So its been 2 years since the Aries and for the life of me, im still struggling to open my heart again, to be honest I dont even know if i want to. Would anyone who does Tarot reading, please give me a little guidance? I just want to know what is…
“It’s definitely not a good feeling when you get into an argument with someone knowing that you are correct, but burning inside yourself from the fact that the other side just doesn’t get the point. A Harvard psychologist Amy Cuddy suggests an…
And I’ll tell you what career you really belong…
(not sure if it belongs to the relationship forum) The question just occurred: When I have a good time with someone and vice versa, naturally I don't mind continuing. Then when the person says he needs space or the like, I just leave him alone even…
I’m finding it really difficult to deal with family members that have been borderline cruel since the passing of my mother. They’ve been really nasty and callous toward me since her passing. They’ve tried to guilt trip me and convince me I was an awful…
Do you believe in it? The path where the people you meet help you along the way.. lessons, the teachers in the form of friends, acquaintances, lovers, relationships. The lesson you never learn so therefore it never goes away. Or perhaps in the form of…
Mustard Sauerkraut Nectarine Cant remember more right…
I dont like them, nor do I trust them. If any of these are ur go to words, we probably wont get along (love, favorite, god, best, wow,…
Have you ever noticed (or is it even a ‘thing’...is that when people are lucky in love they tend to be projecting their points of view on their friends who aren’t? It’s like I know how to do it and I want to show it to you so you can be happy as…
In the grandiose schemes of life and development we all encounter those individuals who appear to have all the qualities we admire, but underneath a polished exterior existed a trash heap. Developing solid shyt tests would have saved time and emotional investments. So what is a shyt test??
A shyt test is simply heightening the emotional intensity of a situation to observe how the person reacts. To sincerely know a person, you have to see the WHOLE person. In good times, bad times, happy and under stress to know who you're dealing with. Some people do them without thinking about them, but most haven't the slightest what they are nor how to apply them. So here's a brief tutorial...
Most people wear masks in their day to day lives having to paint ideas of themselves for employers, baristas, law enforcement officers, and even associates. This is a projection of who they are, but the actual person themselves. Likewise, when a man/woman is interested in a person, they have the tendency to project the best representation of themselves in order to attract. This I refer to as a mask. It's not who you're going to be in a relationship with or getting to know; it's a projected idea of a person that is half what the person wants you to see, and the other half is what you're optimistically hoping to find. Neither are based in reality. A Shyt Test rattles all imaginings and allows you to briefly see the person for who they are in similar mannerism by which the U.S. Government often does but not exactly: Problem, Reaction, Solution. The Shyt Test is Conflict, Reaction, Conclusion.
Great Shyt Tests not only reveals the truest character of the person, but also how they would react naturally in a given situation. This is whom you will be dating. Is he generous or cheap?? Is she selfish or selfless?? Does he care about people and family or a lone shark??
These are questions most of us are seeking to find out about other, but most of us just do not feel like wasting time getting to know someone who will become just that: a waste of time. So anyone who's been in the dating scene could understand and appreciate the usefulness of shyt tests.
Now for a typical Virgo Man example which is often why we end up ghosting people.. One thing us Virgo Men often do is pay openly for dinner, the theater, the concert, roller skating, whatever we have planned for you during our evening together. This is for us Virgos an small investment to see who the woman is. With an evening worry free concerning entertainment and money, the woman will do what comes naturally to her. She will have great conversation, be courteous to others, be well mannered, so appreciation, or ... check her phone often, be vulgar, raunchy, loud, etc. One thing for certain is we are watching everything taking mental notes. This is where we see where we pay attention to your behavior, your conversation, your mannerisms, etc. And after this, you will either receive a phone call the next day or a text that will become less frequent..
For everyone who gives them Shyt Tests are different, but their usefulness is without question. Comment below on some of your older shyt tests you used to use or if you wonder whether you were Shyt Tested and failed post below with comments questions and concerns..