Do you think I can have my Pisces back?

On Feb 1st I started a relationship with a Pisces who didn't want to be with me at the beginning because he said he still had to support her ex girlfriend with a problem she had, but then it was him who asked me to have a relationship with him. I accepted, but I'm a cancer and I felt insecure because he told me he was still in contact with her ex (by message because she lives in another city). When we started he told me he didn't want to go back with her because their relationship had become toxic, but he told me he still loved her and he knew she needed him and he wanted to protect her. But he told me he was fine with me and we got along. But there was something that didn't let us flow, and it was my distrust. On March 1st I told him I wanted to stop there because I didn't want to fall in love with someone having pendings with his ex because I was available and had everything to offer. All of it was with no drama, in fact it ended well. He told me maybe I was right. But I missed him too much and I told him and he said he misses me too. We went out a week later but he didn't propose anything, he only said: what do we do? Honestly I know he still loves her ex and I am afraid of that, but he keeps on texting me just to say: hi, how are you? And I would like to have him back and take the risk because I tried to avoid it, but I fell in love and would like to try it... do you think there's still something I can do? Do you think I should do it knowing he still has feelings for her ex and they keep in touch? Thanks in advance for your answers.

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On Feb 1st I started a relationship with a Pisces who didn't want to be with me at the beginning because he said he still had to support her ex girlfriend with a problem she had, but then it was him who asked me to have a relationship with him. I accepted, but I'm a cancer and I felt insecure because he told me he was still in contact with her ex (by message because she lives in another city). When we started he told me he didn't want to go back with her because their relationship had become toxic, but he told me he still loved her and he knew she needed him and he wanted to protect her. But he told me he was fine with me and we got along. But there was something that didn't let us flow, and it was my distrust. On March 1st I told him I wanted to stop there because I didn't want to fall in love with someone having pendings with his ex because I was available and had everything to offer. All of it was with no drama, in fact it ended well. He told me maybe I was right. But I missed him too much and I told him and he said he misses me too. We went out a week later but he didn't propose anything, he only said: what do we do? Honestly I know he still loves her ex and I am afraid of that, but he keeps on texting me just to say: hi, how are you? And I would like to have him back and take the risk because I tried to avoid it, but I fell in love and would like to try it... do you think there's still something I can do? Do you think I should do it knowing he still has feelings for her ex and they keep in touch? Thanks in advance for your answers.

just be friends (no sex) for as long as it takes to know what he is all about ...

He told me he didn't want to be with her again and he didn't look hesitant, but he still has contact with her, they write each other and as far as I know he supports her because her mother has recently died.

It was not soon. He told he has been involved three years, but it has had ups and downs. They used to break up and start again and so on. That's why it was toxic. He told me there was a time when he only saw her once in a month, and when they broke up they spent theee or four months without contact but she always looked for him and told him she needed him, and he went back again. That's why I felt insecure. Who can assure he won't go back with her being with me if she asks him for another chance? But unfortunately, and even when it was short time of being with him (although I knew him like five months ago) I have feelings for him and I like him much. He says he has feelings for me and writes once in a while, that's why I thought I could try, but o don't know how healthy or positive it is for me. Thanks for your advice

I guess you're right. Maybe I'm not ready or I over protect my heart! But I know this is life and we cannot force people neither can we prevent us from being hurt. Thanks for all your comments! I really appreciate it