Gemitati
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"The enemy of my enemy is my friend"
Better yet. The enemy of my enemy is my friend for the time being until loyalties are tested. The friend of my enemy is also my enemy.
Posted by Taureye
Not really. You have a common enemy and whats better than to double your strength when going against a common enemy? Total Frenemies
They may have a common enemy. But there's always the fact they may have fought the enemy of their enemy. So the enemy of my enemy is also my enemy and now everything will turn to a big pile of fuck
Posted by KoniuchaThere could be 2 good people who aren't compatible.
Friend of my enemy is my enemy, for sure
I can be friend with both. But them 2 are not friends. They might hate each other.
But I can be compatible with them both.
Posted by GemitatiIt is more speaking to a situational friendship. Often we have friends in life that come and go... Someone can be a friend for 5 mins and then do you wrong. It is important to set boundaries and look for motivations beyond the obvious. You should take into considerations why your enemy is not there friend but there enemy.
I don't know why this phrase is used as something that is true.
I think it is totally wrong. Enemy of my enemy can be my worse nightmare enemy...
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they might betray you...that kind of thing.
it comes from this:
the end of The Spanish-American War/Roosevelt Corollary (1898-1902) meaning :
as long as I (or my country) have a common enemy with a given person (or other country) I will take the risk that this friend (or allied country) of mine might later betray me.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=my+enemy% 27s+enemy+is+my+friend
also very new age, or very relgious:
good article,
http://www.albertmohler.com/2014/01/08/is-the-enemy-of-my-enemy-my-friend-an-old-question-in-a-new-age/
it's kind of a good subject for saturn in Sagittarius, surrounding religion, and how religion is linked to this.
it comes from this:
the end of The Spanish-American War/Roosevelt Corollary (1898-1902) meaning :
as long as I (or my country) have a common enemy with a given person (or other country) I will take the risk that this friend (or allied country) of mine might later betray me.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=my+enemy% 27s+enemy+is+my+friend
also very new age, or very relgious:
good article,
http://www.albertmohler.com/2014/01/08/is-the-enemy-of-my-enemy-my-friend-an-old-question-in-a-new-age/
it's kind of a good subject for saturn in Sagittarius, surrounding religion, and how religion is linked to this.
* i mean they will take the chance.
for example, i was thinking of the Triad that formed, during ww2. Italy, Germany and Japan. they all formed a strong bond. triangles are symbolic of power.
Even J.K.Rowling refers alot to triangles (in friendship too with Hermione, Harry and Ron) because it forms power.
for example, i was thinking of the Triad that formed, during ww2. Italy, Germany and Japan. they all formed a strong bond. triangles are symbolic of power.
Even J.K.Rowling refers alot to triangles (in friendship too with Hermione, Harry and Ron) because it forms power.
Agree about the wars but in this life the sentence is wrong.
Or incorrect so to speak...
Or incorrect so to speak...
Posted by KoniuchaAnd the enemy of your friend... is that also your enemy?
Friend of my enemy is my enemy, for sure
I think we had a thread on that, before.
Very interesting.
Posted by lisabethur8Oh yeah.. a trinity.
* i mean they will take the chance.
for example, i was thinking of the Triad that formed, during ww2. Italy, Germany and Japan. they all formed a strong bond. triangles are symbolic of power.
Even J.K.Rowling refers alot to triangles (in friendship too with Hermione, Harry and Ron) because it forms power.
A cord of three strands not easily broken.
Good point.
Posted by KoniuchaSame.Posted by MontgomeryYesPosted by KoniuchaAnd the enemy of your friend... is that also your enemy?
Friend of my enemy is my enemy, for sure
I think we had a thread on that, before.
Very interesting.
click to expand
A lot of people don't think that way though.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXYou can dislike same person and dislike the person who dislikes that person, right?
In most cases, I agree with this statement. If we dislike the same person you're pretty much cool in my book unless you f*ck that up.
So 2 no's don't make 1 yes. Well, not in every case.
I think that statement should not be used unless its a war. LOL
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXi'm like that in real life.
In most cases, I agree with this statement. If we dislike the same person you're pretty much cool in my book unless you f*ck that up.
if my husband likes someone i dont like, i am upset with him.
we are close me and my hubs, like bonded.
so i notice that i dont like and not comfortable with someone, he was friends with, he will DROP him.
i didnt even have to say anything!!!!!
that's psychic.
i mean i try really really hard not to say anything because i dont want to control who and what my hubs hangs out with once in awhile.
but if i'm not comfortable, it's like he knows deeply. So he doesn't hurt me....and all of a sudden he DROPS him.
but if i'm not comfortable, it's like he knows deeply. So he doesn't hurt me....and all of a sudden he DROPS him.
Posted by Montgomerynope. NOT many people think this way....Posted by KoniuchaSame.Posted by MontgomeryYesPosted by KoniuchaAnd the enemy of your friend... is that also your enemy?
Friend of my enemy is my enemy, for sure
I think we had a thread on that, before.
Very interesting.
A lot of people don't think that way though.
click to expand
it's RARE and beautiful.
Posted by lisabethur8What is beautiful?Posted by Montgomerynope. NOT many people think this way....Posted by KoniuchaSame.Posted by MontgomeryYesPosted by KoniuchaAnd the enemy of your friend... is that also your enemy?
Friend of my enemy is my enemy, for sure
I think we had a thread on that, before.
Very interesting.
A lot of people don't think that way though.
it's RARE and beautiful.click to expand
that a person you love emotionally understand without words, or arguments. it's a feeling.
Posted by lisabethur8I don't think this is what we are talking about here.
i mean i try really really hard not to say anything because i dont want to control who and what my hubs hangs out with once in awhile.
but if i'm not comfortable, it's like he knows deeply. So he doesn't hurt me....and all of a sudden he DROPS him.
What you are describing has nothing to do with enemies.
You just tell your husband who to hang out with, that is all.
Do YOU drop people he dislikes or he is not allowed to tell?
Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8I don't think this is what we are talking about here.
i mean i try really really hard not to say anything because i dont want to control who and what my hubs hangs out with once in awhile.
but if i'm not comfortable, it's like he knows deeply. So he doesn't hurt me....and all of a sudden he DROPS him.
What you are describing has nothing to do with enemies.
You just tell your husband who to hang out with, that is all.
Do YOU drop people he dislikes or he is not allowed to tell?click to expand
no i told you, i dont tell him to do anything.
you can't make a man do anything he dont want to do, remember that.
if he does stuff out of his own free will, that's his choice.
if he does stuff out of his own free will, that's his choice.
Posted by lisabethur8Bull. Person who loves another person will not control them like a high schooler.
that a person you love emotionally understand without words, or arguments. it's a feeling.
Posted by lisabethur8Sure you just puff your lipsies and look sadly or angry and he smart enough to get it.Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8I don't think this is what we are talking about here.
i mean i try really really hard not to say anything because i dont want to control who and what my hubs hangs out with once in awhile.
but if i'm not comfortable, it's like he knows deeply. So he doesn't hurt me....and all of a sudden he DROPS him.
What you are describing has nothing to do with enemies.
You just tell your husband who to hang out with, that is all.
Do YOU drop people he dislikes or he is not allowed to tell?
no i told you, i dont tell him to do anything.click to expand
Posted by Gemitati?? huh i just told you, i dont have to say anything.Posted by lisabethur8Bull. Person who loves another person will not control them like a high schooler.
that a person you love emotionally understand without words, or arguments. it's a feeling.
click to expand
Posted by Gemitatihe can go hang out with that person without me though. that's the point. I wont be upset. I love my husband, he is free to do what he wants.Posted by lisabethur8Sure you just puff your lipsies and look sadly or angry and he smart enough to get it.Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8I don't think this is what we are talking about here.
i mean i try really really hard not to say anything because i dont want to control who and what my hubs hangs out with once in awhile.
but if i'm not comfortable, it's like he knows deeply. So he doesn't hurt me....and all of a sudden he DROPS him.
What you are describing has nothing to do with enemies.
You just tell your husband who to hang out with, that is all.
Do YOU drop people he dislikes or he is not allowed to tell?
no i told you, i dont tell him to do anything.click to expand
in the past i would just say, naw, you hang out with him i dont want to go with you guys. so yes he gets my emotional cues. but i wont control him. He wont be with a controlling woman.
everything is free will.
Posted by lisabethur8May I ask what signs are creating such a beautiful union?Posted by Gemitatihe can go hang out with that person without me though. that's the point. I wont be upset. I love my husband, he is free to do what he wants.Posted by lisabethur8Sure you just puff your lipsies and look sadly or angry and he smart enough to get it.Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8I don't think this is what we are talking about here.
i mean i try really really hard not to say anything because i dont want to control who and what my hubs hangs out with once in awhile.
but if i'm not comfortable, it's like he knows deeply. So he doesn't hurt me....and all of a sudden he DROPS him.
What you are describing has nothing to do with enemies.
You just tell your husband who to hang out with, that is all.
Do YOU drop people he dislikes or he is not allowed to tell?
no i told you, i dont tell him to do anything.
in the past i would just say, naw, you hang out with him i dont want to go with you guys. so yes he gets my emotional cues. but i wont control him. He wont be with a controlling woman.
everything is free will.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8May I ask what signs are creating such a beautiful union?Posted by Gemitatihe can go hang out with that person without me though. that's the point. I wont be upset. I love my husband, he is free to do what he wants.Posted by lisabethur8Sure you just puff your lipsies and look sadly or angry and he smart enough to get it.Posted by GemitatiPosted by lisabethur8I don't think this is what we are talking about here.
i mean i try really really hard not to say anything because i dont want to control who and what my hubs hangs out with once in awhile.
but if i'm not comfortable, it's like he knows deeply. So he doesn't hurt me....and all of a sudden he DROPS him.
What you are describing has nothing to do with enemies.
You just tell your husband who to hang out with, that is all.
Do YOU drop people he dislikes or he is not allowed to tell?
no i told you, i dont tell him to do anything.
in the past i would just say, naw, you hang out with him i dont want to go with you guys. so yes he gets my emotional cues. but i wont control him. He wont be with a controlling woman.
everything is free will.click to expand
well....it has to be the water. only the water...
Posted by tizianiAgree but not always the case. 50/50?
2 no's can make 1 very big yes when the negatives are uneven. When you're forced to choose between two uneven negatives, out of that often comes a very big cathartic positive for everyone involved.
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