I start to realise that. I realised that I push too hard on myself at times when I feel in certain way. Call it whatever you want, but it seem like our nature is not strong enough to adapt to certain things instanteniously. It needs some time to digest it.
The problem here is that those feelings are too strong for me. They come and make my mind closed to everything except a route to escape. This is damn annoying thing, because the more you escape the more and stronger it comes back. But things need time, so pushing hard and discouraging yourself in the first place is not benefical for the future at all.
Learning to take things easy is really big lesson to learn.
lol, I can be my worse critic. However, I'm improving on that because it's WAY too stressful trying to be perfect. All of my mental, physical, and emotional strength needs to last ... distress will just destroy it!
i do push hard on myself at times but i've learned thru time that i shud alwayz praise myself wenever i've accomplished a hard task coz noone else will 🙂 LOL...
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The problem here is that those feelings are too strong for me. They come and make my mind closed to everything except a route to escape. This is damn annoying thing, because the more you escape the more and stronger it comes back. But things need time, so pushing hard and discouraging yourself in the first place is not benefical for the future at all.
Learning to take things easy is really big lesson to learn.