Calling all *Intensity Filled* Scorpio Moons.

Nah, he's cool with it, infact he has shown me his other posts regarding our relationship, and said that the advice here is not of the phony kind.
So, yeah, No probs from his end.

@BigGirlPanties

There is nothing logical about a scorp moon, at least me, that is. Jealous, yup...even if you dont give us a reason. (Im a girl, btw, but we're pretty similar to the men). I want to rip the face off any chick that talks to my honey. I can also investigate better than Kojak. My friends are always complimenting me on how much info I could get on my ex when we were in court. We take people apart, diagnose them to try to figure them out. I am only as secure in a relationship as either he makes me, or I focus very hard on staying in the moment, finding trust and appreciating what I have. Trust is always an issue.

Ah well AquaScorp92-san domo arigato gozaimasu for the call. So I'll give you the male perperspective on intense fellings. Well Big Girl Panties is pretty on point with Most of the time male scorp mooners are as secure as you make them feel that way and trustworthy. But give even a slight reason not to and we store it in our heads and begin to put you through *our test of trust/attention* Sounds like your guy is holding in the negative thoughts that may pop up and simply telling you that he trusts you.(if he truly means it) That's huge for us! He most likly is quiet because of fear of not communicating how he feels in a constructive way as emotions run high. So we tend to mute ourselfs and just give monotone like responses so we don't go over board on the outside, but on the inside you don't wanna know. We tend hold on and back on emotions in general, because we run at a higher lv than most. The only time the possessive jealous triggers go off is if we sense a threat or rival to our position. That being the "main" romatic focus in your life. Depending on the guy it can be very subtle or extrmely obvious in the actions or information that we present. We are SUPER protective and somewhat passive agressive when hurt or angered. And that chaotic energy can be directed at you the threat or ourselfs. Our weapons the ability to read people/reactions and very small deatailed information that most people miss. Hope that helps a little.

Thanks for the info. members, each and every input is appreciated.

@BigGirlPanties : You know, I try my best to make him feel comfortable, I have shared my entire "Before You" story but every time I meet my ex boyfriend and just have a casual talk, he retreats back and keeps quiet, saying nothing and by nothing I mean he gives the "SILENT TREATMENT" and then the long GAZE, during which he just looks deep into my eyes.
And why does he just keeps looking ? What is that for ?
Any hints on What can I do to gain his trust ?

@Lobo : Yeah, you are bang on, he does notices the subtle differences and I have to agree that's a remarkable quality.
But he's real calm most of the time, He always stresses on the point that he's afraid to loose me, I mean I have given a commitment and I am not going anywhere, then why say this ?
Is it all because of the trust issues ? Or are they because of me talking with my ex makes him feel uncomfortable ?

It's that we have deep fear of betral and mistrust and that is why it's damm hard to earn our trust. It takes a whole lot to kill that feeling. The looking in the eyes is mos def to read you, if your lying or have doubts. The eyes tell the story alot of the time. When he truly feels like your locked in for the long haul it will be a smoother transition. Like I said though there are varing degress of this type of thought process. I'm willing to bet that someting in his past made him super on guard, more than usaual and he's in "I wont get blind sided agian mode". Maturity, and threat lv are the main factors in this case I think...

@BigGirlPanties

Tip: NEVER discuss your ex;s. ever. period. And if you do, never make them sound good. The jealousy is THAT bad that we will think, irrationally, that you may one day want them back. Or you still do now. No matter the sign, talking about ex's will always trigger pain.

man hiplove, i feel like we are so similar in how we deal with these emotions. i agree with everything youve written.

im a sag sun, scorp moon and i agree with what everyone has written. if im pissed and i stare you down, it is not good for you. i hold onto everything and find it hard to move on.

also, if im pissed off at you. dont talk to me unless your ready to talk about what im pissed off about.

other than that, i love to love.

on a side note, im a bit worried that you are asking questions. u have a pisces moon. u should be able to read him like a book. u should just know whats going on in his head. trust your gut. keep that venus in scorp in check.

also, he has a venus in cap, like myself. he should be able to tell u EXACTLY where u stand with him. if your in it for the long haul or not.

i wouldnt run. i wouldnt even break a sweat over this. life has taught me to carefully rationalize and think the situation over and over again. think about it from every angle. then id decide my next moves based on my thought conclusion.

first off, id kick myself for this faux paus on my part. if the girl can hack into dxp, what else have i dropped the password ball on. then, id either see her privacy breach as a sincere attempt to understand me because i may not be expressing myself the right way and she has a problem with talking to me face to face. OR shes sneaky and has to be dealt with.

Posted by DMV
i wouldnt run. i wouldnt even break a sweat over this. life has taught me to carefully rationalize and think the situation over and over again. think about it from every angle. then id decide my next moves based on my thought conclusion.

first off, id kick myself for this faux paus on my part. if the girl can hack into dxp, what else have i dropped the password ball on. then, id either see her privacy breach as a sincere attempt to understand me because i may not be expressing myself the right way and she has a problem with talking to me face to face. OR shes sneaky and has to be dealt with.

The scorp moon way🙂

Wow, that's some great info coming up in a short span of time,

Posted by AquaScorp92

@DMV : What is the check for Venus in Scorpio you are talking about ? The Possessiveness ? 😄

yep. 🙂

are u a pluto in scorpio? is he a pluto in libra or scorpio?

Yep, we are both Pluto in Scorpio.

Me -

Sun Sagittarius 20.24 Ascendant Scorpio 16.42
Moon Pisces 4.04 II Sagittarius 15.59
Mercury Sagittarius 10.38 R III Capricorn 16.40
Venus Scorpio 7.44 IV Aquarius 18.50
Mars Sagittarius 9.55 V Pisces 21.01
Jupiter Virgo 14.07 VI Aries 20.39
Saturn Aquarius 3.51 VII Taurus 16.42
Uranus Capricorn 12.34 VIII Gemini 15.59
Neptune Capricorn 15.32 IX Cancer 16.40
Pluto Scorpio 21.29 Midheaven Leo 18.50
Lilith Capricorn 25.39 XI Virgo 21.01
Asc node Capricorn 9.51 XII Libra 20.39

Him -

Sun Aquarius 7.28 Ascendant Pisces 18.28
Moon Scorpio 25.10 II Aries 28.43
Mercury Capricorn 27.14 III Taurus 28.38
Venus Capricorn 3.31 IV Gemini 22.49
Mars Capricorn 14.01 V Cancer 15.59
Jupiter Virgo 13.22 R VI Leo 12.35
Saturn Aquarius 9.02 VII Virgo 18.28
Uranus Capricorn 15.17 VIII Libra 28.43
Neptune Capricorn 17.15 IX Scorpio 28.38
Pluto Scorpio 22.45 Midheaven Sagittarius 22.49
Lilith Aquarius 0.48 XI Capricorn 15.59
Asc node Capricorn 9.38 XII Aquarius 12.35

@happykitsune

Posted by AquaScorp92
Are you guys mostly insecure about a relationship ?
Do you guys get a weird jealous/possessive feeling when your girl talks to some other guy or an ex ?

I don't know what to say to him, he gets real quiet when I talk to him about these things and he just listens,no inputs.
Mostly, when I am done talking, he just says "I trust you and I always will" and then says that he loves me.
I don't know how to react to it.

My guy's an Aqua Sun/ Scorp Moon with Venus in Cap.

Just need the inputs.

Oh, BTW this is his account, not mine (So, no PM's about this post :wink: )
I'm a Saggi Sun/Pisces Moon/Venus in Scorpio.

Thanks all.

I wouldn't say I'm insecure. But in the past I have had a lot of not so good relationships so I am very weary about rushing it and very cautious. If there are red flags I will try to give the person the benefit of the doubt, but if it's a blatant red flag than there's no reason why I'd stick around.
I don't get jealous just because my love is talking to someone else. If I notice some flirtation then I'll ask who it is and judge by their response if i need to worry or not.

If he says he trusts you then think no more of it. If I say I trust someone I mean it. I know when I do and when I say this I expect the other person to be confident in what I say and not question me or I'll start to get uneasy about it

@happykitsune : hmm, I never flirt with anyone knowingly, maybe I need to keep a check on my behavior, A LOT.
Thanks for the valuable inputs though. I will keep them in mind.

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I sting others, I sting myself, I sting to sting, I don't sting enough, I sting too much, and in the end I cry. Go figure. .

preach sister preach.

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DeadRingerr you said your Pluto was in Virgo 🙂

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Posted by AquaScorp92
Are you guys mostly insecure about a relationship ?
Do you guys get a weird jealous/possessive feeling when your girl talks to some other guy or an ex ?

I don't know what to say to him, he gets real quiet when I talk to him about these things and he just listens,no inputs.
Mostly, when I am done talking, he just says "I trust you and I always will" and then says that he loves me.
I don't know how to react to it.

My guy's an Aqua Sun/ Scorp Moon with Venus in Cap.

Just need the inputs.

Oh, BTW this is his account, not mine (So, no PM's about this post :wink: )
I'm a Saggi Sun/Pisces Moon/Venus in Scorpio.

Thanks all.

Sag Sun/Scorp Moon guy here. I do experience that jealous/possessive feeling in those kinds of situations. I conceal those feelings and act normal if the reason that's causing them is absurd, because I have to stay in reality and be fair to my partner. Although those feelings push me to test my partners by giving them the impression of being oblivious of some of their actions or completely sure of their love and loyalty. Basically giving them plenty of freedom to see how far they go, and how much they value and respect our relationship.

I hope you find this insightful.

Posted by SagittarianMind

Sag Sun/Scorp Moon guy here. I do experience that jealous/possessive feeling in those kinds of situations. I conceal those feelings and act normal if the reason that's causing them is absurd, because I have to stay in reality and be fair to my partner. Although those feelings push me to test my partners by giving them the impression of being oblivious of some of their actions or completely sure of their love and loyalty. Basically giving them plenty of freedom to see how far they go, and how much they value and respect our relationship.

I hope you find this insightful.

Thanks SagittarianMind, It does really help a lot, although he's an aqua with Scorp Moon, but I know that Sagg and Aqua more or less think on the same lines.

He's coming back this week, let's see how it goes then.

i met an aqua sun, scorp moon the other day. i knew he had to be a scorp moon because he has nice eyes and he asked some interesting questions. he has alot of insight. i was impressed.

Posted by DMV
i met an aqua sun, scorp moon the other day. i knew he had to be a scorp moon because he has nice eyes and he asked some interesting questions. he has alot of insight. i was impressed.

Did you notice the glow, when asking questions, GOD, its so out there all the time when they are given answers to their questions.
And they never ask random questions, there's always something at the end, No Time Wasting.

Posted by AquaScorp92

Posted by DMV
i met an aqua sun, scorp moon the other day. i knew he had to be a scorp moon because he has nice eyes and he asked some interesting questions. he has alot of insight. i was impressed.

Did you notice the glow, when asking questions, GOD, its so out there all the time when they are given answers to their questions.
And they never ask random questions, there's always something at the end, No Time Wasting.
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i didnt notice a glow per se. i noticed his eyes. they sparkle like mine. plus when he talks, he's concentrated on me and every word im saying. ive liked him for a minute BUT i cant go down that road because he is best friends with this scorpio dude.

he asked me if i had kids....i thought that was an interesting question given the fact that we werent even on that topic. he just asked me like real sideways.

i also noticed that his poker face is no where as good as mine, but the facial expressions he gives off are very telling.

Wow its like a free for all in here...