MissAmandaLynn
@MissAmandaLynn
11 YearsTaurus
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Burned by 3 Pisces in a row
How old are they all?
Yeah, there are definitely some Bad Fish out there.
I hate that they give our sign an awful name, but the key to remember is that we are not ALL bad.
Just hang in there, pray that you meet the right person and keep your head up high.
I hate that they give our sign an awful name, but the key to remember is that we are not ALL bad.
Just hang in there, pray that you meet the right person and keep your head up high.
I bet all 3 of'em had sex with you soon after meeting you too..we have no respect for a easy lay
Also, are you a known whore? maybe word got back to them that you had numerous penises inside you..we can't tolerate that either..you will have to find a cancer if this is the case
Also, are you a known whore? maybe word got back to them that you had numerous penises inside you..we can't tolerate that either..you will have to find a cancer if this is the case
Rocky, they were all around my age. The first one wasn't as serious as it could have been, but I was hopeful. The second one actually was serious and we had been together for over a year. He was 2 years older than me. This last one is the same age as me, and he obviously doesn't know what he wants. I'm still trying to make closure, but each time I get burned, it's getting easier and easier.
Thanks Scorp. 😄
And I'm gonna choose to ignore that last remark, Damen.
Thanks Scorp. 😄
And I'm gonna choose to ignore that last remark, Damen.
Posted by MissAmandaLynn
Is this just the way Pisces are?
no
Posted by MissAmandaLynn
Do any of you males here think you could ever be with one woman and one woman only?click to expand
yes
/thread
What is your sign? I am a Libra and have the same luck with Pisces men. Apparently, they just can't make up their minds and think that the grass is greener on the other side.
Posted by MissAmandaLynn
Rocky, they were all around my age. The first one wasn't as serious as it could have been, but I was hopeful. The second one actually was serious and we had been together for over a year. He was 2 years older than me. This last one is the same age as me, and he obviously doesn't know what he wants. I'm still trying to make closure, but each time I get burned, it's getting easier and easier.
Thanks Scorp. 😄
And I'm gonna choose to ignore that last remark, Damen.
My bad,Didn't mean to disrespect you by advising you to be with a cancer..go with a libra instead then
Posted by MissAmandaLynn
Rocky, they were all around my age. The first one wasn't as serious as it could have been, but I was hopeful. The second one actually was serious and we had been together for over a year. He was 2 years older than me. This last one is the same age as me, and he obviously doesn't know what he wants. I'm still trying to make closure, but each time I get burned, it's getting easier and easier.
Thanks Scorp. 😄
And I'm gonna choose to ignore that last remark, Damen.
The age explains it all.
Problem solved.
Lotus, I'm a Taurus with a Scorpio rising. I attract Pisces, Virgos and Cappies by the truck loads. The problem I find is that I can't seem to hang on to anyone for longer than a relatively short period of time. I keep meeting the same types of guys and it's driving me crazy.
I was at a social get together recently and met this guy. I was like "What's your birthday" and he said March 5th.. I then, politely excused myself and purposely avoided him the rest of the night. I know that's shitty of me to be like that, but it's getting to the place now that I'm super paranoid about Pisces guys completely. History seems to repeat itself with me.. A lot!
My sister's a Pisces and we are super tight. So the females for me are not a problem.
I was at a social get together recently and met this guy. I was like "What's your birthday" and he said March 5th.. I then, politely excused myself and purposely avoided him the rest of the night. I know that's shitty of me to be like that, but it's getting to the place now that I'm super paranoid about Pisces guys completely. History seems to repeat itself with me.. A lot!
My sister's a Pisces and we are super tight. So the females for me are not a problem.
Posted by DAMEN VI
I bet all 3 of'em had sex with you soon after meeting you too..we have no respect for a easy lay
Also, are you a known whore? maybe word got back to them that you had numerous penises inside you..we can't tolerate that either..you will have to find a cancer if this is the case
lmao!
Posted by GobshitePosted by DAMEN VI
I bet all 3 of'em had sex with you soon after meeting you too..we have no respect for a easy lay
Also, are you a known whore? maybe word got back to them that you had numerous penises inside you..we can't tolerate that either..you will have to find a cancer if this is the case
Another good reason to avoid male Pisceans.click to expand
Sooooo ummmm..you're basically admitting that you're a easy lay and/or a whore??
Posted by MissAmandaLynn
My first Pisces was very flirtacious and had a load of female friends.
Second Pisces was more quiet and reserved, but a master at deception. He was basically living a double life and would have probably continued, had I not caught him arranging dates with other girls via his computer.
He recently told me that he wanted to have an open relationship, and that as long as I'm ok with that, he's happy to be by my side.
1. being a flirt and having a lot of female friends doesn't indicate a relationship infraction .... unless of course you are needy and require an unrealistic amount of attention. You said you were burnt, and a guy having female friends isn't burning you.
2. now this qualifies as the title states
3. this guy didn't burn you either, he stated his desire for your status if you choose to be with him and you declined.
So, really ... only one person out of those three actually burned you. But, for some reason you embellished with obvious intentions of making you not be accountable for your own life.
Posted by MissAmandaLynn
I attract Pisces, Virgos and Cappies by the truck loads.
The problem I find is that I can't seem to hang on to anyone for longer than a relatively short period of time.
click to expand
Oh, so then we find out why you lied .... because you can't handle the fact that you can't keep a man.
You are the common denominator. By your own admission - it's YOU who can't keep (in your own words) "anyone"
So, now the reason becomes clear why you are a liar.
You know, the sooner you face yourself, the sooner you will be able to find a lasting partner.
So, instead of bitching about what you don't have .... you should try checking yourself.
i attract pisces men like white on rice.
i find they only tend to respect those ladies that are either like them or better.
nothing wrong with high achievers.
i find they only tend to respect those ladies that are either like them or better.
nothing wrong with high achievers.
I've visited this place enough to know how you guys interact with each other. P Angel, if you have nothing useful or critically constructive to contribute, then please don't waste either of our time. I don't see how me meeting guys that don't want to be faithful, that string me along, cheat and lie, would classify me as a liar. (The first one cheated too) I just didn't bother to go into that... And I am pretty sure this last one was as well. He just got tired of having to cover his tracks.
Posted by MissAmandaLynn
The problem I find is that I can't seem to hang on to anyone for longer than a relatively short period of time.
You are the problem because you are the one who cannot keep a man.
I see you choose not to accept that fact.
Enjoy your ignorance.
Whatever P. You're just rude for the sake of being rude. I've heard stories about you. You rag on all of the newbies and give them shit. It's your shtick, I get it. Have fun amusing yourself, but it's not gonna work with me.
Piran, I realize this now. I totally see where my jealousy comes into play with these situations. Maybe even before things get serious. I don't care if a guy has female friends, but it's when they go out to do "things" with them alone.... That's when I get suspicious and slightly paranoid. But who wouldn't? That being said, I'm not out looking for a relationship. It's almost always the guy who approaches me, proceeds to sweep me off my feet and shower me with promises, hopes and dreams of something fruitful. Just when they have broken down my defenses and gain my trust (Not an easy thing to do), they never fail to disappoint. It's frustrating. Maybe I just have high expectations of people. I'm Italian and have a temper also. I don't put up with a lot and I seldom take people back.
Piran, I realize this now. I totally see where my jealousy comes into play with these situations. Maybe even before things get serious. I don't care if a guy has female friends, but it's when they go out to do "things" with them alone.... That's when I get suspicious and slightly paranoid. But who wouldn't? That being said, I'm not out looking for a relationship. It's almost always the guy who approaches me, proceeds to sweep me off my feet and shower me with promises, hopes and dreams of something fruitful. Just when they have broken down my defenses and gain my trust (Not an easy thing to do), they never fail to disappoint. It's frustrating. Maybe I just have high expectations of people. I'm Italian and have a temper also. I don't put up with a lot and I seldom take people back.
to address that this..
Posted by MissAmandaLynn
It's almost always the guy who approaches me, proceeds to sweep me off my feet and shower me with promises, hopes and dreams of something fruitful.
...is contradictory with this:
Posted by MissAmandaLynn
Just when they have broken down my defenses and gain my trust (Not an easy thing to do)click to expand
If someone can easily sweep you off your feet and you don't have any control over it then you don't actually have a wall built up. Not saying you should but you cannot have it both ways. You can either get lost in the haze and see where it takes you but you cannot complain if it doesn't go towards a relationship...you can take it as an experience
or
You can hold up more until someone's genuine intentions are revealed and then you can make an educated guess on that.
Posted by tiziani
E salutati, c'e bisogno di piu tipi italiani qua.
You don't. I want more Romanians and no way you're getting your wish before I get mine. I'm the 6th sign and you're the 7th so my wish comes first 😄
I HAVE A STELLIUM IN THE FIRST HOUSE 😄
and I can count on the Aries Board to wish for me and they are 1st,
and I can count on the Aries Board to wish for me and they are 1st,
Posted by tiziani
To be honest this was always a losing battle for me. You could always have just pulled out the royal flush - LIONHEARTED - at any time. But thank you for being humble and sparing me.
awww
So basically I'm the one with the problem? That's kind of what most of you all are implying. I try not to depend on anyone for making or breaking my day, but it's sometimes hard to do that when you've had horrible luck with fidelity. I don't want to be bound by regret and bitterness, because I know what it's done to my Mom. The scary thing is, I am a mirrored image of her in so many ways, and I don't want to grow into what she's become. Since my parents divorced when I was 6, my Mom's been married two times, and each time it ended, it was because my stepdads cheated.
Hey Amanda,
Listen, there are clearly some really terrible Pisceans out there and I believe you when you talk about these awful experiences with them. Like some Cancers (NOTE I DID NOT SAY ALL), we truly do have our rotten bunch. That said, we also have some great Pisceans.
You just have to be careful about who you commit yourself to, and keep in mind that anyone under 25 is usually emotionally unstable. There are rare exceptions of course, but for the most part, there is a lot of emotional instability and self-doubt in people under 25.
Just hang in there, keep your head up, and keep praying. It will all work out.
Listen, there are clearly some really terrible Pisceans out there and I believe you when you talk about these awful experiences with them. Like some Cancers (NOTE I DID NOT SAY ALL), we truly do have our rotten bunch. That said, we also have some great Pisceans.
You just have to be careful about who you commit yourself to, and keep in mind that anyone under 25 is usually emotionally unstable. There are rare exceptions of course, but for the most part, there is a lot of emotional instability and self-doubt in people under 25.
Just hang in there, keep your head up, and keep praying. It will all work out.
fishinamaize, I appreciate your constructive criticism. I know I'm not without fault and I don't want to paint myself as a victim, even though I kind of am. Portraying myself like that, I mean. I just wanted feedback from anyone who might have had experience with Pisces and to try to understand why I seemed to be running into a particular kind of Pisces, I guess? My dating life hasn't been limited to Pisces, but Pisces guys have been the ones that have attracted me the most in the past couple of years. Out of all the guys I've dated in my life, the Pisces were the only ones who couldn't remain faithful. Maybe it's wrong of me to label all Pisces as cheaters, but it's something I've only noticed with the ones I've dated.
I know, Scorpiofish. It's probably not a Pisces thing after all. It's probably just a man thing. lol
I know, Scorpiofish. It's probably not a Pisces thing after all. It's probably just a man thing. lol
Posted by MissAmandaLynn
(The first one cheated too) I just didn't bother to go into that... And I am pretty sure this last one was as well.
Which is of course ... a lie.
If the first one had cheated, you would have bothered to do go into that ... because your whole point of this thread is to convey that these Pisces men cheated on you.
It wasn't until I called you on your bullshit, that you now talk out of the other side of your tongue ... and are so idiotic that you actually think you are believed.
The 3rd one, as you state above ... is merely speculation. Because in reality, he communicated to your fucking face that he wanted an open relationship. Which means, by his own choice ... he isn't committed to you, nor wanted to be ... therefore he could fuck every person in the world and still not be cheating on you.
Basically .... this thread is in place because you can't handle the truth about yourself and so to cover the egg you have on your face, you came to dxp to proclaim victim status ... which of course, you are not.
A victim is a person who isn't in control of the situation .... while you have always been in control of yourself and your life, and the choices you make.
Posted by MissAmandaLynn
..... I can't seem to hang on to anyone .....
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ... which means, YOU are the problem, should you choose to put on your big girl pants and address the real issue.
I'm sure you won't though ... people in denial, such as yourself, have proven to the world that they'd rather make complete fools out of themselves.
Posted by fishinamaize
The thing about victim blaming, is that there are two sides to it.
On the one side, by definition of being a victim, whatever mistreatment they received is NOT their fault. I'm serious about that. Your guys cheating on you was THEIR decision, so it was THEIR fault. And no one deserves betrayal by a person they trust. I empathize with you, and I am sorry.
On the other hand...
Once a person has become a victim of some sort of mistreatment or another, they SHOULD have a better ability to protect themselves in the future. Okay, you had bad luck with fidelity... not saying its YOUR fault, but 3x YOU were drawn to the type of man who all behaved in a certain way. Blaming it on them being born between February and March is misplaced, and if you really think about it, you should know that's obvious. After all, there are NON-Pisceans who cheat, no? And it's been confirmed here, NOT all Pisces men cheat. I'll be another to vouch for that.
Now, I am not saying you deserved what you got at all. What I am saying, is from here on out you should try and figure out what it is that draws you to cheaters.
You mentioning your mothers background rings of Freudian psychology. Adult men in your life who might have been father figures of sorts both had at least one thing in common. Infidelity. Subconsciously, you might be seeking out men like that.
Well said. +1(000)
I agree; it isn't her fault that they cheated... not at all.
That she was drawn to the same type of person? That is relevant.
We gravitate toward what is familiar, whether it is good for us or not, at times.
Learning why we do the things we do, and how to change when those habits hurt us, is the solution.
Browbeating someone who is trying to find that solution is unnecessary, mean, and totally counter-productive.
🙂
To me it's karmic. Rephrase your question a bit, change the angle into "what am I supposed to learn about myself in all this"? People and relationships come to teach us lessons, sometimes painful, but always valuable, about ourselves.
The fact that you had 3 Pisces indicates you're somehow living in a catch 22 situation, sort of. Maybe you have Venus/Neptune, you attract people that are or seem or become unavailable, because deep down inside there are unconscious fears lurking, fears that are not even known to you, that prevent you from getting closer to another human being in the way that you'd want. It's about what you learn from this chain, and that's all 🙂
My 2 cents: Pisces have this task to tackle reality vs dream. It's not easy; I find Pisces males do cheat more than other signs; they're attracted to everybody who can embody a dream; they want to live that dream. It's about unlived lives.
what if you get another one, haha 🙂
The fact that you had 3 Pisces indicates you're somehow living in a catch 22 situation, sort of. Maybe you have Venus/Neptune, you attract people that are or seem or become unavailable, because deep down inside there are unconscious fears lurking, fears that are not even known to you, that prevent you from getting closer to another human being in the way that you'd want. It's about what you learn from this chain, and that's all 🙂
My 2 cents: Pisces have this task to tackle reality vs dream. It's not easy; I find Pisces males do cheat more than other signs; they're attracted to everybody who can embody a dream; they want to live that dream. It's about unlived lives.
what if you get another one, haha 🙂
^^It's April. Did you fuck him?
yes.
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