Caner Men (Woe Is Me)

I am a Pisces woman and I know a great deal about astrology but when it comes to Cancer men (sigh) their so freakin' complex. I am that myself but damn I never thought I'd be involved with someone more complex than me. I'd greatly appreciate all Cancerian feedback and anyone who knows Cancer men really well.

Okay here's my story:

I begin Management Consultant for this extremely talented Jazz/Funk/Hip-Hop group last September. The group was started by fraternal twin brothers (who are Cancers). It was fate how I began working with them. I saw them performing at a week long celebration and was instantly captivated by their talent and presence. After the performance everyone was going up to them and I was the only one who walked away but for some reason I knew that I wanted to and would be involved with them in some kind of way. So I went back to the same spot about a week later and couldn't find it. So I started a new job and begin taking a different route home that I'd never taken before and low and behold I run into them performing outside the subway(this is NY mind you so that?s perfectly normal). I couldn't believe it so I decided that it was appropriate for me to approach them. Anyway to make a long story kind of short..I began managing them. Now from the start I knew that their was a mutual physical attraction between me and the brothers but from the start I made it clear that our relationship would be strictly business and at first it was kind of hard to convince them but they soon became comfortable with it. From the start they had a hard time with communication they would always use avoidance when dealing with everything. Me being a patient Pisces I tried my best to get them to communicate (mainly in business meetings that I would call). It worked @ 85% of the time but it was always that crucial 15% that needed to be addressed but they just wouldn't let me in. I was very affective in alot of their development business wise but at times they would say that I was to assertive/aggressive (but only when necessary most of the time I was laid back and played my position in the background) but anyone who knows about the music industry knows that these are necessary traits. N-E Way our business relationship recently came to an end by....can you believe it avoidance. They avoided telling me that they wanted to manage themselves I basically had to feel it (Pisces intuition) and approach them myself. I was really hurt more so that they didn't have the respect and consideration to tell me what they were feeling. So I decided to go over to their apartment and express how I felt because them being Cancers, I knew that I could make them feel my hurt and it worked for that moment anyway. But this weird situation happened...As I was leaving one of the brothers told me that he would walk me out something that he's never done before so when he offered I felt something (Pisces intuition again) so we walk to the top of the stairs in the apartments corridor and its really dark no lights and as I'm walking I became very emotional and tears began falling ( I never show my emotions like this unless someone has really affected me to the core)so he grabs me and holds me extra close to him and starts caressing me really hard and telling me that everything will be ok he promises. The whole thing weirded me out so bad that I just ran out of his arms and into the night (very dramatic I know) but I get this eerie feeling that he likes me. I tell you one thing what I felt from that one hug I can't even put into words (maybe passion would be appropriate) but I didn't want to stick around to find out what it meant. My Scorpio best friend thinks that he wants to take our relationship to another level and that?s probably one of the reasons why he didn't want to work with me on a business level anymore and to tell you the truth I kind of think so too but I don't think I could be involved with him on a personal level just on the strength

Hey Goldenlady,

I know Cancer men pretty well, but your message was pretty complex, what are you trying to find out exactly? I'm a Scorpio with a Cancer ex. And when he was interested in me, I remember he was very very aggressive and not shy at all (had Aries rising though). I do agree that it could be because he wanted to pursue something with you and that's why he ended the business relationship. Just hope his twin doesn't have a crush on you too! Then what would happen? They're usually selfless givers, so he'd give up on you if he knew it'd hurt his brother.

Let me know what you want to know about Cancer men, and I'll write more.

Best,

Kafka