who's your father figure?

i think my father figure is my maternal grandfather.

my dad's okay but he was barely present when i was growing up. i only felt that he's really my dad when i was already in law school.

then my mum often tells how sweet, handsome, cheerful, and loving our grandfather was. my aunts also tell me that i got my genes from him.

i can really tell my aunts look up to him or something.

my dad didn't give me a single reason to look up to him even though he was a very successful person. too much humility, i guess.

my grandfather died in 1999 when i was 12. and i didn't really have a father figure since he was already too old when i was young. but i looked up to him and wanted to be like him. i even idolized him.

i think he really was my father figure.

My grandmother was my mother and my mother was my father. No wonder I was so fucked up. 😄

son goku

My dad.

But I guess that can be good or bad depending on how you look at it