Capri lady curious about Pisces male

I met this Piscean guy online a few weeks ago and we decided to meet. Come to find out, he lives in my apartment complex, four doors away! Go figure! Anyway, we met, we had a great connection and after a couple meetings, he disappeared into a veil of smoke. No communication, nothing. I've visited him- once surprising him with a Breakfast treat, and on another occasion with a CD- he thanked me by email-not by phone. After that episode, there was no communication for two weeks.. I sent an email to him (his apparent preference, not phone)and offered a 'no-strings massage' as I knew he had back problems. Well, he responded immediately, showing up as if nothing happened. Well, now... another silent period has happened again. Last email (today) I got was: "I keep ignoring you but you keep being nice to me..." Yet he's considering coming over for dinner.. What's up with this fellow? I'm not into anything serious, that's not what I need right now.. just friendship/fun.. but even that looks impossible with an evasive, slippery fish. Any opinions on this folks?

It's either two things.One : he might be playing a game with you.Two:Maybe he doesn't want to get too attached and wants to be friends with you.As far as doing the disappering act, he might be vulnerable inside because of someone that he liked , had broken his heart and fears that it might be deja`vu all over again .So if i were you, first off , take it slow.Secondly , don't lecture him.And thirdly,just talk to him.Figure out what's eating his heart alive so you can figure out the solution .And who knows ? it might blossom into a beautiful relationship.

Well, he was married for 17 years and is in the process of filing divorce papers.. so I understand his need for privacy, etc. It's the hot-cold treatment I worry about. Should I just play hard-to-get, cuz I may be coming on too strong?

I am a capri lady too and I've been happily married to a pisces for about 31 years. He is a February pisces, not a March one--believe me there is a great difference. I can see it between my husband and his brother (who is a March pisces). I believe that a March pisces falls in love with most of the girls he meets, whereas the February pisces is more conservative. Also, I want to point out to you that you shouldn't be running after him...let him do that..men love the challenge of fighting for what they want..
if he continues to be that way, dump him!

Thanks, I'll take the advice and lay low. I guess I was being 'too friendly'. As far as conservative, he's a Feb Pisces (the 28th); close to March tho' huh? So he could be walking the thin line there..haha.