Sex toys

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by MayDay31 on Wednesday, October 22, 2014 and has 23 replies.

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@MayDay31
12 Years

I'm looking into getting a toy. I've never bought one before, never even really been in a sex shop. I started looking online and I find all these nice looking ones, nice shapes. Their cheap too, like 20 bucks or so. Then I see the material is rubber... And I'm thinking well that can't be ideal for the kitty. So I start googling and holy hell! There's so much I didn't know!

From what I gather, not only should the toy be made out of 100% silicon, it should say medical grade or platinum grade as well. Anything else is considered toxic and can be harmful. I'm very sensitive, I know I would have a bad reaction. I'm sooo happy for Google!

So my question is... Does anybody have any good experiences with online sites? Any reputable places? Any places to stay away from?

I found one holisticwisdom.com

Any others anybody would recommended?

Also... Glass seems to be highly recommended. And easy to clean properly which is a must for me. I guess I think it would be too hard, like it would hurt. Any glass toy experiences? Do you prefer one over the other and why?

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@MayDay31
12 Years

Posted by Layna
I've always liked babeland.com... It's great for beginners as they are very helpful, both online and in their stores (staff were always friendly).

Since you are new to toys, I would recommend sticking to well known brands, first. It's great that you guys are doing the research.

Good luck. 🙂

Could you suggest any well known brands?

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@MayDay31
12 Years

And I will check out babeland I think I I came across that name on a site before.

Sid adameve is bad! That's the site I was on originally with the rubber toys. They do also have glass but that's their only options. And I'm not sure about glass really.

Who know this was so complicated

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16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

I used Adam and eve years ago. I havemt used it recently. We have a store near me called Pandora's Box. I've been going there.

Cleaning is important no matter what type of toys you play with, it's also usually very easy. Glass is nice for the temperature changes it can do. Yeah it's hard, but it's sex toys...hard is good. You're not gonna hit someone with it, it'll be fine.

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13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Whatu
get a scorpio.

Yeah, shame it was discontinued!

Buy online and always read the reviews! Example:

"Sexy little beastie
Reviewed: 02 September 2014 by OUCH! Thank you 😉, a Straight Married Female

I wanted this toy so, so badly, but by the time I was given the go ahead from the boss it was out of stock. I was devastated. Then it turned up in the clearance sale, and I snapped one.

As soon as I got it out of the box I knew it was going to be everything I hoped it would be. The black coffin shaped tin is beyond cute, and then you open it to find this little creature all snug inside with its wiggly legs - it made my day.

The scorpion itself is deadly sweet, all black and sinister looking, which ticks a good few boxes for me. I had a squidge about until I could get at the bullet, and found it to be nice and smooth with quite decent vibes considering its size. I'm a top-speed-on-constant kind of girl, but the patterns to be had here are pretty good for a teasing build up. It's a great toy in its own right really.

I did receive another two of these as gifts, so have taken to laying them on my nipples during foreplay. I can just place them and leave them, and with their wide design and draggy rubber constriction they don't roll off like a bullet would, so I don't have to keep hold of them as long as I'm still.

The feeling of having two on my nips (which looks creepy cool) and one on my clit, all going at exactly the same speed is pretty mind-blowing. It feels like the vibes run through my whole body and when I come, it's pretty intense. I reckon everyone should have one of these in their toy box."

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@MayDay31
12 Years

Thanks guys you gave me lots of things to look at. Layna, that comeasyouare site is pretty awesome. I see the ones I had liked from the other site, well the brand anyway. So I'm guessing it's a good brand. I think I'm leaning towards the tantus stuff.

Undine that thing is a vibrator ?! Yea that's too much for me.

It's pretty hard to find good selection on "normal" dildos. Everything is crazy vibrators and huge things... I don't want all that. I think I maybe found a winner though.

Anybody have experience with the glass? I know sid, you said it should be hard but... Idk? Like I think you'd have to go easy with that or it would hurt.

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@Astrobyn
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Layna said it best as far as products go.... But anything worth getting is worth the investment.

I haven't tried the newer stuff... and if I was in the market for vibration, I'd probably be most interested in jimmyjane products.

But glass is the best imo, there's not worries about bad reactions, or uncomfortable friction, and dishwasher safe 😉.

And it looks like Adam&Eve have them anywhere from $ 25- $ 50. And they normally have really good offers and send you free shit when you have a discount code, you can google and find them easily ....

MDAY50 - Exclusive: 50% OFF one item, Free Shipping PLUS a Free Couples Toy Kit
AFFHOT12 - 50% off one item plus a free mystery gift.
PCBOGO - Buy one get one free (click on code and enter it at checkout for discount).

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@MayDay31
12 Years

Thanks Robin that's pretty cool with the offers. I think ima try the Silicon one and upgrade to glass. Gotta get my feet wet before diving in.

And wynter yea Amazon is awesome! I already seen the one I think I want on Amazon for half the price of the manufacturer site 🙂

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@MayDay31
12 Years

Old ladies that have vibrators are less grumpy. I think they all should have one.

Back on topic... Ms layna you seem to know alot.. Do you know if "premium" or "high quality" silicone is the same as medical grade?

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@MayDay31
12 Years

I would boil it personally. Glass is cool, I think just hot water and soap would be good. I mean, there's no anal gonna be going on. And just me using it.

I mean if anal and other people used the same toy, yea a dishwasher would be kinda weird. But Idk, if the kitty is safe to eat there's nothing wrong with it going in the kitchen area to be cleaned.

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@Wynter
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Posted by MayDay31

And wynter yea Amazon is awesome! I already seen the one I think I want on Amazon for half the price of the manufacturer site 🙂

It is! 😄🙂

I just ordered this one! With Amazon Prime (free shipping), I should have it in my paws on Saturday. I — the red hearts 😄

It's so cute —