Easy come easy go or regrets?

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LostinPhilly
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Posted by Nemesis
i'm sensing the regret might be on your side.....

shit happens you know. jobs come inbetween. unlucky chains of events too. maybe it was just not the right time for meeting yet - it's easy to jump to conclusions of course - we all do



I do have a few regrets. At the time, I was a full time student so I had all the time in the world to meet up with people. He, on the other hand, had a full time job and worked on weekends. Now that I started working, I realize I should have been way more understanding. God knows that whenever I come home at night, the last thing I wanna do is go out; and I'd rather keep my weekends free for myself.

I jumped to conclusions and I realize I shouldn't have because as you said "crap happens". He always answer my messages right away and was nice enough to text me whenever we were supposed to go out to make up for the fact that he rescheduled. But then again, my girlfriends made me jump to conclusions.
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LostinPhilly
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Posted by LostinPhilly
It's been months. I know he's still single (thanks to my FB stalking) but I'm not quite sure he still wants to talk to me. I just told him there was no point in talking if he couldn't even make it to a date. Rescheduling three times is a bit much. I disappeared and that's how things "ended".



but scorpio, you did not REALLY mean that - hurt pride and ego - pushing people aside - now you are checking his FB and wondering....and time is passing....

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That's exactly what happened. I played way too many mind games back then. Lord, I was so immature, I'm embarrassed. We were in two different life stages. I've grown since and I do realize I was a bit out of line.
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LostinPhilly
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I agree with you on that one. Even though he and I don't really know each other, I feel as though this situation made me grow. I've matured a lot since and I'm not the same person I was then.

When we met, I lacked confidence and I needed to play games to prove myself some kind of stupid point. Now, I take things more lightly mainly because I'm more confident. He didn't get to see the best version of me, he saw the bad one unfortunately. My wish would be to meet him again.

Maybe timing was off. I don't know. I had never clicked with anyone that way. I haven't met anybody since despite going on dates a lot. His memory is stuck in my head. Apparently, he's had numerous random hookups since but hasn't dated anybody.
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Posted by LostinPhilly
Posted by yellow01gt
Posted by LostinPhilly
Are Pisces men the type to be like "I realized I let a good girl go" or are they the type to go with the flow and say "case closed"?




Yes.

Posted by LostinPhilly
Absence makes the heart grow fonder or out of sight out of mind?


Yes.
--Jack




Your post makes no sense but anyway 😉
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+1! perfect Pisces response, LostinPhilly...

if it doesn't make sense or doesnt work for you, you might give up Pisces men lol

-heather
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yellow01gt
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Posted by LostinPhilly
Posted by yellow01gt
Posted by LostinPhilly
Are Pisces men the type to be like "I realized I let a good girl go" or are they the type to go with the flow and say "case closed"?




Yes.

Posted by LostinPhilly
Absence makes the heart grow fonder or out of sight out of mind?


Yes.
--Jack




Your post makes no sense but anyway 😉
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what do you mean it makes no sense? it makes perfect sense, look a little closer..

--Jack
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WateryGem
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Posted by LostinPhilly
Posted by yellow01gt
Posted by LostinPhilly
Are Pisces men the type to be like "I realized I let a good girl go" or are they the type to go with the flow and say "case closed"?




Yes.

Posted by LostinPhilly
Absence makes the heart grow fonder or out of sight out of mind?


Yes.
--Jack




Your post makes no sense but anyway 😉



what do you mean it makes no sense? it makes perfect sense, look a little closer..

--Jack
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I agree!! It does make perfect sense, I'm following Jack. 🙂