Gemini Moon...

I read this and feel identified 100% but I also found that most of these characteristics are for Aquarius.

I'm an Aqua with Aqua Sun Gemini Moon...

Cool, Witty, Changeable

People born with the Moon in Gemini are always changing their mood. they are not necessarily “moody”, they just don’t go that deep into one emotion before switching to the next. They prefer to keep things light and easy. They are usually very cool and charming. When something bothers them, they intellectualize their problems before responding emotionally. By the time they begin to understand why they are bothered they have already moved on to a different emotion. They can be very hard to read and hard to follow. They are always changing.

They may seem a a little dishonest. They change their feelings so fast people wonder if they ever really felt anything at all.

They are very curious and their heart gets pulled in so many different directions. They may literally love someone one day, honestly. But feel nothing for them the next day. They follow whatever their heart feels at that specific moment and go wherever the day takes them.

These can be very flighty, flaky people.

They have to be careful not to come off as cold, insensitive, rude. They can come off as very superficial and shallow - because essentially they are. They don’t like to go deep into emotions. They like to keep everything at surface level.

People born with this placement tend to love talking, sharing, and meeting new people. They are very social and tend to have a knack for easily meeting and impressing new people. They have a gift for communication. Writing, speaking, reading comes vey naturally to them and they probably love doing it. They usually make excellent, speakers, writers, actors. They are sometimes multi-lingual or are drawn to people who are. They love small talk, gossip, and getting around. They feel most comfortable when they can just meet new people and chit chat.

People with Moon in Gemini often have a knack for being very funny. Probably as an aversion to facing their pain, they develop a quick sense of humor. They are very perceptive to the behavior of others and are often great at imitating it. They often laugh to keep from feeling. They love making people laugh because it keeps things light and easy.

Their mother was probably very emotionally distant. She probably engaged them with lots of games and activities. She may not have been very physically nurturing. She may have nurtured them by talking to them, relating to them. She may have been more of a friend than a mother.

As parents they may be a little cold and distant. Be assured they will love their children very much, but they won’t be the types to smother them with hugs and kisses. They may always want to keep it fun and may not want to get their hands dirty with the more serious parts of parenting. They have to really try hard not to run away and turn cold when the going gets tough.

People with Moon in Gemini may move many times. They may even be the types to travel for a living. They feel very comfortable seeing new places, trying new things. They never get too attached to their place of residence. They are always on the go.

They do best in large airy spaces with lots of space. Moon in Gemini people need lots of space to feel good. They have a lot of personal freedom and do not like to be weighed down with a lot of clutter and relics of old times. They are always looking at what’s next and their homes may often be very trendy. They may always be redecorating and moving things around. Everything is always in motion in their home and in their lives

It is my placement as well, and my favorite. I feel this placement is what people like about me. I've read this before, and a lot applies to me as well.

Gem and Aqua are both wind signs and will share many characteristics, especially on the communicative and intellectual side of things. However, Gem is far more eccentric, I feel the wind+mutable makes them so whereas Aqua is fixed with more sustained energy instead of erratic, but I also think that allows their emotions to run much deeper than Gems.

That's just my own personal analysis.

Posted by Crabra
It is my placement as well, and my favorite. I feel this placement is what people like about me. I've read this before, and a lot applies to me as well.

Gem and Aqua are both wind signs and will share many characteristics, especially on the communicative and intellectual side of things. However, Gem is far more eccentric, I feel the wind+mutable makes them so whereas Aqua is fixed with more sustained energy instead of erratic, but I also think that allows their emotions to run much deeper than Gems.

That's just my own personal analysis.

Yes, I have very deep emotions when I truly like someone which doesn't happen often. otherwise I'm just detached. Is hard for me to be romantic.. I wish I had a bit more of that but yes I love this placement mostly in the way that we are open to change and travel. 🙂

My Cancer sun placement makes me less fond of change and travel. I'm still open to it, but it can be very uncomfortable. Where I think my moon placement comes in here is it makes me very adaptable to any area I would relocate or travel to.

I don't need to go into my emotions as a Cancer sun. I think you can imagine how they are, combined with the eccentricity of a Gem moon. :p

I know only one or two people with Gemini moons - the first guy has serious behavior issues and always gets on my nerves, the other guy is slightly better behaving but tends to be a tad bit annoying at times.

Both of them are Taurus Suns.

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My Cancer sun placement makes me less fond of change and travel. I'm still open to it, but it can be very uncomfortable. Where I think my moon placement comes in here is it makes me very adaptable to any area I would relocate or travel to.

I don't need to go into my emotions as a Cancer sun. I think you can imagine how they are, combined with the eccentricity of a Gem moon. :p

I love traveling, I've been the backpacker in a country I know nothing about. lol and loved it.

My best friend is a Cancer and I know how that goes!!! Haha she does give me advice and thinks I'm very cold and detached lol.

Your placements sound very intriguing!!!

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I know only one or two people with Gemini moons - the first guy has serious behavior issues and always gets on my nerves, the other guy is slightly better behaving but tends to be a tad bit annoying at times.

Both of them are Taurus Suns.

Hmm...I think Taurus sun with Gemini is a complicated placement. Taurus are passive and stubborn with the detachment and coldness of the gemini.. Taurus aren't very happy with a lot of change so that's probably why they have the twist in their behavior.

you know, I haven red the whole thing. I just kinda skimmed thru it. I will read the whole thing through whenever I find the attention span. as far as that loving to make people laugh to keep things light and easy is me to a tee. I can relate to some of the others just somewhat. not a lot. that small talk I can't relate to at all.

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My Cancer sun placement makes me less fond of change and travel. I'm still open to it, but it can be very uncomfortable. Where I think my moon placement comes in here is it makes me very adaptable to any area I would relocate or travel to.

I don't need to go into my emotions as a Cancer sun. I think you can imagine how they are, combined with the eccentricity of a Gem moon. :p

I love traveling, I've been the backpacker in a country I know nothing about. lol and loved it.

My best friend is a Cancer and I know how that goes!!! Haha she does give me advice and thinks I'm very cold and detached lol.

Your placements sound very intriguing!!!

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I feel that way about most Aquas I have met. Detached yes, but there is much more to you guys than what appears on the surface. I wonder if your Cancer buddy can sense the emotions you keep locked away, despite that she tells you that you are cold and detached.

I have a lot of Gem placements including Moon, Venus, Jupiter, and NN. Oddly, I have just one Cancer placement, but it is a strong one!

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Yes, I have very deep emotions when I truly like someone which doesn't happen often. otherwise I'm just detached. Is hard for me to be romantic.. I wish I had a bit more of that but yes I love this placement mostly in the way that we are open to change and travel. 🙂

Actually I love to be romantic but not in a verbally expressive way...unless I feel comfortable and emotionally safe. But I can write romantic poems, do surprise dinners/lunches, leave little notes around the house, surprise you with gifts, trips, and what not and go out of my way for you.

I feel like this relates to me better:

Sun in Aquarius, Moon in Gemini

Your Sun and Moon combined produces, quite surprisingly, a romantic personality. Idealism is strong, mixed with some critical tendencies. A romantic, but definitely living more by your mind that by your senses. You dramatize life and yourself, often expanding and enhancing the facts of a matter, idealizing love affairs and life in general. You rarely exclude much of the fat from your stories. The Aquarius/Gemini mix yields a very harmonious and versatile combination, blending the independence and originality of the Aquarius, with the wit, versatility, and intellectuality of Gemini. Intellectually you are quick, apt, and intuitive, but with a tendency to skim only the surface of most subjects you encounter. In the real world business, this can be a handicap. Your attention span is rather short. It's hard to pin you down to reality, and you can easily find yourself drifting in life. If this is not so in business, then it probably is in your personal life. Having and holding a fixed purpose can be a problem. Actually, however, your nature is truly much more fixed than it appears. Success depends on emphasizing the decisive potential in your nature, and becoming involved in some form of creative activity that allows you to express yourself mentally. You put facts and ideas together so quickly that you are a natural for advertising, writing, public speaking, or in just about any kind of job that allows you to live by your wit. You tire easily of routine and detail. There is a duality in your nature that shows rapid changes in moods and attitudes. You change your mind often and abruptly. Companionship is extremely important to you. You need someone to talk to constantly, and that someone must be mentally compatible and stimulating to your intellectual growth and cultural achievement.

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I am romantic in that way... I love buying gifts and all too!! I guess that's why it's said that we are a masculine sign.

my Cancer friend is romantic in a different way...more like corny type.

I love writing too! haha he was right we could be good friends! we should share some of our writings! (mine I keep private, no one really knows I write)



I like the post, yes that goes with me too but ostly on my daily routine, When my Gemini moon hits I start doing everything else... I do travel a few times a year (I need my getaways)I change the decor in my house at least once a year ?

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My Cancer sun placement makes me less fond of change and travel. I'm still open to it, but it can be very uncomfortable. Where I think my moon placement comes in here is it makes me very adaptable to any area I would relocate or travel to.

I don't need to go into my emotions as a Cancer sun. I think you can imagine how they are, combined with the eccentricity of a Gem moon. :p

I love traveling, I've been the backpacker in a country I know nothing about. lol and loved it.

My best friend is a Cancer and I know how that goes!!! Haha she does give me advice and thinks I'm very cold and detached lol.

Your placements sound very intriguing!!!

I feel that way about most Aquas I have met. Detached yes, but there is much more to you guys than what appears on the surface. I wonder if your Cancer buddy can sense the emotions you keep locked away, despite that she tells you that you are cold and detached.

I have a lot of Gem placements including Moon, Venus, Jupiter, and NN. Oddly, I have just one Cancer placement, but it is a strong one!

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She does!!! but she says that I confuse her a lot, because sometimes I meet a guy and get really into him but mostly fascinated by the love affair, these are usually controversial relationships and she thinks I'm already in love so she says that I fall quick for guys, a few months later I'm done and moving on..then she's like WTF! how are you moving on so quick? I thought you liked the guy you talked about him and seemed excited to see him etc. I told her that is just a good time and done.. (this is when we are detached) she usually falls for the wrong guys... I play along with the wrong guys.

Lately there's this Cap man who has me on my toes, and she says that she can tell that I do like him a lot because I've been patient and always analyzing the situation, she has seen me more vulnerable when it comes to him.

We make a good BFF couple, I try to bring her down from the clouds when she's hung up on a guy who doesn't appreciate her and give her assurance when she doubts the one who does! ?

We don't show our emotions to just any person.

I've probably posted more about myself here on the forums than what I've told most of my "friends" except my Cancer friend, it's been 12 yrs at least and it took me yearssss to show my true emotions to her.

I have another Aqua, 3 Sagittarius placements!! the rest vary..

No cancer, Virgo, libra or leo at all.

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this sounds pretty much like my taurus sun, gemini moon ex...

Must be a Gemini thing because my father wrote a lot of poems and love notes to my mother when they were dating. My mom has a trunk full of them.

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Aww that's so sweet!!! Aqua Guys aren't usually that open emotionally.

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I am romantic in that way... I love buying gifts and all too!! I guess that's why it's said that we are a masculine sign.

my Cancer friend is romantic in a different way...more like corny type.

I love writing too! haha he was right we could be good friends! we should share some of our writings! (mine I keep private, no one really knows I write)



I like the post, yes that goes with me too but ostly on my daily routine, When my Gemini moon hits I start doing everything else... I do travel a few times a year (I need my getaways)I change the decor in my house at least once a year ?

Yes my friend is a Cancer and she is corny. Lol

Yes, yes and yes! I also keep my writings to myself. It's funny because when I write I end up rhyming without me wanting too. I have journals, pieces of paper, I date time and sign each and everyone. Everytime I'm upset to the point of blowing up tears, sad, or extremely overjoyed with love...I write. It helps cope with all the emotional intensity I feel inside. Since I'm not open to express myself verbally, I do so in writing. It really helps keep my sanity in check. Most might say I don't feel...but if you'd read my journal entries, you'd never guess it was me. I can be a whole different person in writing...very expressive, romantic, and passionate.

I also love traveling l, interacting with people, I pick up on languages really quickly. I'm always upgrading, moving my furniture, or looking for ways to update my house. I read somewhere that Geminis aren't into house chores but are into rennovating. I can so relate. Lol

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I'm shocked Hahaha we are so much alike!!!!

I don't really date and time them but I don't really keep much of them. I usually read them over again a few months or year later and if I don't feel the same feeling I had when I wrote it, I delete it. Because I most of thr time i wtite about a person. how i feel or encounters. if at that moment it doesn't mean anything to me anymore and I find it weird that it was about that person. This is why when I cut people off I cut them off forever lol

Same way I'm not that open emotionally and I use it as a way to vent, analyze the situation and think about it. That's why here I write so much Hahaha,— if you see my posts are lonnnggg.. and then at the end I realize so I've been told that I answer my own questions haha or they're just confused ?

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My Cancer sun placement makes me less fond of change and travel. I'm still open to it, but it can be very uncomfortable. Where I think my moon placement comes in here is it makes me very adaptable to any area I would relocate or travel to.

I don't need to go into my emotions as a Cancer sun. I think you can imagine how they are, combined with the eccentricity of a Gem moon. :p

I love traveling, I've been the backpacker in a country I know nothing about. lol and loved it.

My best friend is a Cancer and I know how that goes!!! Haha she does give me advice and thinks I'm very cold and detached lol.

Your placements sound very intriguing!!!

I feel that way about most Aquas I have met. Detached yes, but there is much more to you guys than what appears on the surface. I wonder if your Cancer buddy can sense the emotions you keep locked away, despite that she tells you that you are cold and detached.

I have a lot of Gem placements including Moon, Venus, Jupiter, and NN. Oddly, I have just one Cancer placement, but it is a strong one!

She does!!! but she says that I confuse her a lot, because sometimes I meet a guy and get really into him but mostly fascinated by the love affair, these are usually controversial relationships and she thinks I'm already in love so she says that I fall quick for guys, a few months later I'm done and moving on..then she's like WTF! how are you moving on so quick? I thought you liked the guy you talked about him and seemed excited to see him etc. I told her that is just a good time and done.. (this is when we are detached) she usually falls for the wrong guys... I play along with the wrong guys.

Lately there's this Cap man who has me on my toes, and she says that she can tell that I do like him a lot because I've been patient and always analyzing the situation, she has seen me more vulnerable when it comes to him.

We make a good BFF couple, I try to bring her down from the clouds when she's hung up on a guy who doesn't appreciate her and give her assurance when she doubts the one who does! ?

We don't show our emotions to just any person.

I've probably posted more about myself here on the forums than what I've told most of my "friends" except my Cancer friend, it's been 12 yrs at least and it took me yearssss to show my true emotions to her.

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The confusion is likely from being hot and cold. My experience with Aquas is they really know how to make you value their affection. When they give it, it can melt steel like butter on a stove. Problems usually arise when you take it too far with being distant and cold, after giving this kind of affection. If given to a water sign like Cancer, it can be troublesome.

Gem moons can seriously want to be with someone one day, and be totally annoyed by them the next. I completely relate to you here. It is a very fickle placement and it why we get such a bad rep. The upside is there will rarely be a dull moment with a Gem moon. We are infectiously fun and interesting Funny how you mention a cap man has you on your toes as I currently have a cap gal keeping me on mine. Strange is the world of fondness.

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this sounds pretty much like my taurus sun, gemini moon ex...

Must be a Gemini thing because my father wrote a lot of poems and love notes to my mother when they were dating. My mom has a trunk full of them.

Aww that's so sweet!!! Aqua Guys aren't usually that open emotionally.

Yeah there not. But my daddy is a Gemini and my mom a Taurus. Lol can you imagine if she would have ended up with an Aquarius?

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I know how that could be like! my mom is an aquarius and my dad is a Taurus! haha ?

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this sounds pretty much like my taurus sun, gemini moon ex...

Must be a Gemini thing because my father wrote a lot of poems and love notes to my mother when they were dating. My mom has a trunk full of them.

Aww that's so sweet!!! Aqua Guys aren't usually that open emotionally.

Yeah there not. But my daddy is a Gemini and my mom a Taurus. Lol can you imagine if she would have ended up with an Aquarius?

I know how that could be like! my mom is an aquarius and my dad is a Taurus! haha ?

Lol ? no way!! Too much stubbornness in one household

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I know!!! I dont know how they were able to be together for so long! they got separated because of distance and probably other things I dont know but I never put my nose in their business.

My best friend (male) is a Taurus, we talk every day, he gets on my nerves sometimes and I know i get on his nerves too! we are very open to communication and say whatever we want to each other without hurting our feelings, neither of us accepts when we are wrong, we just prove why we are right hahaha!

I dont think we could be a couple, we would probably fight and push each other buttons all the time! haha

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My Cancer sun placement makes me less fond of change and travel. I'm still open to it, but it can be very uncomfortable. Where I think my moon placement comes in here is it makes me very adaptable to any area I would relocate or travel to.

I don't need to go into my emotions as a Cancer sun. I think you can imagine how they are, combined with the eccentricity of a Gem moon. :p

I love traveling, I've been the backpacker in a country I know nothing about. lol and loved it.

My best friend is a Cancer and I know how that goes!!! Haha she does give me advice and thinks I'm very cold and detached lol.

Your placements sound very intriguing!!!

I feel that way about most Aquas I have met. Detached yes, but there is much more to you guys than what appears on the surface. I wonder if your Cancer buddy can sense the emotions you keep locked away, despite that she tells you that you are cold and detached.

I have a lot of Gem placements including Moon, Venus, Jupiter, and NN. Oddly, I have just one Cancer placement, but it is a strong one!

She does!!! but she says that I confuse her a lot, because sometimes I meet a guy and get really into him but mostly fascinated by the love affair, these are usually controversial relationships and she thinks I'm already in love so she says that I fall quick for guys, a few months later I'm done and moving on..then she's like WTF! how are you moving on so quick? I thought you liked the guy you talked about him and seemed excited to see him etc. I told her that is just a good time and done.. (this is when we are detached) she usually falls for the wrong guys... I play along with the wrong guys.

Lately there's this Cap man who has me on my toes, and she says that she can tell that I do like him a lot because I've been patient and always analyzing the situation, she has seen me more vulnerable when it comes to him.

We make a good BFF couple, I try to bring her down from the clouds when she's hung up on a guy who doesn't appreciate her and give her assurance when she doubts the one who does! ?

We don't show our emotions to just any person.

I've probably posted more about myself here on the forums than what I've told most of my "friends" except my Cancer friend, it's been 12 yrs at least and it took me yearssss to show my true emotions to her.

The confusion is likely from being hot and cold. My experience with Aquas is they really know how to make you value their affection. When they give it, it can melt steel like butter on a stove. Problems usually arise when you take it too far with being distant and cold, after giving this kind of affection. If given to a water sign like Cancer, it can be troublesome.

Gem moons can seriously want to be with someone one day, and be totally annoyed by them the next. I completely relate to you here. It is a very fickle placement and it why we get such a bad rep. The upside is there will rarely be a dull moment with a Gem moon. We are infectiously fun and interesting Funny how you mention a cap man has you on your toes as I currently have a cap gal keeping me on mine. Strange is the world of fondness.

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You just made me question the things I do and my actions with the people I like, yes I move mountains for them yet I can be cold and distant which yes is confusing.

I know we can be very fun people!! everyone enjoys being around us and we make it all fun. I hate drama so I rather always be happy and joyful around the people i like!

Yes!! omg how is it going with the Cap woman? Does she drive you nuts? because mine does haha sometimes I wanna turn my back on him and leave but then I cant because I feel so comfortable around him. 😢

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you know, I haven red the whole thing. I just kinda skimmed thru it. I will read the whole thing through whenever I find the attention span. as far as that loving to make people laugh to keep things light and easy is me to a tee. I can relate to some of the others just somewhat. not a lot. that small talk I can't relate to at all.

I have small talks around the people I like, I dont know what to say sometimes, which is not me at all! 😢

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you know, I haven red the whole thing. I just kinda skimmed thru it. I will read the whole thing through whenever I find the attention span. as far as that loving to make people laugh to keep things light and easy is me to a tee. I can relate to some of the others just somewhat. not a lot. that small talk I can't relate to at all.

I have small talks around the people I like, I dont know what to say sometimes, which is not me at all! 😢

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I thought small talks would be related to Gemini mercuries. its probably why I don't like it and don't talk much but prefer to stay quiet because my mercury is in cancer on the cusp of the 9th and 10th houses. and what do you mean? I don't understand what you said.

pisces sun gem moon here! ?

constantly jumping bw emotions and logic are my skills lmao. I can blow up at you one moment in a moment of passion and not even 5 seconds later I am over it bc my logic trumped my emotions.

it can be a little superficial but if i really like you ill be there for you - no matter how awkward it feels to me to comfort someone else if that makes sense??

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My Cancer sun placement makes me less fond of change and travel. I'm still open to it, but it can be very uncomfortable. Where I think my moon placement comes in here is it makes me very adaptable to any area I would relocate or travel to.

I don't need to go into my emotions as a Cancer sun. I think you can imagine how they are, combined with the eccentricity of a Gem moon. :p

I love traveling, I've been the backpacker in a country I know nothing about. lol and loved it.

My best friend is a Cancer and I know how that goes!!! Haha she does give me advice and thinks I'm very cold and detached lol.

Your placements sound very intriguing!!!

I feel that way about most Aquas I have met. Detached yes, but there is much more to you guys than what appears on the surface. I wonder if your Cancer buddy can sense the emotions you keep locked away, despite that she tells you that you are cold and detached.

I have a lot of Gem placements including Moon, Venus, Jupiter, and NN. Oddly, I have just one Cancer placement, but it is a strong one!

She does!!! but she says that I confuse her a lot, because sometimes I meet a guy and get really into him but mostly fascinated by the love affair, these are usually controversial relationships and she thinks I'm already in love so she says that I fall quick for guys, a few months later I'm done and moving on..then she's like WTF! how are you moving on so quick? I thought you liked the guy you talked about him and seemed excited to see him etc. I told her that is just a good time and done.. (this is when we are detached) she usually falls for the wrong guys... I play along with the wrong guys.

Lately there's this Cap man who has me on my toes, and she says that she can tell that I do like him a lot because I've been patient and always analyzing the situation, she has seen me more vulnerable when it comes to him.

We make a good BFF couple, I try to bring her down from the clouds when she's hung up on a guy who doesn't appreciate her and give her assurance when she doubts the one who does! ?

We don't show our emotions to just any person.

I've probably posted more about myself here on the forums than what I've told most of my "friends" except my Cancer friend, it's been 12 yrs at least and it took me yearssss to show my true emotions to her.

The confusion is likely from being hot and cold. My experience with Aquas is they really know how to make you value their affection. When they give it, it can melt steel like butter on a stove. Problems usually arise when you take it too far with being distant and cold, after giving this kind of affection. If given to a water sign like Cancer, it can be troublesome.

Gem moons can seriously want to be with someone one day, and be totally annoyed by them the next. I completely relate to you here. It is a very fickle placement and it why we get such a bad rep. The upside is there will rarely be a dull moment with a Gem moon. We are infectiously fun and interesting Funny how you mention a cap man has you on your toes as I currently have a cap gal keeping me on mine. Strange is the world of fondness.

You just made me question the things I do and my actions with the people I like, yes I move mountains for them yet I can be cold and distant which yes is confusing.

I know we can be very fun people!! everyone enjoys being around us and we make it all fun. I hate drama so I rather always be happy and joyful around the people i like!

Yes!! omg how is it going with the Cap woman? Does she drive you nuts? because mine does haha sometimes I wanna turn my back on him and leave but then I cant because I feel so comfortable around him. 😢

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Yup, I am the same way and can't be around Debbie-downers. As for drama, I am not a big fan of it when I am involved. However, other people's drama is like entertainment for me! If your Gem moon gives you the same kind of energy it gives me then you are at home in chaos. Orderly is such a bore!

The cap girl and I are friends, and pretty comfortable with each other. I've been trying to gauge if she is interested or not. It is likely the latter since I have a very long history of not having my feelings reciprocated by those I really like, so I see no reason for it to suddenly change. Every once in a while though, she does or says something that makes me hopeful, but this quickly goes away. 😐

I do wish you luck with your Cap guy though. How far have you pursued things with him?

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pisces sun gem moon here! ?

constantly jumping bw emotions and logic are my skills lmao. I can blow up at you one moment in a moment of passion and not even 5 seconds later I am over it bc my logic trumped my emotions.

it can be a little superficial but if i really like you ill be there for you - no matter how awkward it feels to me to comfort someone else if that makes sense??

Totally undertand!! I think things through before my emotions notice.. I have a Pisces friend and she's is overly emotional! ? I hide when she's like that bc I know is not a big deal haha

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My Cancer sun placement makes me less fond of change and travel. I'm still open to it, but it can be very uncomfortable. Where I think my moon placement comes in here is it makes me very adaptable to any area I would relocate or travel to.

I don't need to go into my emotions as a Cancer sun. I think you can imagine how they are, combined with the eccentricity of a Gem moon. :p

I love traveling, I've been the backpacker in a country I know nothing about. lol and loved it.

My best friend is a Cancer and I know how that goes!!! Haha she does give me advice and thinks I'm very cold and detached lol.

Your placements sound very intriguing!!!

I feel that way about most Aquas I have met. Detached yes, but there is much more to you guys than what appears on the surface. I wonder if your Cancer buddy can sense the emotions you keep locked away, despite that she tells you that you are cold and detached.

I have a lot of Gem placements including Moon, Venus, Jupiter, and NN. Oddly, I have just one Cancer placement, but it is a strong one!

She does!!! but she says that I confuse her a lot, because sometimes I meet a guy and get really into him but mostly fascinated by the love affair, these are usually controversial relationships and she thinks I'm already in love so she says that I fall quick for guys, a few months later I'm done and moving on..then she's like WTF! how are you moving on so quick? I thought you liked the guy you talked about him and seemed excited to see him etc. I told her that is just a good time and done.. (this is when we are detached) she usually falls for the wrong guys... I play along with the wrong guys.

Lately there's this Cap man who has me on my toes, and she says that she can tell that I do like him a lot because I've been patient and always analyzing the situation, she has seen me more vulnerable when it comes to him.

We make a good BFF couple, I try to bring her down from the clouds when she's hung up on a guy who doesn't appreciate her and give her assurance when she doubts the one who does! ?

We don't show our emotions to just any person.

I've probably posted more about myself here on the forums than what I've told most of my "friends" except my Cancer friend, it's been 12 yrs at least and it took me yearssss to show my true emotions to her.

The confusion is likely from being hot and cold. My experience with Aquas is they really know how to make you value their affection. When they give it, it can melt steel like butter on a stove. Problems usually arise when you take it too far with being distant and cold, after giving this kind of affection. If given to a water sign like Cancer, it can be troublesome.

Gem moons can seriously want to be with someone one day, and be totally annoyed by them the next. I completely relate to you here. It is a very fickle placement and it why we get such a bad rep. The upside is there will rarely be a dull moment with a Gem moon. We are infectiously fun and interesting Funny how you mention a cap man has you on your toes as I currently have a cap gal keeping me on mine. Strange is the world of fondness.

You just made me question the things I do and my actions with the people I like, yes I move mountains for them yet I can be cold and distant which yes is confusing.

I know we can be very fun people!! everyone enjoys being around us and we make it all fun. I hate drama so I rather always be happy and joyful around the people i like!

Yes!! omg how is it going with the Cap woman? Does she drive you nuts? because mine does haha sometimes I wanna turn my back on him and leave but then I cant because I feel so comfortable around him. 😢

Yup, I am the same way and can't be around Debbie-downers. As for drama, I am not a big fan of it when I am involved. However, other people's drama is like entertainment for me! If your Gem moon gives you the same kind of energy it gives me then you are at home in chaos. Orderly is such a bore!

The cap girl and I are friends, and pretty comfortable with each other. I've been trying to gauge if she is interested or not. It is likely the latter since I have a very long history of not having my feelings reciprocated by those I really like, so I see no reason for it to suddenly change. Every once in a while though, she does or says something that makes me hopeful, but this quickly goes away. 😐

I do wish you luck with your Cap guy though. How far have you pursued things with him?

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If you are beginning with "I have a long story of not having my feelings reciprocated" you are already putting the negativity on yourself.

if she does or says things like flirting you have to open up a little more to her so she sees that you like her too and maybe that will get things moving.

With my Cap we started by meeting and things just were flowing good, we slept together the same day... ??

We have a strong connection but physically he comes and goes... or basically he's just there waiting for me to show interest and he reciprocates, but sometimes initiates.

Lately we are being more open with each other when we talk and go out. so hopefully it will turn out good. 🙂

Good luck and try to court her, I know Cap women aren't easy and they like guys who court them. They are very romantic so try to get her side. 🙂

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My Cancer sun placement makes me less fond of change and travel. I'm still open to it, but it can be very uncomfortable. Where I think my moon placement comes in here is it makes me very adaptable to any area I would relocate or travel to.

I don't need to go into my emotions as a Cancer sun. I think you can imagine how they are, combined with the eccentricity of a Gem moon. :p

I love traveling, I've been the backpacker in a country I know nothing about. lol and loved it.

My best friend is a Cancer and I know how that goes!!! Haha she does give me advice and thinks I'm very cold and detached lol.

Your placements sound very intriguing!!!

I feel that way about most Aquas I have met. Detached yes, but there is much more to you guys than what appears on the surface. I wonder if your Cancer buddy can sense the emotions you keep locked away, despite that she tells you that you are cold and detached.

I have a lot of Gem placements including Moon, Venus, Jupiter, and NN. Oddly, I have just one Cancer placement, but it is a strong one!

She does!!! but she says that I confuse her a lot, because sometimes I meet a guy and get really into him but mostly fascinated by the love affair, these are usually controversial relationships and she thinks I'm already in love so she says that I fall quick for guys, a few months later I'm done and moving on..then she's like WTF! how are you moving on so quick? I thought you liked the guy you talked about him and seemed excited to see him etc. I told her that is just a good time and done.. (this is when we are detached) she usually falls for the wrong guys... I play along with the wrong guys.

Lately there's this Cap man who has me on my toes, and she says that she can tell that I do like him a lot because I've been patient and always analyzing the situation, she has seen me more vulnerable when it comes to him.

We make a good BFF couple, I try to bring her down from the clouds when she's hung up on a guy who doesn't appreciate her and give her assurance when she doubts the one who does! ?

We don't show our emotions to just any person.

I've probably posted more about myself here on the forums than what I've told most of my "friends" except my Cancer friend, it's been 12 yrs at least and it took me yearssss to show my true emotions to her.

The confusion is likely from being hot and cold. My experience with Aquas is they really know how to make you value their affection. When they give it, it can melt steel like butter on a stove. Problems usually arise when you take it too far with being distant and cold, after giving this kind of affection. If given to a water sign like Cancer, it can be troublesome.

Gem moons can seriously want to be with someone one day, and be totally annoyed by them the next. I completely relate to you here. It is a very fickle placement and it why we get such a bad rep. The upside is there will rarely be a dull moment with a Gem moon. We are infectiously fun and interesting Funny how you mention a cap man has you on your toes as I currently have a cap gal keeping me on mine. Strange is the world of fondness.

You just made me question the things I do and my actions with the people I like, yes I move mountains for them yet I can be cold and distant which yes is confusing.

I know we can be very fun people!! everyone enjoys being around us and we make it all fun. I hate drama so I rather always be happy and joyful around the people i like!

Yes!! omg how is it going with the Cap woman? Does she drive you nuts? because mine does haha sometimes I wanna turn my back on him and leave but then I cant because I feel so comfortable around him. 😢

Yup, I am the same way and can't be around Debbie-downers. As for drama, I am not a big fan of it when I am involved. However, other people's drama is like entertainment for me! If your Gem moon gives you the same kind of energy it gives me then you are at home in chaos. Orderly is such a bore!

The cap girl and I are friends, and pretty comfortable with each other. I've been trying to gauge if she is interested or not. It is likely the latter since I have a very long history of not having my feelings reciprocated by those I really like, so I see no reason for it to suddenly change. Every once in a while though, she does or says something that makes me hopeful, but this quickly goes away. 😐

I do wish you luck with your Cap guy though. How far have you pursued things with him?

If you are beginning with "I have a long story of not having my feelings reciprocated" you are already putting the negativity on yourself.

if she does or says things like flirting you have to open up a little more to her so she sees that you like her too and maybe that will get things moving.

With my Cap we started by meeting and things just were flowing good, we slept together the same day... ??

We have a strong connection but physically he comes and goes... or basically he's just there waiting for me to show interest and he reciprocates, but sometimes initiates.

Lately we are being more open with each other when we talk and go out. so hopefully it will turn out good. 🙂

Good luck and try to court her, I know Cap women aren't easy and they like guys who court them. They are very romantic so try to get her side. 🙂

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Oh love, I wish it was as simple as "placing the negativity on myself." See, I am actually a very positive and optimistic person. The long story of not having my feelings reciprocated is exactly as described. I'm the guy that sends flowers to the girl who wishes they would have came from the person she is actually interested in. A chain in the full circle that is 'he likes her, she likes another, the other likes someone else'. The thing about this chain is before my link, there is the girl that IS interested in me, but my interest is placed elsewhere.

Last night, the said Cap girl posted on her FB word for word, "Woke up this morning thinking about you and all the time I want to spend with you because no one makes me feel like you do!" insert kiss emoji, insert heart emoji.

Like I said, we're friends so I know she is single, and I also know that this was not posted with me in her thoughts. I know this despite her telling me that when I surprised her with her favorite drink from Starbucks for her birthday, her heart melted. Trust me, I've laid it on thick for her, and have done everything except straight up ask her out. She gets so red when I flirt with her, and immediately changes the subject.

You see, I HAVE gone after what I have wanted in the past when there is nothing but green lights to do so. Yet, still got rejected. Said something wrong? Misread signs? I am a Libra ascendant. This is nearly impossible for me. As a Cancer I already have big problems with rejection, but to receive the amount of rejection I have had and still remain on the saddle takes a greater crab than I.

There are also complications. Her oldest brother is one of my best friends. We work together and I have a higher position. You can throw both of those out though, they don't matter. The biggest complication is we are really good friends.

Anywho, sorry for all of that. Probably should have been PM'd. As for your guy, you are MUCH further progressed haha! Some advice I can give you is to take what I have said earlier where crabs are concerned to heart. You can't be continuously cold and distant to them. If you remain so, they will retreat, and once they do... good luck. There is literally nothing you can do to get them come out, and they do it all on their own once and IF they deem you safe, or worth the risk. A Cancer male is high maintenance, and you should know that from another Cancer male going forward. Crab/Aqua pairings are quite common from my experience. You wouldn't think it, but there does seem to be some kind of magnetic attraction there. They are naturally intrigued by the other.

Make him cookies 🙂

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My Cancer sun placement makes me less fond of change and travel. I'm still open to it, but it can be very uncomfortable. Where I think my moon placement comes in here is it makes me very adaptable to any area I would relocate or travel to.

I don't need to go into my emotions as a Cancer sun. I think you can imagine how they are, combined with the eccentricity of a Gem moon. :p

I love traveling, I've been the backpacker in a country I know nothing about. lol and loved it.

My best friend is a Cancer and I know how that goes!!! Haha she does give me advice and thinks I'm very cold and detached lol.

Your placements sound very intriguing!!!

I feel that way about most Aquas I have met. Detached yes, but there is much more to you guys than what appears on the surface. I wonder if your Cancer buddy can sense the emotions you keep locked away, despite that she tells you that you are cold and detached.

I have a lot of Gem placements including Moon, Venus, Jupiter, and NN. Oddly, I have just one Cancer placement, but it is a strong one!

She does!!! but she says that I confuse her a lot, because sometimes I meet a guy and get really into him but mostly fascinated by the love affair, these are usually controversial relationships and she thinks I'm already in love so she says that I fall quick for guys, a few months later I'm done and moving on..then she's like WTF! how are you moving on so quick? I thought you liked the guy you talked about him and seemed excited to see him etc. I told her that is just a good time and done.. (this is when we are detached) she usually falls for the wrong guys... I play along with the wrong guys.

Lately there's this Cap man who has me on my toes, and she says that she can tell that I do like him a lot because I've been patient and always analyzing the situation, she has seen me more vulnerable when it comes to him.

We make a good BFF couple, I try to bring her down from the clouds when she's hung up on a guy who doesn't appreciate her and give her assurance when she doubts the one who does! ?

We don't show our emotions to just any person.

I've probably posted more about myself here on the forums than what I've told most of my "friends" except my Cancer friend, it's been 12 yrs at least and it took me yearssss to show my true emotions to her.

The confusion is likely from being hot and cold. My experience with Aquas is they really know how to make you value their affection. When they give it, it can melt steel like butter on a stove. Problems usually arise when you take it too far with being distant and cold, after giving this kind of affection. If given to a water sign like Cancer, it can be troublesome.

Gem moons can seriously want to be with someone one day, and be totally annoyed by them the next. I completely relate to you here. It is a very fickle placement and it why we get such a bad rep. The upside is there will rarely be a dull moment with a Gem moon. We are infectiously fun and interesting Funny how you mention a cap man has you on your toes as I currently have a cap gal keeping me on mine. Strange is the world of fondness.

You just made me question the things I do and my actions with the people I like, yes I move mountains for them yet I can be cold and distant which yes is confusing.

I know we can be very fun people!! everyone enjoys being around us and we make it all fun. I hate drama so I rather always be happy and joyful around the people i like!

Yes!! omg how is it going with the Cap woman? Does she drive you nuts? because mine does haha sometimes I wanna turn my back on him and leave but then I cant because I feel so comfortable around him. 😢

Yup, I am the same way and can't be around Debbie-downers. As for drama, I am not a big fan of it when I am involved. However, other people's drama is like entertainment for me! If your Gem moon gives you the same kind of energy it gives me then you are at home in chaos. Orderly is such a bore!

The cap girl and I are friends, and pretty comfortable with each other. I've been trying to gauge if she is interested or not. It is likely the latter since I have a very long history of not having my feelings reciprocated by those I really like, so I see no reason for it to suddenly change. Every once in a while though, she does or says something that makes me hopeful, but this quickly goes away. 😐

I do wish you luck with your Cap guy though. How far have you pursued things with him?

If you are beginning with "I have a long story of not having my feelings reciprocated" you are already putting the negativity on yourself.

if she does or says things like flirting you have to open up a little more to her so she sees that you like her too and maybe that will get things moving.

With my Cap we started by meeting and things just were flowing good, we slept together the same day... ??

We have a strong connection but physically he comes and goes... or basically he's just there waiting for me to show interest and he reciprocates, but sometimes initiates.

Lately we are being more open with each other when we talk and go out. so hopefully it will turn out good. 🙂

Good luck and try to court her, I know Cap women aren't easy and they like guys who court them. They are very romantic so try to get her side. 🙂

Oh love, I wish it was as simple as "placing the negativity on myself." See, I am actually a very positive and optimistic person. The long story of not having my feelings reciprocated is exactly as described. I'm the guy that sends flowers to the girl who wishes they would have came from the person she is actually interested in. A chain in the full circle that is 'he likes her, she likes another, the other likes someone else'. The thing about this chain is before my link, there is the girl that IS interested in me, but my interest is placed elsewhere.

Last night, the said Cap girl posted on her FB word for word, "Woke up this morning thinking about you and all the time I want to spend with you because no one makes me feel like you do!" insert kiss emoji, insert heart emoji.

Like I said, we're friends so I know she is single, and I also know that this was not posted with me in her thoughts. I know this despite her telling me that when I surprised her with her favorite drink from Starbucks for her birthday, her heart melted. Trust me, I've laid it on thick for her, and have done everything except straight up ask her out. She gets so red when I flirt with her, and immediately changes the subject.

You see, I HAVE gone after what I have wanted in the past when there is nothing but green lights to do so. Yet, still got rejected. Said something wrong? Misread signs? I am a Libra ascendant. This is nearly impossible for me. As a Cancer I already have big problems with rejection, but to receive the amount of rejection I have had and still remain on the saddle takes a greater crab than I.

There are also complications. Her oldest brother is one of my best friends. We work together and I have a higher position. You can throw both of those out though, they don't matter. The biggest complication is we are really good friends.

Anywho, sorry for all of that. Probably should have been PM'd. As for your guy, you are MUCH further progressed haha! Some advice I can give you is to take what I have said earlier where crabs are concerned to heart. You can't be continuously cold and distant to them. If you remain so, they will retreat, and once they do... good luck. There is literally nothing you can do to get them come out, and they do it all on their own once and IF they deem you safe, or worth the risk. A Cancer male is high maintenance, and you should know that from another Cancer male going forward. Crab/Aqua pairings are quite common from my experience. You wouldn't think it, but there does seem to be some kind of magnetic attraction there. They are naturally intrigued by the other.

Make him cookies 🙂

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and no, he's actually a Capricorn!! ? but I'm already getting bored of the situation ??

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My Cancer sun placement makes me less fond of change and travel. I'm still open to it, but it can be very uncomfortable. Where I think my moon placement comes in here is it makes me very adaptable to any area I would relocate or travel to.

I don't need to go into my emotions as a Cancer sun. I think you can imagine how they are, combined with the eccentricity of a Gem moon. :p

I love traveling, I've been the backpacker in a country I know nothing about. lol and loved it.

My best friend is a Cancer and I know how that goes!!! Haha she does give me advice and thinks I'm very cold and detached lol.

Your placements sound very intriguing!!!

I feel that way about most Aquas I have met. Detached yes, but there is much more to you guys than what appears on the surface. I wonder if your Cancer buddy can sense the emotions you keep locked away, despite that she tells you that you are cold and detached.

I have a lot of Gem placements including Moon, Venus, Jupiter, and NN. Oddly, I have just one Cancer placement, but it is a strong one!

She does!!! but she says that I confuse her a lot, because sometimes I meet a guy and get really into him but mostly fascinated by the love affair, these are usually controversial relationships and she thinks I'm already in love so she says that I fall quick for guys, a few months later I'm done and moving on..then she's like WTF! how are you moving on so quick? I thought you liked the guy you talked about him and seemed excited to see him etc. I told her that is just a good time and done.. (this is when we are detached) she usually falls for the wrong guys... I play along with the wrong guys.

Lately there's this Cap man who has me on my toes, and she says that she can tell that I do like him a lot because I've been patient and always analyzing the situation, she has seen me more vulnerable when it comes to him.

We make a good BFF couple, I try to bring her down from the clouds when she's hung up on a guy who doesn't appreciate her and give her assurance when she doubts the one who does! ?

We don't show our emotions to just any person.

I've probably posted more about myself here on the forums than what I've told most of my "friends" except my Cancer friend, it's been 12 yrs at least and it took me yearssss to show my true emotions to her.

The confusion is likely from being hot and cold. My experience with Aquas is they really know how to make you value their affection. When they give it, it can melt steel like butter on a stove. Problems usually arise when you take it too far with being distant and cold, after giving this kind of affection. If given to a water sign like Cancer, it can be troublesome.

Gem moons can seriously want to be with someone one day, and be totally annoyed by them the next. I completely relate to you here. It is a very fickle placement and it why we get such a bad rep. The upside is there will rarely be a dull moment with a Gem moon. We are infectiously fun and interesting Funny how you mention a cap man has you on your toes as I currently have a cap gal keeping me on mine. Strange is the world of fondness.

You just made me question the things I do and my actions with the people I like, yes I move mountains for them yet I can be cold and distant which yes is confusing.

I know we can be very fun people!! everyone enjoys being around us and we make it all fun. I hate drama so I rather always be happy and joyful around the people i like!

Yes!! omg how is it going with the Cap woman? Does she drive you nuts? because mine does haha sometimes I wanna turn my back on him and leave but then I cant because I feel so comfortable around him. 😢

Yup, I am the same way and can't be around Debbie-downers. As for drama, I am not a big fan of it when I am involved. However, other people's drama is like entertainment for me! If your Gem moon gives you the same kind of energy it gives me then you are at home in chaos. Orderly is such a bore!

The cap girl and I are friends, and pretty comfortable with each other. I've been trying to gauge if she is interested or not. It is likely the latter since I have a very long history of not having my feelings reciprocated by those I really like, so I see no reason for it to suddenly change. Every once in a while though, she does or says something that makes me hopeful, but this quickly goes away. 😐

I do wish you luck with your Cap guy though. How far have you pursued things with him?

If you are beginning with "I have a long story of not having my feelings reciprocated" you are already putting the negativity on yourself.

if she does or says things like flirting you have to open up a little more to her so she sees that you like her too and maybe that will get things moving.

With my Cap we started by meeting and things just were flowing good, we slept together the same day... ??

We have a strong connection but physically he comes and goes... or basically he's just there waiting for me to show interest and he reciprocates, but sometimes initiates.

Lately we are being more open with each other when we talk and go out. so hopefully it will turn out good. 🙂

Good luck and try to court her, I know Cap women aren't easy and they like guys who court them. They are very romantic so try to get her side. 🙂

Oh love, I wish it was as simple as "placing the negativity on myself." See, I am actually a very positive and optimistic person. The long story of not having my feelings reciprocated is exactly as described. I'm the guy that sends flowers to the girl who wishes they would have came from the person she is actually interested in. A chain in the full circle that is 'he likes her, she likes another, the other likes someone else'. The thing about this chain is before my link, there is the girl that IS interested in me, but my interest is placed elsewhere.

Last night, the said Cap girl posted on her FB word for word, "Woke up this morning thinking about you and all the time I want to spend with you because no one makes me feel like you do!" insert kiss emoji, insert heart emoji.

Like I said, we're friends so I know she is single, and I also know that this was not posted with me in her thoughts. I know this despite her telling me that when I surprised her with her favorite drink from Starbucks for her birthday, her heart melted. Trust me, I've laid it on thick for her, and have done everything except straight up ask her out. She gets so red when I flirt with her, and immediately changes the subject.

You see, I HAVE gone after what I have wanted in the past when there is nothing but green lights to do so. Yet, still got rejected. Said something wrong? Misread signs? I am a Libra ascendant. This is nearly impossible for me. As a Cancer I already have big problems with rejection, but to receive the amount of rejection I have had and still remain on the saddle takes a greater crab than I.

There are also complications. Her oldest brother is one of my best friends. We work together and I have a higher position. You can throw both of those out though, they don't matter. The biggest complication is we are really good friends.

Anywho, sorry for all of that. Probably should have been PM'd. As for your guy, you are MUCH further progressed haha! Some advice I can give you is to take what I have said earlier where crabs are concerned to heart. You can't be continuously cold and distant to them. If you remain so, they will retreat, and once they do... good luck. There is literally nothing you can do to get them come out, and they do it all on their own once and IF they deem you safe, or worth the risk. A Cancer male is high maintenance, and you should know that from another Cancer male going forward. Crab/Aqua pairings are quite common from my experience. You wouldn't think it, but there does seem to be some kind of magnetic attraction there. They are naturally intrigued by the other.

Make him cookies 🙂

? I thought I wrote back to you!

and no, he's actually a Capricorn!! ? but I'm already getting bored of the situation ??

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No worries. I got bored of mine too. That's Gem moon for ya!