Gemini Men Won't Let You Go

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by tumultuouscorp on Thursday, July 20, 2017 and has 9 replies.

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@tumultuouscorp
9 Years

I am sitting here. Totally heartbroken, shattered.

My best friend was a gemini male. There was nothing sexual about our friendship up until six months ago when I slept over at his place. After the hook up happened i told him "we either stay best friends or commit to one another fully. I'm not doing a FWB arrangement, they always fail."

He said during the time we've been friends he's seen me with other guys and there is no way he could commit because I would never truly be his.

Our feelings for one another only unfortunatly deepened after that and though there was no commitment he told me he loved me, gave me all his time, affection etc.

But of course, my venus in capricorn demanded a firm commitment. He could not give it, so I started dating other men. When he found out about this, all hell broke loose. He told me he'd cut me, erase me from his life. I told him he had no right to be jealous, so he made a commitment to me that we both would stop seeing other people

He went back on this commitment today and said "I love you, I can't stay away from you. But i'm also scared to death of you. i can't commit to you but i will stop seeing any other girls until you find a husband"

I'm heart broken, hurt but he's not giving up contacting me. Using friends accounts, email etc.

My best friend (scorpio) was married to a gemini male for ten years and he left her for a younger women. She has been crying over him for the past three years and he still wont give her a divorce.

Why gemini's are you so toxic and selfish?

**sun gem, moon sagg, venus cancer

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

It's normal to have a slight back and forth of teasing/ testing in the beginning to gauge interest and compatibility.... but after a few months I would say it's just not meant to be.

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@nats
16 Years500+ Posts

He doesn't trust you and is scared you will hurt him so he wants you around but is affraid to be in with you 100% .

I have Gem sun and Cancer venus