People and communication styles

I find the communication style s of people in this board mostly extremly boring. Nobody attacks anyone with words. Nobody has really passionate topic to talk about. When I attack people they turn into defencive and come out from their shell. As if everyone is stoned. What's wrong with people? Why nobody does not say what he/she really means? If you dislike something, then say it straight out of your damn ass, damn it.

Everybody is after "nice" things. Oh God, shut the hell up. You are boring me to death.

Hummm - Can't say nasty things cause no one will talk to you if you do - or they will make a whole New Topic on how to out you 🙂

Everybody is after "nice" things. Oh God, shut the hell up. You are boring me to death.

Not everyone is mean and evil like you Haffo. Some people, many on this board, would like to have a nice decent conversation. It is sad that you find yourself excited or entertained when people are bashing each other. You must have a lot of built up rage and sadness within you.

Haffo, you have a great sense of humor. When you are doing jokes, like when you were in shark attack mode and playing funny, that was a great side of you.

There is nothing funny about Haffo. He is a two faced person who would laugh in your face one day and talk behind your back another. He probably even isn't on this board to learn about Astrology either. I mean how does he speak English so well?

"There is nothing funny about Haffo. He is a two faced person who would laugh in your face..."

I don't laught at YOUR face, I pee.

Branh0913

You are great. The kind of story that you told above, simply starts to become too much for me. My stomach start aching when I hear another SOB story.

I prefer agression over SOB stories. It's the best mind stimulator, great perception improver and conversation maker.

u don't need to be agressive to get mental stimulation, perception improvement and conversation.....

people will also not listen if you sound nasty...

haffo it seems is confined in some stereotypical environment... hence the outburst!!!

Capgirl

It's not about WHAT they say, it's about HOW they say.

It just kills me when people explaining very calmly PROBLEMS they have. How can you be calm when you have a problem? Very unrealistically and it pisses me off, because it gives me an impression that someone is playing.

Problems do create emotional weigh on person's psyche. How could they deny that weigh? They are not human then.

" Just because you don't understand how someone else thinks doesn't mean they are wrong to think like that."

So lets say people have problems and they don't accept them as problems? Why the hell then they need an advise for it, if it's not a problem. If it's really a problem, then how they can't experience emotional weigh of it? How they can stay calm?

Am I missing something here?

Capgirl

When you deal with problem that gets under your skin (otherwise people won't post here) you surely would experience emotional disballance. I see people who stay calm as emotionally inhibited people. And please don't say crap like it is being civilised to be calm etc. I don't belive it, it's against my understanding of human nature.

"Are you unable to separate emotion from a situation in order to see the true picture?"

Depends. If I know the solution then not. If not then it will destroy me.

"See yet again you are being insulting in your comments. I haven't been rude to you and yet you are telling me not to talk crap by presuming what I will say before I say it."

Since when expression how I feel is offencive?

And what you think is more appropriate then?

Such as? An example?

I'm saying this to stop you saying it IN CASE you gonna say it.

Sorry I don't understand what you mean.

Are you trying to say you didnt get it that way?

Oh c'mon Capgirl.

Just because I adressed it as "crap" it's not gonna hurt you.

Also I adress to it as crap, because I already think it is crap. Now I shouldn't say what I think about it?

"It comes across as rude telling people not to say things when they haven't said it yet."

I guess this is cultural thing. For me, it's perfectly fine.

Also the word "crap" wasn't adressed to you personally. It was adressed to idea itself. So why do you take it as offence? It's not you who is assaulted, it's idea itself.

And finally,

You can't stop people calling names to ideas. Take Branh0913 for calling communism as idiocy, stupidity or anything similair in this sense. It doesn't make a person who talks about communism stupid though.

I don't know where you took the idea of offense from.

At any rate,

If you disagree and still find this behaviour offencive, then you can continue to ignore me as you did before.

Your argument does not make sense to me.

People are rude to me in the first place, not me to them.