Spankings are Healthy

I know everyone wasn't raised under disciplinary action, I just think relationships work better when y'all agree on certain highly intimate things.. I don't think a whoopin ever really hurt anybody. I find spankin to be intimate. I think I have a great head on my shoulders, because my momma put her foot in my ass. Some of you disagree with my "views" but it is what it is. I was raised to associate pain and fear with bad behavior, teaching me right from wrong. I knew it was consequences to not following certain instructions, not using common sense, lacking manners and not knowing the rules, so I tried to follow through and not cause disruption to the relationship with my parents.

It was times I didn't give a fuck about a whoopin, because they stopped whooping me like they'd used to. It's important to not become complacent with well deserved spankings, because that induces her own bad behavior.. And besides, she's gonna misbehave anyway so why not minimize the drama.. She might fight you the first few times, cry, yell and fuckin forbid she calls authority.. But as long as she assumes the position, you are in full control.

Which brings me to my next point. You gotta be in control, not a control freak. There's a difference.. Someone who really has power and someone who just wants to have power. The best form of power is when it's given.. If she trusts your masculine core, power will be granted. This means to control your emotions, control impulses, know what your own bad behavior is and be about your own business instead of hers as one. Not losing your shit and beating her or anybody up. Not being brutally violent towards her environment.

That is how a relationship falls apart.. A lot of unloving bullshit. The police gets involved.. Who needs that. You don't want any visible bruises or to hit her in the most fragile and noticable parts.

It's just the principle of things and a matter of respect. Cuz a woman who's in a brutally abusive relationship is not gonna upset the mf that smacks the fuck out her face because whatever. She's gonna tread lightly, even if she does wanna leave.

But the woman who also receives discipline, but in a form of affection, might just take her chances for once and find herself happy. I have found that my strongest relationships were this way ..Some women know they need these things more than others and prefer someone with authority. Some others may not even know that it's intriguing until they come across a more dominant figure.

What I'm also saying is that you don't even have to be her partner.. It could also be theraputic for you both because I found myself releasing a lot of aggression and she said she feels cared for.. Now, I spanked her for about 20 minutes into a state of euphoria, some kind of emotional high, because she spent major money on make up supplies and phone bills were coming up. This euphoria involved crying and locking of the body.. She even was dripping wet, even though the spankings aren't about sexual relationship kinks but emotional kinks.. We did end up being close together in sex afterwards and it was a beautiful understanding. I didn't have any issues with her spending for a long time, sh even called me before spending money at lunch.

Nobody was pointing a gun to her head, the door is wide open if she wanted to leave me. If my atittude towards relationships was so bad I would be forever alone. We had a lot of fun times, a lot of intimate things were between us and we had trust in more ways than just not cheating. Your girl want to be spanked when this becomes exclusive between you two. She may bend over in bed after brining you a belt, or lay right over your lap.. Telling you that she forgot to not hold a conversation with the old guy next door.. So she confessed before you found out yourself.

I just think it's time we bent the thoughts on ideal dating.. Maybe she should re-discuss what's tolerable and what's not in relationships. Because I think a lot of things we find jovial just aren't so bad or an issue.. It makes a place in each other's life.

I encourage a spectrum of BDSM in every relationship

I love this thread hahaha

Posted by Emhendo
Nobody was pointing a gun to her head, the door is wide open if she wanted to leave me. If my atittude towards relationships was so bad I would be forever alone.

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Yes. Because human behavior is always the result of a perfectly objective processing of perceptions and experiences that seeks our own welfare.

Parents who spank are unstable and don’t know how to rear children properly.

Spanking should only be for adults in the bedroom

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Parents who spank are unstable and don’t know how to rear children properly.

Spanking should only be for adults in the bedroom

That's too bad, cuz I'm totally gonna go upside my kid's head.

Only between two consenting adults

Not to a child

No