Did I make this girl depressed?

Ummm.. you should stop responding to her, PERIOD. I mean it.. block her email so they bounce back.. block her on FB and MS and whatever else you guys use. She needs to KNOW she's blocked, and you need to NOT respond even if she somehow gets around those blocks.

What you had with her was an Imaginary Relationship (though it probably felt real to HER, it's NOT) and an Emotional Affair on your fiancee. Yes, fucktard, I feel it was pretty shitty of you to so callously USE her (don't sugar coat it -- you used her like a 900 sex line!) to get your jollies with naked pics and webcam shows and steamy emails and phonesex -- and if she's 30 and still a virgin (but still doing all of this with you, even PLANNING to have an affair with you and give you her virginity - then it's not religious virginity!)... I'd say there's *something* already a bit off in this chick. Under NO circumstances should you sleep with her -- EVERRRRRRRR! That would make you a DOUCHEBAG as well as a cheating asshole, and you know it.

No, I don't think YOU are the cause of HER mental instability or to BLAME for emotional problems that caused her to snap and attempt suicide. But you're definitely a contributing factor, so kindly get the fuck out of her life so she can heal and move on... before she succeeds.

Quite often people think this place is dirty, and will try to get others to talk sex with them .... it is very disturbing to me how many people in this world are that nasty.

I didn't read what he said .... just assuming based on what Nefer was saying.