Weeds
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Numerology Compatibility (Till the end of Aug)
Side Notes..
Considering natural and compatible matches pretty much go without commentary I will stick to noting any problems
You might have regarding your chart I will try and keep it brief and simple as possible.
If you have any other questions about your chart keep it to the point. And all answer the best I can.
Considering natural and compatible matches pretty much go without commentary I will stick to noting any problems
You might have regarding your chart I will try and keep it brief and simple as possible.
If you have any other questions about your chart keep it to the point. And all answer the best I can.
Your communicative and outgoing good listener good talker.
Mood swings that you get over quick, sometimes others don't.. this may include your partner who is sensitive and serious sometimes stubborn may seem like a party pooper when he shares his knowledge
The attitude area is particulary interesting as your both are observers the difference being he is introspective and at times he may shut down and make you feel he is uninterested in what your saying.. reality being he keeps up regardless of your perception.
You are compassionate towards ppl and he keeps to himself.
Look at the relationship as a business one to take care of family the other to provide financial security.
He must treat you like a treasure but not as a possession and always be aware of your feelings.
I only see that you two have seperate agendas
You to have alone time with your thoughts surrounded by nature
And him wanting finacial freedom, secure job and a nice home.
you both have an endless fascination for each other but money can be an issue.
I suggest having someone else manage both incomes
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@blackphase no he NEEDS to treat you like a treasure this is important and wouldnt hurt to remind him in a soft way.
He is an 8 life path they are direct and truthful and dont know how to be gentle without learning to be with time.
again remind him to edit his words and approach in his head before saying something, do all this in a loving sensitive way.
He is an 8 life path they are direct and truthful and dont know how to be gentle without learning to be with time.
again remind him to edit his words and approach in his head before saying something, do all this in a loving sensitive way.
Because you are a 2 life path its your business to love.
That is why I had no need to tell you to treasure him.
The problem is he has to show that same love back.
What you do is on a nice day at a proper time.
Sit and talk with no emotions driving the conversation
and discuss.
say "hey im hurting you your hurting me lets have some resolve to get this relationship on higher ground, I will help in any way I can if you will, otherwise we are just going to keep hurting each other and thats not healthy for you thats not healthy for me" ask him what he would like from you and what you would like from him.. no interrupted no bickering.
Its all in the numbers you learn this when you get more into numerology
That is why I had no need to tell you to treasure him.
The problem is he has to show that same love back.
What you do is on a nice day at a proper time.
Sit and talk with no emotions driving the conversation
and discuss.
say "hey im hurting you your hurting me lets have some resolve to get this relationship on higher ground, I will help in any way I can if you will, otherwise we are just going to keep hurting each other and thats not healthy for you thats not healthy for me" ask him what he would like from you and what you would like from him.. no interrupted no bickering.
Its all in the numbers you learn this when you get more into numerology
Posted by blackphaseTime and patience is key slowly chisel away and a lil bit goes along way. Any time the bickering and interrupting starts is where you rest and try another time.
The interrupting and bickering is where we need help!! Our discussions don't get very far, we both have strong personalities 😢
Lot of conflicting numbers in this not just between both of you but within yourself..
Soul conflicts with personality, personality conflicts with soul, life, attitude, power..
He himself has conflict on whether he wants to be the leader, follower or the driving force behind the leader.
Strangely enough the life paths seem to balance things out. I recommend not to get too involved in work because he may feel abandoned which in turn he reaches out for more attention and you end up feeling trapped or smothered.
Respect each others needs.
Some extra bit of info you have a 1 and 7 repeated which means you strive to be the best but you also want some alone time with nature.
you tend to want to escape which I suggest using a journal or even going on a cruise.
His repeating numer is 2 and is as simple as heis happy when.he loves and is loved.
Posted by Weedslol wow that sounds pretty chaotic. It's funny, he's the one pushing me to work more even when he's super busy himself. He does have this "soft power" thing going on, he's not a leader nor is he a follower but he's very respected amongst his peers.
Lot of conflicting numbers in this not just between both of you but within yourself..
Soul conflicts with personality, personality conflicts with soul, life, attitude, power..
He himself has conflict on whether he wants to be the leader, follower or the driving force behind the leader.
Strangely enough the life paths seem to balance things out. I recommend not to get too involved in work because he may feel abandoned which in turn he reaches out for more attention and you end up feeling trapped or smothered.
Respect each others needs.
Some extra bit of info you have a 1 and 7 repeated which means you strive to be the best but you also want some alone time with nature.
you tend to want to escape which I suggest using a journal or even going on a cruise.
His repeating numer is 2 and is as simple as heis happy when.he loves and is loved.
His chart also shows a lot of softness compared to mine.. I'd say he brings out some softness from me when I can usually be blunt and cut-throat and I make him go further in his goals and achieve what he deserves in periods of self-doubt.
I can see what you mean by challenging, it reminds me of yin yang dynamics which I don't mind but do you think it could wear him out?
The only thing that would wear him out is if he feels he is doing everything for everybody.. he can have a tendency to take on other ppls problems. He could get resentful for being overly used this is a main thing he should avoid.
Sometimes you can be too blunt and hurt his feelings... not saying your not right... but theres always a softer way of saying things. He aswell seems to come across as direct and superior when he says something of use.. which he should try and work on.
Seems like he has parent issue. Either resentment or he feels responsibility for them.
How both of you communicate are very different which can cause a lot of turmoil within the relationship. lot of hurt feelings on both ends. if you both want this to work you must both truly listen to each other respectively.
Seems like he has parent issue. Either resentment or he feels responsibility for them.
How both of you communicate are very different which can cause a lot of turmoil within the relationship. lot of hurt feelings on both ends. if you both want this to work you must both truly listen to each other respectively.
yes, yes thank you this is true. I learned to watch my words and to think about what I really wanted to communicate before I said anything at all. In turn, he was accustomed to disguising his bossiness under a veil of charm and learned a direct approach was also appreciated, I could take it.
Also correct about the parents, it's equal parts responsibility and resentment.
Could you elaborate on the 4/9 Power numbers, what do those mean?
Also correct about the parents, it's equal parts responsibility and resentment.
Could you elaborate on the 4/9 Power numbers, what do those mean?
Power number is the power of your name, business minded number.
The 4 is a solid base, responsible.
Home is important. Strong need to acquire knowledge and you usually know what your talking about.
The 9 has tremendous intuition and insight about life so much so they can intimidate others. The 9 must embrace spirituality in order to attain true serenity.
The 4 is a solid base, responsible.
Home is important. Strong need to acquire knowledge and you usually know what your talking about.
The 9 has tremendous intuition and insight about life so much so they can intimidate others. The 9 must embrace spirituality in order to attain true serenity.
ok 🙂
Hmmm this looks like a possible marriage in the making.
Couple issues to comment on, I'd say avoid being blunt and choose your words carefully otherwise prepare for a verbal war.
Double 7 suggests he needs his alone time in order to find his spiritual self and should avoid drinking, drugs ect.
travel or just keeping a journal is a better outlet.
Double 8 suggests he needs to learn to ask for help occasionally. Life is a state of mind encourage him to put out positive energy and that will come back to him.
I also encourage you to keep away from alcohol and try using a journal for your over active mind.
As long as this relationship has proper balance this can be a good solid relationship.
He provides financial security and you provide love and support. He needs to always show the same love you give to him in order for you to stay happy.
I see there is personality conflict.. strange to say if you change your name back to your birth name this conflict goes away. Whether you find this necessary is up to you.
Nothing else to say here the chart speaks for itself.
Thank you Weeds!!
Hmm hmm ok..
Your partner would follow you to the ends of the earth BUT. You can be too direct and may hurt their feelings although they can take a lot after awhile it does take its toll. Always be aware of your partners feelings before saying anything.
You may also play the victim and blame others around you when things go wrong. This can be exceptionally hard on your 2 partner. Avoid this at all costs. This must be a relationship of understand in order for it to have a long loving life.
Posted by Weeds
Before I go into this let me first put down some proper notifications.
Don't be a pain in my ass.
This will be limited to the end of august, after that im done. This is out of the kindness of my dark lil heart, ppl usually get paid a decent amount of money for this service. And this service is time consuming mind you... sooo if your young, still in school, found someone during the summer and have been dating for three weeks. Think hes the one?
SPARE ME!
now I need a few things from you..
First and last name from both ppl involved.
im not talking birth names im talking what you current go by.. this means if your birth name is amanda jones
And ppl call you mandy jones..
Then use the latter.
If you have been married five times and have no idea which last name to use..
I ask that you move along relationships arent ment for you.
I will also need birth dates of both parties.
Got all that?
Both First & Last Names.
Both Birth Dates.
You can pm me those if you feel they are too personal to post here.
After I've completed your chart I will post it here
As I have bill and hillary
Descriptions:
SOUL (what you feel inside, not what ppl see)
PERSONALITY (the face you show the world)
POWER (the strength of your name)
BIRTH (the way you appear to ppl)
LIFE (what you need to fullfill in order to be happy)
ATTITUDE (first impress)
---------------------------
Natural (Automatic Connection)
Compatible (get along with)
Neutral (War Or Peace)
Challenge (hurt feelings and misunderstandings)
I dont care if your chart shows all natural or all compatible two things can always ruin a perfect relationship..
Substance abuse and infidelity.
Give enough space to accommodate these things
and see where it gets you.
With that said you can make any relationship work if you feel its worth it.. so even if you have a majority if Challenge in your chart you can see where you or your partner need to work on and COMPROMISE.
Soulmates..
If you have 3 or more of the same numbers anywhere on the chart
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In both charts we have 8, 3 & 5
In numerology this is considered a soulmate match. Now what soulmate means is two things.
1. Who your ment to be with
2. Someone who will be in your life constantly learning/growing from good or bad.
Repeating 3 means to always keep communication open. Considering you are both 3 life paths this shouldnt be a problem.
I do suggest that both of you stay creativly expressive and never run away from your problems. On top of this ease up on being critical of each other. This is what people call Disney Magic, empower each other and this relationship can be incredible.
Hi weeds,
Thank you for the chart. But i am really confused now..you said we aare a soulmate match but it doesnt feel like that AT ALL. i am the one in the relationship who is willing to talk things out but he always runs away from problems. I dont know how to communicate to him anymore. He gets really rude and blames everything on me. How can i make this work?
Thank you for the chart. But i am really confused now..you said we aare a soulmate match but it doesnt feel like that AT ALL. i am the one in the relationship who is willing to talk things out but he always runs away from problems. I dont know how to communicate to him anymore. He gets really rude and blames everything on me. How can i make this work?
Then its possible that he is living on the negative side of his number.
Which can have quite a few contributing factors.
Dead end job/lifestyle.
If he feels he is the only one giving in the relationship.
Financial insecure.
Unable to express themselves creatively through writing or similure outlets.
Family scars that he cant let go of.
sometimes they act up because their life is boring and they enjoy drama.
Usually there is eventual light at the end of the tunnel but in the rare case that you dont see any after a reasonable time I would suggest moving on. This relationship needs balance and without that it becomes unhealthy.
Which can have quite a few contributing factors.
Dead end job/lifestyle.
If he feels he is the only one giving in the relationship.
Financial insecure.
Unable to express themselves creatively through writing or similure outlets.
Family scars that he cant let go of.
sometimes they act up because their life is boring and they enjoy drama.
Usually there is eventual light at the end of the tunnel but in the rare case that you dont see any after a reasonable time I would suggest moving on. This relationship needs balance and without that it becomes unhealthy.
Ah okay..im in a tough situation now. You see, i am engaged to him and our wedding is set for this november. Its a bit late for me to move on. I agree with you when you say he feels like hes the one giving more to the relationship because he says that to me. But i dont agree since even though he hurts me alot i still stuck atound for 9 years and i feel like im the one giving myself more. I really dont undrstand now how can i walk through the tunnel with him to find light togther. As much as i hate being with him, when things are good they are awesome. Its very black and white with him, there is not middle ground or grey. Its either amazing or its absoulte hell. What can i do?
Learn to walk away from bad relationships.
THIS is currently a BAD RELATIONSHIP.
Its not too late till you actually marry.
the tunnel metaphor I was using was ment to explain that in order to get to a positive you need to go through a negative. BUT considering you mentioned 9 years of this and still going through the negative tells me you have been overly patient and understanding with no reciprocation from him is a big issue. he himself needs to fix this before you even start walking down the isle.
He is your soulmate match but it isnt always a positive thing they can be the trial you go through in order to learn and strengthen yourself.
You know very well the relationship is not as healthy as a relationship should be and THAT is your cue to let go.
you cant hang on to something that is going to lead you into that same negative way of living. A few great moments isnt worth a lifetime of hurt. There isnt anything you can do but leave.
THIS is currently a BAD RELATIONSHIP.
Its not too late till you actually marry.
the tunnel metaphor I was using was ment to explain that in order to get to a positive you need to go through a negative. BUT considering you mentioned 9 years of this and still going through the negative tells me you have been overly patient and understanding with no reciprocation from him is a big issue. he himself needs to fix this before you even start walking down the isle.
He is your soulmate match but it isnt always a positive thing they can be the trial you go through in order to learn and strengthen yourself.
You know very well the relationship is not as healthy as a relationship should be and THAT is your cue to let go.
you cant hang on to something that is going to lead you into that same negative way of living. A few great moments isnt worth a lifetime of hurt. There isnt anything you can do but leave.
Thank you for your inputs, this has been very insightful. I will think about what you have said. Maybe i will find the strength in me to let go. Again, thanks alot for this, i really do appriciate it 🙂
This looks like a marriage bound relationship
The 7s, 3s and 4s correlating makes this a soulmate match.
Only real issue hear is attitudes.
You seem orderly and he is more playful.
other then this I see no issue here.
Double 5 in his chart means he must find ways to celebrate life and never let someone control him.
Double 4 in your chart means you must continue learning and stop letting great ideas live and die in your head.
Weeds you are awesome!!!! Thanks for your input!!
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Don't be a pain in my ass.
This will be limited to the end of august, after that im done. This is out of the kindness of my dark lil heart, ppl usually get paid a decent amount of money for this service. And this service is time consuming mind you... sooo if your young, still in school, found someone during the summer and have been dating for three weeks. Think hes the one?
SPARE ME!
now I need a few things from you..
First and last name from both ppl involved.
im not talking birth names im talking what you current go by.. this means if your birth name is amanda jones
And ppl call you mandy jones..
Then use the latter.
If you have been married five times and have no idea which last name to use..
I ask that you move along relationships arent ment for you.
I will also need birth dates of both parties.
Got all that?
Both First & Last Names.
Both Birth Dates.
You can pm me those if you feel they are too personal to post here.
After I've completed your chart I will post it here
As I have bill and hillary
Descriptions:
SOUL (what you feel inside, not what ppl see)
PERSONALITY (the face you show the world)
POWER (the strength of your name)
BIRTH (the way you appear to ppl)
LIFE (what you need to fullfill in order to be happy)
ATTITUDE (first impress)
---------------------------
Natural (Automatic Connection)
Compatible (get along with)
Neutral (War Or Peace)
Challenge (hurt feelings and misunderstandings)
I dont care if your chart shows all natural or all compatible two things can always ruin a perfect relationship..
Substance abuse and infidelity.
Give enough space to accommodate these things
and see where it gets you.
With that said you can make any relationship work if you feel its worth it.. so even if you have a majority if Challenge in your chart you can see where you or your partner need to work on and COMPROMISE.
Soulmates..
If you have 3 or more of the same numbers anywhere on the chart this is considered a soulmate match/connection... buuuut
It can mean one of two thing
GOOD or BAD
On one hand they come in and out your life and each time you learn from the mistakes you make with them.
On the other they get you and you get them.