Any experiece with Sag & Fish?

Does anyone have any stories and experiece with Sags? I recently met a Pisces and he seems sweet but not sure if I should see where it goes or not. As of now we are only friends.

Yes, Pisces Female with a Sag Male.......He broke my heart. 😢 I have never felt like the way I felt when I was with him. I really felt a soul connection.

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Why did he brake your heart?

Not a great combination of sun signs i'm afraid.

Compatibility isn't necessarily based just on sun sign though.

Two mutables on opposing elements. That's a real winner.

Well my dad is a pisces and my step mom is a sag. They're great together. They have been together for the past 20 years. My step mom is very nurturing and loving 🙂, yet blunt lol.

"They're great together. They have been together for the past 20 years. My step mom is very nurturing and loving"

At some point, everybody makes a decision as to what they can live with and what is unacceptable. For some, their weathered experience increases their tolerance for things that are not ideal, but good enough.

It's funny how we can play these word games with each other that would basically make no sense to others and yet he plays and I get it and he get's mine. I haven't connected on this level with anyone in a long time. The mental connection is definately there and he is extremely sexy but he is nine years younger and acts like he is on a total even level of maturity with me. It's bizare yet such a turn on.

"Why did he brake your heart?" His lack of honesty. If he would have been straight up with me that he could not date me because I had kids, we would still be friends. Sag's have a way of running around the truth so they don't hurt anyone's feelings but in the end he made a bad situation worst by not being honest.

Yes mental connection is definately the most appealing to this combo.

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SD - What happened to your Sag—?

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Hmmm...I've never dated a Sag, but I have several Sag friends (all male) that I love to death.

You both will share a love of creativity and the arts. However, you are both wanderers in your own way (Pisces internally, Sags externally), so either one of you trying to pin the other down could prove difficult.

Are you an energetic, talkative Sag or the more quiet, introspective type?

I am very energetic and I can be very talkative but, I find myself listening more with the Pisces then talking. He seems to talk more than me. I'm the type that can't sit still for very long. I always like to be doing something yet I love to watch movies and cuddle. I am a loner for the most part though. I know lots of people but don't have very many close friends. I'm not very trusting of them and the people I know seem to have so much drama in their lives that it really starts to get to me and so I stay away from them for a while. I am closer with men then I am with women except maybe 3 females. I have had more female friends screw me over so I am very cautious with female friends. I never tell them anything that they can hurt me with.

"I am a loner for the most part though."

Well this is another thing you have in common. Even the most outgoing Pisces I know need time on their own to recharge quite often (myself included).

Another thing, though, is Pisces are intimidated about making the first move. We get scared the other person won't feel the same way and we will have made fools of ourselves. So, if you're waiting to see where this goes, you could be waiting forever. If you want it to go in a more romantic direction, the best thing to do is just ask him if he would be interested in that.

"If you want it to go in a more romantic direction, the best thing to do is just ask him if he would be interested in that."

Wow.

HAHA! I know...in true DXP fashion I should have advised her to plan an elaborate ploy to make him jealous and see how he reacts...then not respond to his calls for awhile. 🙂

Well, I still want to wait for him to make the move. I have done that before and it seems to intimidate the man and they don't stay around long after that. I will wait and just be friends and see what happens. If something happens great, if not, well then I will have a good friend that is hot and sexy.

i think if pisces guys are expecting girls to ask them out, they'll be facing long lag times.

"Well, I still want to wait for him to make the move. I have done that before and it seems to intimidate the man and they don't stay around long after that. I will wait and just be friends and see what happens. If something happens great, if not, well then I will have a good friend that is hot and sexy."

Then you very well could be waiting forever. lol Case in point: My sister's pisces was in love with her for 2 years. She dated one of his friends for awhile, so they were always thrown into the same situations. She had NO idea how he felt about her until someone else told her.

2nd case in point: A g-friend of mine and her Pisces met in college, but she thought he liked one of her best friends for more than a year. Turns out, he was always hanging out with her friend so he could be around her (my friend). She also found out from someone else (NOT the fish).

Pisces men will ask you to hang out (as friends) but many of them are far too afraid of rejection and revealing their feelings to broach the subject of anything more serious. They also protect themselves with a sense of humor. It seems some fish men are rarely serious about anything, but this is just their defense mechanism.

Just wanted to throw this out there Saggie. As it was pointed out earlier, you are both mutable signs which means neither of you is likely to take the initiative first. You'll both just "wait and see".....and what you'll see is a great big nothing happenin. 😉

Thanks for the imput. As for being a Sag well, I usually throw myself into a relationship right away and don't allow a chance to make a friendship first and I don't want to keep doing that. Every guy that I made the first move on first well, I'm single so you know they didn't work out. They take it as if I'm too forward. The said that they wish they could of made the first move first because it made them feel like less of a man because I did. If I want someone well, I don't usually wait but, they have never worked out before so I think I want to wait and build a friendship first and then go from there. I still think he is still hurting from past relationships and I don't want him to take that out on me. I rather be his friend and let him know that all women aren't like his ex's and go from there. If it happens and the time is right then I will let it but until then, I don't want to start something when he is clearly still angry and hurt from his ex's. I don't think he really trust women right now and I want to show him that he can.

Are Pisces males self absorbed at all? I'm curious because I have some major issue in my life going on right now and he hasn't asked me if I'm ok or anything. He doesn't even acknowledge that I have something going on. He only tells me what's going on with his life and his problems but the past couple of days. Is this normal?

I have known a few like this and they all seemed to lack emotional maturity, in any sense of the word. How old is this guy, Saggie? It could be that he just needs to grow up. Most of them get past this phase.

His is in his late 20's. I know, he is still a young pup. I go through debating getting involved just for that reason. I haven't figured it out whether I am going to take this to a different level besides friendship. I guess I will just wait and see if it is a normal thing for him or if there is just alot of things going on with him right now and he is distracted. I don't have the energy to take care of someone else and not get it in return.

Wow, I didn't realize that I started this post back in April. Ok, well, I haven't seen much of my Pisces male because he started dating someone else and so did I. Neither one of them worked out for us and we ran into each other last night. He was heavily flirting with me and I played along because he is fun and really really cute. He came up and hugged me and then picked me up and leaned me up against the wall and as he was letting me down he kissed me and damn...... was that a sweet ass kiss!! Yum!! I was totally off gaurd and I don't think I handle it well. I told him that if he kept kissing me like that then I wouldn't be able to give him up. It was extremely passionate and sexy as hell! He said to me it's ok to do that between friends! Crap! I don't want just friends but I won't be a booty call either. That made me feel weird when he said that. He was a little tipsy too so I don't know if it was just the spur of the moment for him or what. We got into one of our deep converations after that and then nothing. He hugged me and I left but he was acting like he wanted me to approach him and kiss him but I didn't. Then he texted me after I left and told me Thank you and it was nice. I responded and told him that I enjoyed kissing him too and I always enjoy talking with him. Then he told me he wanted to do it some more but he was waiting for me to. Is it normally for a Pisces male to be more like the girl than the guy? He did very well when he kissed me the first time but then he made the statement about friends and that threw me off so I backed off and he didn't try to kiss me again. Hmmmmm....maybe he just had too much to drink, who knows. I know I don't! So confusing!!

Yes, many (probably most) Pisces will wait for their partner to lead.

Ok, still not sure where to go from here. I have not heard from my pisces yet. I did our compatability charts and we are extremely compatable. I don't think my chart has ever been this compatable with anyone before. Ok, so how do I approach him now? Do I just wait and when I see him just be flirty or what? Do I call him and ask him to help me with something around my house? Do I ask him if he would like to go out and do something? Not sure?

I would ask him to go out and do something, Saggie. That will make it clear that you just want to spend some time with him.

Well, last night I was out and asked him to come visit me. He did! We hung out with some friends of ours and just flirted and had fun. We both left at the same time. He gave me a hug and that was it and we left. So, I texted him and wrote "chicken" (just fun teasing) He calls me right back! He asked me what that was all about. I told him that he worry's to much about how I may react. He's like well, I did pick you up and put you up against the wall and kissed you didn't I? Then you got weird on me. I told him yes you did do that and I was shocked and caught off gaurd. He's was like what? Did you want me to push you up against your vehicle and kiss you? I told him Well, that would of been good! He's like, I didn't know you wanted that from me! Wow, men are so clueless sometimes. I told him well, yeah, duh! Then he asked why I didn't kiss him. I told him that he was the man and I'm the women and I am way too chicken to do that. He told me he would make it up to me later! We talked for over 1/2 hour on the phone. He's been really busy with work lately so it will be hard trying to actually go out on a real date. I guess we might have to just make it a mini date or something. He told me to call him when we were hanging up. My moon is in Pisces so I get really emotional sometimes too and now I can't stop thinking about him.

That's great news Sag! WTG! 🙂 Yeah, him kissing you the way he did...well..that's VERY unusual for a Pisces man. At least based on those I've known. I can see why he thought he had already put it all out there... lol

I can see how it would be tough. Pisces and Sag both seem to want their partner to take the lead, so what happens is both end up waiting...and waiting for the other to make a move.

Archer, my read on this guy you posted about is that he had feelings for you from the start and enjoyed your one on one time together. As you got to know more people and became more social, it changed the dynamic. If you were always only together in a group situation after that point, he most likely took that as a rejection, and felt you were putting him in a "friends only" category.

Thanks for imputs. I guess we will see what will happen. I guess I will just keep throughing my fishing line and hopefully reel this fishy in. 🙂 He keeps nibbling at my line but I got to get him hooked.

I think it works better when it's Pisces female/Sag male, at least in my case was with one for 6 years and we're still firm friends.

I respected his need for freedom and adventure, being similar and I gave him the understanding he craved without stifling him.

Ok, last week I decided to let myself be vulerable and I texted him and asked him if he would want to go out on a real date sometime? (Ok, saying sometime was dumb) He said that sounds good. I asked him to let me know when he has time because I know he is working alot lately. He said he will let me know. It's a week later and I still don't know. I texted him on Monday and asked him if he figured out when he had time and that I don't care what we do and he said not yet and I will let you know, ok. At this point I'm starting to give up. I can be patient to a point. Even though he has been busy well, he's not even texting me or anything and if he really wanted to go out then he would make time and give me some clue when and not just state well I will let you know because I'm not going to wait around forever. I had a friend that was going to set me up on a date with a real hot guy over the weekend and I turned her down because I thought there might be a chance with this Pisces man and I didn't want to screw that up. Now, I'm to the point that it's been exactly one week since I asked him and I don't have a clue what is going on so, I'm not going to wait no more. If he doesn't contact me by tonight then I will just keep him as a friend and start going out with others. Too bad because I really liked him. Oh well, what can I do!

"...I will just keep him as a friend and start going out with others."

Yes, this is what I would do. You don't owe him anything. He needs to move his arse. He kissed you, you asked him out. Does it get anymore obvious than that about mutual interest?

Well, I ran into my Pisces male last night. He got off work early and we bumped into each other. He kept saying he was sorry that he has been so busy with work and extra work that he is doing. He said it over and over again. I told him don't worry about it. Then I told him to give me a hug because I had to go and get things ready since I was going out of town for the weekend. He said well, thanks, you're not going to talk with me for a little bit, I wish I could afford to go out of town. That is what he said. Oh well, I left. Don't men realize if you put a women off for too long that they will stop trying and start moving on and be open to others. I bet he will call me next week. I even had this other guy call me last night that I haven't heard from in months. He wanted to know what I was up too and if I wanted to get together this weekend. He was one of those that kissed me have the night and I didn't sleep with him and I called him a few times and he kept putting me off so I gave up. Now I have Pisces doing the same thing and I will not wait. Some people think they have all the time in the world and think that I am going to wait until they are ready well, that is not going to happen.