Does this Pisces like me or am I hallucinating?

Hmm that could go either way honestly hun. a merman helping out isn't out of the norm. We do that for friends. I'm thinking friends for now but that could morph into more.

Speaking of which I gotta get ready for me date.

Others want to chime in?

Will and Claude are friends.

You had a FWB relationship with Will for almost a year without any realization.

Bottom line: Claude now wants his turn to take dips with you willingly opening your legs for a year before any resemblence of lights go off in your head.

No accused you of being loose ... the accusation was made that Claude is a user.

Clearly .. you weren't able to discern that.

It wouldn't matter what he did or said, or didn't do or say .. it wouldn't matter what anyone in here said or didn't say.

What matters is that you went a whole year without any realization of where you stood with Will ... and was fucking him.

Will and Claude are friends, which means Claude KNOWS that you won't care to find out what the reality of the situation is ... and he would be right = here you are in here being hopeful as hell that somebody (anybody) will tell you that you aren't hallucinating so that you have back up in letting yourself believe whatever it is you want to believe.

Men really aren't that stupid .... they know what they need to do to get their dick wet

Posted by triplearies
ok, it's hard to get a lifetime of happening into 2500 characters which is why i may sound like a fricking idiot in the first post....but will and i "saw" each other for 1 year. We were both out of marriages not long before and it started out as kindred spirits helping each other out. Then we got closer, I thought I was in love, and I thought he was in love too - things he said, things he did - but we did never move to the next level. First because I wasn't sure if I was ready and so I played a way more wait and see attitude rather than trying to push it to the next level. One day after a year of this going on when I pushed he says we're just friends who were sleeping together, nothing more (despite introducing me to his other friends as his wife on more than one occasion). So what happened with Will is not the point, and it's really not up for anyone's judgement. I learned the lessons I was supposed to learn from it. It hurt and it's done.

The point is that since I'm still on baby legs dealing with men, I don't want to misinterpret anything. I don't go slowly anymore, I move slower than a sloth. For the woman accusing me of being loose, I haven't had sex in over 18 months despite numerous men coming and going.

Claude and I have known each other for over a year now, so linking arms wasn't after 10 minutes. It was after months of talking on the phone/email/text/facebook almost every week. We are in all effect FRIENDS. There have been moments of unusual sexual tension and I do feel more comfortable and understood with him than I do with my normal male friends. I was weirded out by the request to come to my house as it seemed a bit forward and didn't want to misinterpret in one way or another the signals. I wouldn't have acted but would have watched behaviour. Since the Pisces is new to me in male form, I was looking for some insight. Not judgement, accusations of idiocy, just insight from one human trying to get through life to another.

Because that ^^^^^^^^ was written today, and not 3 days ago

Seriously, if you're going to try and "get" me, as if this thread could .. at least don't be stupid, because when you are, such as this, then the effect you are going for doesn't work.

::: shakes head :::

I will go .. I will go find a person who actually wants help.