how long will a Pisces wait for a person they like

I knew this Pisces girl for about 3 years, just used to stare at eachother from a distance and do the whole looking when he/she isn't looking but when he/she turns around, we look the other direction lol. Anyway about 1 year ago I mustered up the courage to go and break the ice, so we had a conversation and was giggling and smiling at me a lot. And one of her friends told me she thinks we look good together.

Unfortunately then I got very ill, as in life threatening. I basically just disappeared without telling her where i went. I was sick for about 11 months, no contact. My self esteem took a huge hit & i felt i lost my good looks.

I came back on the scene and it seemed she hadn't forgotten me, she was all happy when she saw me for the first time & said she missed me etc. The problem now is although physically im much better, im still very depressed and moody because of my medication. I really want to be with her more than anything but I feel it's unfair to her to get involved when I'm not happy and make her unhappy too. I want to sweep her off her feet.

So Pisces will you wait for a guy you have a crush on/like or do you just move on after a certain amount of time?

^^^ This. I don't know if it's true for all pisces but for me I would still wait on a crush even after the opportunity has passed. Like even if a have a new crush I'll still think about the previous ones now and then. (Even after it's been years) I don't think you'll have that problem with the Pisces your interested in.

It's a good sign that you care about her feelings and don't want your mood to effect her negatively. About the whole being unfair situation as long as you think you're at a good place now I would say go for it. I'm not sure if I'm right but I think you want to be the "perfect man" for the pisces and that's simply not possible. Just be the best person you can be. Hope things go well for you guys.

Time?


You have it all wrong. So long as you do, you'll never even have her.

You said: "My self esteem took a huge hit & i felt i lost my good looks."

If a Fish connects to you, then you have no outer looks ... only the emotional connection. So long as you are approaching superficial, a shallow giggle is all you'll ever get.

You said: "I feel it's unfair to her to get involved when I'm not happy and make her unhappy too."

An outside person cannot determine your happiness, so therefore they also cannot provide fairness or not, in regards to what you consider fair.


Pretty much, you're a surface dweller and only capable of grasping the ego.

Lion much?

The only issue I see here is your control issues.

This is all about how you can or cannot control her, and the situation.


She might stick around for a toss around the sack or two, because Leos are damn good lays. But, you'll never even scratch the surface of her so long as your awareness is yourself ... such as you have presented here.

Do pisces wait and burn time with someone else or totally move on and forget about u, it's confusing

Speaking for myself, If someone i like cuts me off or backburners me, i go through a month n a half long grieving period before i start putting myself back out there. This isn't to say that i dont care for the person in question, it just means that im not about to wait for some guy that is trying to play me or stall me out. I also have Aries in Venus so i guess that means im especially prone to flirting and finding other suitors.

In short, you better get what you've been missing before someone else does.

when I was younger I would wait for someone who has shown deep love for me... as I got older, I'll wait for no one, more than a couple months, life is too short and sometimes if you want to be with someone you'll find ways... putting someone in the backburner is no fair..

Posted by Goldie27
Do pisces wait and burn time with someone else

I would never "burn time w someone else" lol
N if I do that'd mean I've lost all respect 4 U BBY

Posted by tiziani
It's not really a question of time with Pisces, it's a matter of security. If you make them feel safe with you, they are yours.

nailed it on the first response. very well said...

--Jack

Posted by YellowSubmarine

Posted by yellow01gt

Posted by tiziani
It's not really a question of time with Pisces, it's a matter of security. If you make them feel safe with you, they are yours.

nailed it on the first response. very well said...

--Jack

I agree with this, but just because you feel safe doesn't mean you're happy.

Safety and comfort can also get very boring.

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i love safety and boringness.

there's a pure gold irony in this. boring and comfot..... *sigh* security for the win!!

The only time I'll wait is when 1.) we both know and have stated there is a mutual like/love and that we want and plan to be together, 2.) You don't disappear without giving a reason I agree is logical, 3.) There is an established time frame that is fairly short. "We can be together later in our lives when things are more stable" won't cut it. If the situation meets these criteria, I'll wait and stay single.