taurus moon moving on

so ive been friends with a gemini su,moon in taurus,venus in gemini,man for a while now,a few months back i noticed a strange behiavor from him,he would get jealous if a talk to other guys or dont give him attention,now its like we drifted apart,its been weeks now that we barely talk,and what got the situation to get worse is the fact that the eclipse got to him bad, since he is in a pensif mode that is going for 10 days now,so we dont even say hello to each other,yesterday i talked to him about this he said that he talks to me still and he doesnt have anything against me,so did he move on?

I take a while to let go on and move on......a couple of life times is normally enough lol

Posted by Senorita_LL
@mutabull

Please help. You have all of that placements.

thank you Senorita_LL i really need help

@ Senorita_LL,i m a gemini sun moon in gemini and venus in taurus,so lets say i met my match or mirror per se,its scary how much he is similar to me,but when your vices are reflected to you u dont konw how to handle them

so the drifting started when i got closer to other guys and i guess he is doing the same now,since he pays more attention to others

its like an ego game that is endless, and when i try to get closer he goes far and when he tries to rectify it we banter but we never tackle the serious stuffs ,so right now i dont know what to do and i dont want to lose him

Posted by Mutabull
Ok..so here's the deal (with me anyway)...

My sun/Venus vs my moon can be confusing to me, let alone others. When I really love someone I will hold on for a long fucking time. But, if I really care or like someone and I sense they are disinterested, talking to others, etc. I get extremely jealous and mirror their behavior, to prove my point. If that doesn't work or I don't get the attention I want, I can be easily distracted and fall for other people. However, the few that can pin me down always have a certain hold on me and I don't really let go completely for a long, long time. I always the door open I guess until it's really over (years).

If I'm not pinned down or don't love someone, I can be super into someone one day and totally distracted and talking to someone else the next.

So basically, I can be everything you read about a VIG (your worst nightmare). But, if I feel safe, loved, given attention and stable in a RS...I can act completely like a Taurus, faithful and long term love and loyalty.

thank you for your input,we are talking still but carefully,i opend up to him,and told him,that i noticed a change and that we are drifting apart,i told him that he is important to me and i dont want to lose him,he said that its all in my head and that he is the same and he is just dealing with some internal issues,but the thing is we are not real close like we used to,he is more focused on his "buddies" and we talk only when necessary

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Posted by lilyofthevalley987
@ Senorita_LL,i m a gemini sun moon in gemini and venus in taurus,so lets say i met my match or mirror per se,its scary how much he is similar to me,but when your vices are reflected to you u dont konw how to handle them

so the drifting started when i got closer to other guys and i guess he is doing the same now,since he pays more attention to others

its like an ego game that is endless, and when i try to get closer he goes far and when he tries to rectify it we banter but we never tackle the serious stuffs ,so right now i dont know what to do and i dont want to lose him

Yeah.. you can either keep playing the mind games and both try to win, fun for a while but both really lose..or sit down and just be vulnerable and honest. I suggest the second. The first can be fun for a bit but you end up confused and hurt.

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@ Mutabull what happened is that a few weeks back he came and greeted people and not me,afterwards he got back to talk to the same group of people,and kept on staring at me but didnt talk

the day after i didnt greet him and he found that weird because i looked at him and he had that "what the hell" look on his face,its like he gets to do it and not me,so from that day on,he would stare but not talk,but i kept communicating with him but briefly,and now this?? i am a proud woman so when someone doesnt talk to me i do the same

so my question,is can u please suggest what to do to fix things ?

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Posted by Senorita_LL
@mutabull

Please help. You have all of that placements.

thank you Senorita_LL i really need help

I've been talking to @mutabull for more than a year. Thank God, that I have not murder anyone yet.

That venus is crazy, I'm telling you. 😄

But, let's wait for her to respond to this. That might take a few days though, unless she's super bored.

My moon hate that the most. JS

— you know I love you...you're my soulmate!! I just have a busy life ? But ya know..Taurus moon.. we are stuck on the ones we really love.. ok bae..answering her now.. I feel bad for anyone who has to deal with people like me hahah

Ya talking to me, yo?

I felt pretty bad for your bull moon that's having the horse's emotions. I hear you.

Yes please. Help our sister who's dealing with another bull moon with that venus from hell.

Boooooo.... 😆

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thank you so much @Senorita_LL for helping me get to @mutabull