Women and drama

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Stihl46
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Why in the h*ll do women cause drama in a man's life? I live in a drama free zone the way I like it? TREE TRUNKING why does she have to cause drama in my life I'm getting sick of the drama I'm not her boyfriend nor I want to be leave me alone for tree trunk sakes.

So what it is with woman and drama? Your not happy in your life so you want to make the guy in your life not happy?

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Posted by Stihl46
Why in the h*ll do women cause drama in a man's life? I live in a drama free zone the way I like it? TREE TRUNKING why does she have to cause drama in my life I'm getting sick of the drama I'm not her boyfriend nor I want to be leave me alone for tree trunk sakes.

So what it is with woman and drama? Your not happy in your life so you want to make the guy in your life not happy?



You're not her boyfriend but you're the man in her life?

Ok, whatever.

You sleeping with her?

If you are and you can't man up to being her boyfriend, you're asking for drama. You love it, actually.
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Stop generalizing. My drama happens in a safe corner in my own head where I am both the antagonist and the protagonist. I keep to myself. Actually, you reek of papa drama bama so it's not wonder you're attracting it! It's true that people try to suck you into things, but of you have almost no contact, you may have some sanity to cling to, that is, before the voices on your head try to get to it...

Did you know that goldfish don't have stomachs?
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Posted by MoonArtist
You sought the drama out. She's dating another guy, but you obsess about her and his relationship. She's a scorpio...you didn't think she might get sick of you interfering?



She isn't happy in her life so she wants to make me the same, I have changed things in my life I'm happy again. Her relationship isn't healthy if they were happy together she would look happy they both look miserable. They have no long term plans that involve each other no plans of seeing each other more than dating. Lets put it this way their relationship is as toxic as it can get I don't want any part of it her little toxic stew is spilling over the pot and burning me.

I'm trying to cut her out of my life, I stop paying attention to her things are nice and quiet in my life then she decides to cause some drama. Its happened so many time now I'm considering legal action I don't want to go that far but I may have too. In my whole life I have never had to consider taking legal action against a woman I know. She doesn't have the money to afford to hire a lawyer I would end up crushing her she barely makes enough money to survive.

If she would leave me alone things would be fine but she can't leave me alone if she truly didn't care about me she wouldn't be trying to cause butter in my life. When I think I don't have to worry about getting my life turned upside down she does it causes a bunch of butter between us. I have a pretty good tolerance level that's run out now I'm angry.





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Lame sauce for trying to get us to dig for info. You'll talk just enough vague crap about her but you'll only give details in private.

Here is the back story. He has the hots for a scorpio chick at his work who is dating a Gemini. Supposedly she's using the Gem for money, but goes moon eyed and weak kneed around the OP. OP has so much penis envy towards Gem that he constantly appraises the man's physique, manners, friendships, etc. OP obsesses about scorpio but claims she won't leave him alone. Op waxes poetic about his own mega awesome merits. OP waxes more poetic about how much moon eyes scorpio makes at him. At some point OP makes moon eyes at Gem's ass. Gem's ass is oblivious, but accidentally winks, and now OP is confused. His confusion turns to anger. He wants revenge. Poor OP and his drama.
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Posted by MoonArtist
Lame sauce for trying to get us to dig for info. You'll talk just enough vague crap about her but you'll only give details in private.

Here is the back story. He has the hots for a scorpio chick at his work who is dating a Gemini. Supposedly she's using the Gem for money, but goes moon eyed and weak kneed around the OP. OP has so much penis envy towards Gem that he constantly appraises the man's physique, manners, friendships, etc. OP obsesses about scorpio but claims she won't leave him alone. Op waxes poetic about his own mega awesome merits. OP waxes more poetic about how much moon eyes scorpio makes at him. At some point OP makes moon eyes at Gem's ass. Gem's ass is oblivious, but accidentally winks, and now OP is confused. His confusion turns to anger. He wants revenge. Poor OP and his drama.



He's been at it since I first joined dxp in August 2014. That's almost 6 mths, almost the same story, not moving in any direction, many, many,MANY threads made about the same woman. Advice given by numerous people during those 6 months. Most of which have probably gone unheeded.

6 MONTHS.
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^This. We've been trying to help.
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Karma is coming it will be coming to haunt her she will realize you never tree trunk with a man that has a lot of friends. The people that know both of us are blackballing her it won't be long she won't have anybody that will talk to her. Even better its making her BF look bad people that know the 3 of us are not talking to her BF either.

With myself being a cancer man I make friends easily I always leave a good impression on people, I have people that meet me once they remember who I'm when I meet them again. She has been with me and has said to me how many people know you, she sees the people that come and talk to me or say hello using my name. She doesn't make friends easily she p*sses people off so easily, rubs a person the wrong way they want nothing to do with her. She talks about how many people dislike her, she says she doesn't care if people don't like her. People that I have known for years meet her for the first time and they have an almost instant dislike for her. Not sure how she can look around and not feel lonely she has nobody.

I know about her past she's gone through her whole life getting rejected and rejecting people out of her life. She has very few people that are close to her one of them would be her mom her father could be dead she could careless about him.

I wish she would cut me off, she won't do it she keeps coming back I've tried cutting her off she gets angry causes butter in my life so I pay attention to her. I walk away she follows I wish she would stand there and watch me walk out of her life.



she doesn't make friends easily she rubs people the wrong way and they want nothing to do with her.
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Posted by caliber
does it count when the dip shit calling you is a chick...and just a friend you no longer wanna talk to? i got 115 calls in one night. yes. 115. she called for 4 motherfucking hours straight.

and then continued to try to contact me on and off for the next 2 years.. i haven't heard from her in about 7/8 months. but i have a habit of jinxing myself. typing this alone is going to make her text me.

😭



yup u just spoke it into existence
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Clearly the poor girl obsessed with Kevin should seek professional help, but still: she asks him if shes just a piece of ass, and he never comes out and say it. She ofcours should figure out for her self, but sometimes the pussy -like dawgs like Kevin are afraid to call an easy lay what it is. And that can make anyone insane looking for at least the respect of being honest and not continually trying to save their own ass.