not spinning though...I feel pretty good. Bi-polar kicking in already...sheeesh!!!

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Posted by RealTalk
^^^LOL. I think I'm past drunk...is that such a thing? Past drunk? My head's not spinning though...I feel pretty good. Bi-polar kicking in already...sheeesh!!!

Omg my sons gf's uncle owns a winery and she stopped by and picked up a bottle that cost 279.00 I dont drink so for me to like any kind of wine it has to be sweet and not dry...God I wish I could remember the name..It was so good!! I sliced some strawberries and I threw them in the glass...heaven...it was so sood. yummy

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Don't feel bad about it...

You shared your feeling at that time and then, I have said many strange things through my life and when I look back I don't regret one iota, it was necessary to say it.

It's easier to deal with the others than to deal with yourself.

Believe me on that.. as a Virgo.

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Posted by Qbone
Don't feel bad about it...

You shared your feeling at that time and then, I have said many strange things through my life and when I look back I don't regret one iota, it was necessary to say it.

It's easier to deal with the others than to deal with yourself.

Believe me on that.. as a Virgo.

Thanks. I don't feel bad about it anymore. I think that was the alcohol talking, & me being all emotional & shit. What I said was really awful & cruel but the situation justified it.

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Posted by 25thDecan
You were hurt...and you reacted. You feel bad. Was it retaliation-defensive or retaliation offensive? If defensive then qbone is right. I'd even add that you feel a little ashamed of yourself because you feel you saw the entire situation coming well before it all happened. Intuition isn't always wrong. Abuse "is" though...

Defensive. I don't feel ashamed, I just felt bad that it had to come to that especially when I was really close to this person, & cared for them but...hey. I think about how I'm hurt & just say fuck it & fuck them. I eradicated a problem out of my life, that possibly had the potential to get worse.