HELP! Cancerlady needs YOU! My Pisces is Stealing

Bear with me, this is kinda long...but anyone who "knows" me knows I am longwinded!

PART I
I met this guy about 1 yr ago...We had instant everything, like we had know each other in another life or something. I had no furniture, no bed, a 12 in TV, sleeping on blankets on the hardwood floor & he still stayed with me for the weekend. I knew it wasn't about sex b/c after the first night nature prevented me from that.

Then he disappeared for a week, and came back. For a while this happened & I would see him maybe once or twice a month. I asked him if he was married, he said no. His job has him travelling alot & he can't see me as much. He was the only man who was able to completely take my mind off Mr. Libra. He is a sturdy 6'5" (me 5'5") so when he holds me, I feel so safe & wonderful. The only problem is everytime I show active interest in him, he acts funny. But for example, he was supposed to come over after work one time, and he didn't answer my call when I called & never called me untilI left him a message saying "I am horny & I am going to get some whether you are here or not!" Then he came over banging on the door acting all jealous. Of course I didn't have anyone over there, but I was tired of this $ hit!

When he is around he is the best! The only problem is he has been coming by like twice a month, for a couple days. But lately, he has been coming alot more & staying & becoming more active in my life. I told him I don't have to & won't chase him. What do you guys, especially Pisces think...Is he lying? If you need more info, let me know...this is getting kinda long.

PART II
He has been over 3/4 days this weekend. I don't know if this is the reason, but I have Mr. Taurus (a strictly platonic friend) living with me for a minute til he gets on his feet. Since then I have seen Mr. Pisces more times this weekend than I have in a long time. For me, it's not that he travels or is not there as much...The problem lies in that he wants me to be his "woman" and not see anyone else.

We had this conversation a couple of months ago when I told him it I never considered us boyfriend/girlfriend and that I had been seeing other men besides him. He said he thought that I was only with him & that made him "in another place with me" I told him it was damn near impossible to be monogamous with someone who is never there. It's not his money I want, its him! I guess he is used to dealing with golddiggers.

I could just be cut buddies with him, although it has been over a year, I have kept my heart at a distance. I let him know what it could be like, but I also let him know I am not, nor do I have to chase him. Just a few days ago, we had another serious convo. I asked him did he know what it was like to be in love with someone who doesn't give a damn about you...He said he didn't know I cared so much. Since then, and since I have made myself less available (even going so far as to not answer his calls, then when I do I am very cold) he is so acting right! You don't have to be under me 24/7 for me to feel loved. He is calling me more, asking about my day, & letting me into his life more. I could handle his behavior, but I don't want to let my heart go & he starts acting like before.

My stars have predicted a long term relationship in my midst, and I have several excellent candidate, I just want to pick the right one. I don't want to not trust him because he is not under me all the time. I have a sporadic schedule also, I just want to feel loved. He makes me feel that way whenever we are together & recently even when we are apart. He is EVERYTHING I have ever asked for in a man, so I have to at least see if it is worth my time. Oh but ladies PLEASE BELIEVE I ALWAYS, ALWAYS have a back-up plan

Opinions please, especially Pisces people! Thanks

Cancerlady