Scorpio Moons, Obsession, Revenge, Ego

Hi All:

Libra/Scorpio cusp, Moon in Scorpio, Aquarius ascending, very absent Virgo in Venus these days . . .

I have serious rejection issues. Once I have been slighted or passed over, I have a really hard time getting beyond it. I know that it's ego, pure and simple, but it drives me nuts. I can fixate on a rejection for ages, and thoughts of regaining the upper hand, as completely stupid and useless as they may be, seem to be the only thing that gives me relief until I eventually run out of steam. The fact that the object of my psychosis is NOT worth it in the least and someone whom I would not want if he came a-runnin' seems to make zero difference.

Is this common with Scorpio Moons? If so, how do you handle it, or how have you grown up (which I clearly need to do) and learned to deal with it?

Love, LS67

WOW, i identified so much with your initial post.

i love to have the upper hand in all situations. if i dont, i will work my magic and minions to get the upper hand. im kinda a work my magic behind the scenes kinda lunar scorpion.

when i have something on my mind, forgetaboutit, nothing else matters till i straighten that out or if something bigger gets my attention.

when im done with someone, im done.

Posted by LibraScorpio67
Hi All:

Libra/Scorpio cusp, Moon in Scorpio, Aquarius ascending, very absent Virgo in Venus these days . . .

I have serious rejection issues. Once I have been slighted or passed over, I have a really hard time getting beyond it. I know that it's ego, pure and simple, but it drives me nuts. I can fixate on a rejection for ages, and thoughts of regaining the upper hand, as completely stupid and useless as they may be, seem to be the only thing that gives me relief until I eventually run out of steam. The fact that the object of my psychosis is NOT worth it in the least and someone whom I would not want if he came a-runnin' seems to make zero difference.

Is this common with Scorpio Moons? If so, how do you handle it, or how have you grown up (which I clearly need to do) and learned to deal with it?

Love, LS67

I have a lot of Pluto aspects in my chart, and a square pluto moon. I can relate completely.

Posted by Let*It*Be
"Scorpio Moons, Obsession, Revenge, Ego"

^^Especially with most air suns...air sucks them dry resulting in the grey lizard mentality. Difference of Scorpio Sun and Scorpio moon...literally is DAY AND NIGHT, (light & dark)

can you elaborate? 🙂

wouldnt you think this is a trait of most water moons on some level?

Scorpio moons are dramatic as hell, I got a huge ego too but u gotta learn to let shit go

I am a Scorpio Sun/Sag Moon...I think this may be typical of ANY Scorpio placement. I know I am this way for sure. I have to get answers! Even if I usually regret having them later.

Posted by LibraScorpio67
Hi All:

Libra/Scorpio cusp, Moon in Scorpio, Aquarius ascending, very absent Virgo in Venus these days . . .

I have serious rejection issues. Once I have been slighted or passed over, I have a really hard time getting beyond it. I know that it's ego, pure and simple, but it drives me nuts. I can fixate on a rejection for ages, and thoughts of regaining the upper hand, as completely stupid and useless as they may be, seem to be the only thing that gives me relief until I eventually run out of steam. The fact that the object of my psychosis is NOT worth it in the least and someone whom I would not want if he came a-runnin' seems to make zero difference.

Is this common with Scorpio Moons? If so, how do you handle it, or how have you grown up (which I clearly need to do) and learned to deal with it?

Love, LS67

Me too! The older I get, the easier it gets.

Posted by Let*It*Be
Earth signs with Scorp moon are typically sweet & entirely different, fire signs with scorp moon..hit or miss.

What would you say Air and Water signs with scorpio moon are?
Not surprised if water signs are just very moody and emotional haha, but seems like each sign presents themselves differently.. o_O
I could be wrong too, perhaps?

Posted by LibraScorpio67
Hi All:

Libra/Scorpio cusp, Moon in Scorpio, Aquarius ascending, very absent Virgo in Venus these days . . .

I have serious rejection issues. Once I have been slighted or passed over, I have a really hard time getting beyond it. I know that it's ego, pure and simple, but it drives me nuts. I can fixate on a rejection for ages, and thoughts of regaining the upper hand, as completely stupid and useless as they may be, seem to be the only thing that gives me relief until I eventually run out of steam. The fact that the object of my psychosis is NOT worth it in the least and someone whom I would not want if he came a-runnin' seems to make zero difference.

Is this common with Scorpio Moons? If so, how do you handle it, or how have you grown up (which I clearly need to do) and learned to deal with it?

Love, LS67

I think I have been where you are. Among the experiences that helped me overcome this tendency, one was to simply compare the amount of time spent ruminating/obsessing/plotting vs the amount of time spent moving forward in my life, so to speak. Seriously, keep a log if you can- write it down! Visuals are great. Once you can have a raw look at yourself and *see* how much time is being wasted, it might deter the vengeful thoughts and behaviors. Worked for me.