@Gemitati
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They pulling away...
24/7 attention, chicks get use to it, guy needs me time, no more 24/7 attention, girls freak out and depending on that...they come back or don't.
Now if they were just honest and would say...I need some time to myself...they might still get the freak out but I think a lot of women would appreciate it more.
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Also maybe you wouldn’t comprehend it bc you ARE the one that’s stepping out
True but after one of the freaks outs they receive...an explanation would make sense as the next step there.
People pull away when they lose feelings or realise that there are too many flaws in the relationship. Instead of just breaking up, they slowly fade out or keep a foot in the door and one out until they decide they're done and ready to leave. The other person usually clings and becomes needy so they pull away more. In effect it's an imbalance of power. My suggestion is don't give a shit about someone who pulls away. They don't want you and life's too short to be someone's option.
Also maybe you wouldn’t comprehend it bc you ARE the one that’s stepping out
True but after one of the freaks outs they receive...an explanation would make sense as the next step there.
Ye lost me
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If a guy starts stepping back and doesn't realize what it could cause because he just being him...after a chick freaks out...most don't explain they step back further instead.
All boils down to communication.
Also maybe you wouldn’t comprehend it bc you ARE the one that’s stepping out
I AM freaking out sometimes but I don’t call it ‘he pulled away’...
I call it ‘son of a bitch haven’t answered my text and it’s better be legit reason for it’...and it usually is.
Pulling away my ass...pull him back and stop being a victim.
Pulling away?
Focus, attention.
In the form of mentally, emotionally, and even body language.
Ever been talking to someone fully engaged in conversation, really in the flow of it? Then something catch thier eye and you see them dividing there attention? Half ass responses long pauses empty head nods?
Now imagine that at a different layer depending on what your talking about.
Oh ya not many guys are the squishy emotional type so some of us have to have alone time to recharge. If your really curious" men are from mars woman are from Venus" does a really good job explaining this point in a much easier digestible way.
No hon. I haven’t had half ass answers due to him eyeing someone else...maybe that’s why I don’t get it.
I am highly intuitive and if I felt he is not 100% here...he is a goner!
I don’t take shit because I don’t give any...
My long ass time obsession with a Scorpio is based on him always being good to me and I had not one reason to be dissatisfied with his actions toward me...until recently...he pulled some shit because he had a bad time and forgot to inform me about something that was legit reason but I was mad! Still is...and I’ve closed the door...he needs to knock. But ‘pulling away’? Nah...don’t get it.
I know I need to call and it’ll be all good but I am busy now. With Aries...and he is a jewel...so...I M wearing it...
I think it comes with age and experience. Idk...
I can’t comprehend what ta fuck are people talking about when they talking about their partner ‘started pulling away’ or ‘became distant’ or other crap people posting about their partners doing...
What is all that and is it reversible or permanent? Are they ever ‘pull back’ or ‘become close again’?
Anyone? Thanks...
Haha 💎 gem you made this thread because of what I posted 🙂
He was in touch daily very close relationship and all of a sudden he drifted little by little less contact until one day I didn’t hear from him at all, I begun to make the effort to reach out but he continued to make the bare minimum of effort and then returned like if everything was fine but it wasn’t so I ended our relationship.
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Yes. You inspired me but before your post I’ve seen soooo much of it. Never understood.
I see what he did but have you ever find out why was he making less effort? Was it legit reason or he was rethinking your rs?
When he came back...could that be because he figured out that you are what he needed and came back because of that? This time sure of himself? I agree that coming back like all is fine was wrong. He was supposed to come back with serious apologies and explanation of your benefits from his return. Did he ever?
I can’t comprehend what ta fuck are people talking about when they talking about their partner ‘started pulling away’ or ‘became distant’ or other crap people posting about their partners doing...
What is all that and is it reversible or permanent? Are they ever ‘pull back’ or ‘become close again’?
Anyone? Thanks...
Haha 💎 gem you made this thread because of what I posted 🙂
He was in touch daily very close relationship and all of a sudden he drifted little by little less contact until one day I didn’t hear from him at all, I begun to make the effort to reach out but he continued to make the bare minimum of effort and then returned like if everything was fine but it wasn’t so I ended our relationship.
Yes. You inspired me but before your post I’ve seen soooo much of it. Never understood.
I see what he did but have you ever find out why was he making less effort? Was it legit reason or he was rethinking your rs?
When he came back...could that be because he figured out that you are what he needed and came back because of that? This time sure of himself? I agree that coming back like all is fine was wrong. He was supposed to come back with serious apologies and explanation of your benefits from his return. Did he ever?
He understood that I decided to part ways if he really wanted to be with me he wouldn’t have let me go but he did so obviously he was okay with me ending things. That’s how I see it.
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He returned as nothing happened to see you ending it and was ok with it?
That’s strange. He HAD returned!
Why? Were you so mad that he got scared? 👀
I can’t comprehend what ta fuck are people talking about when they talking about their partner ‘started pulling away’ or ‘became distant’ or other crap people posting about their partners doing...
What is all that and is it reversible or permanent? Are they ever ‘pull back’ or ‘become close again’?
Anyone? Thanks...
Like when the scorpio doesn't return your calls so you start fucking a cancer and then an aries cause your cap husband won't touch you.
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I can’t comprehend what ta fuck are people talking about when they talking about their partner ‘started pulling away’ or ‘became distant’ or other crap people posting about their partners doing...
What is all that and is it reversible or permanent? Are they ever ‘pull back’ or ‘become close again’?
Anyone? Thanks...