I am so fucking torn over you pisces...

I realized that I've never had that with any of my other ex's, and I've had quite a few. It was painful nostalgia.

I'm so fucking torn on what to do. I want to text her back but it's been so long I have no idea what to say. I don't even know if I SHOULD text her back in the first place.

TL;DR It's a recap over my extensive and intimate relationship with an ex gf of mine, who I'm torn over whether or not I should start talking to again.

Imagine if you don't ever talk to this girl again... Will you regret it?

I'm a Pisces seeing a Scorpio male.

I like this combination immensely.

do you think it can work? If so go for it. Only thing harder than walking away once is doing it the second time. If you know its going nowhere save yourself the heartache.

You need to ask yourself if you allow yourself to go there will you want to be in a relationship with her again. And if so can you handle her multiple guy friends and can you trust her? If any of those questions = no. I say as hard as it is let her go. If you can then proceed in good faith.

I'm feel so sorry for your plight.

God lately all these threads are showing up that us merfolk are douche bags. Say it ain't so!!

So this will be like, your last statement? Telling her you'll always have feelings for her but that you will continue giving her the cold shoulder?

It sounds honest, but you must know it will probably stir things up won't it? She may respond with a hell of a long text message returning sentiments/explanations for the past. It may bring up even more painful memories and feelings. If you are explaining that you can no longer talk to her.. And you know you really don't want to speak to her again.. Why even say anything at all?

If you really do want to keep contact though.. Somewhere inside yourself, hypothetically, do you think itd be more or less useful to keep it light if and when you reached out to her? Since its been a while.. Maybe you guys can start anew? Keep it light, interesting.. Idk.

I have no idea who you two really are, obviously., so I'm just explaining what comes to mind reading all of this.. Idk how either of you respond to emotions or whatever.. So meh.

Posted by XanderEmpyre
I don't know if it would work out between us if we do ever decide to get back together but fuck I just want another experience like the one I had with her (of course before the negative stuff) and so far I haven't been able to find it. No matter how many girls I've dated. I've decided to text her in the wee hours of the morning and surprise her with this text. An end all be all if you will. What do you think? Good idea?

I enjoyed reading your text. I'm sure you're just being friendly, but as you should recall, I will never be "just" friends with you. I'll always love you immensely and feel as if you are a part of me, but at some point you lost my trust. Idgaf if you think I'm coming on too strong right now. I mean this shit just as I did each and every time I told you I love you. If you choose to ridicule me for this, go ahead but know ur the only girl I've ever explained too why they are getting the cold shoulder.

How does that look? Think it'll pull on some heart strings?

It think it would, it comes across as sincere and i believe she wouldnt be texting you unless she still cared. But why send it? what do you want to happen truthfully?

She always blurbs on twitter about loyalty and trust and true love. She seems trustworthy but then again pisces are masters at setting up illusions and are not very fixed to their principles that they hold. Especially if there is some form of escape from guilt or source of blame like alcohol.

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Posted by XanderEmpyre
I don't know if it would work out between us if we do ever decide to get back together but fuck I just want another experience like the one I had with her (of course before the negative stuff) and so far I haven't been able to find it. No matter how many girls I've dated. I've decided to text her in the wee hours of the morning and surprise her with this text. An end all be all if you will. What do you think? Good idea?

I enjoyed reading your text. I'm sure you're just being friendly, but as you should recall, I will never be "just" friends with you. I'll always love you immensely and feel as if you are a part of me, but at some point you lost my trust. Idgaf if you think I'm coming on too strong right now. I mean this shit just as I did each and every time I told you I love you. If you choose to ridicule me for this, go ahead but know ur the only girl I've ever explained too why they are getting the cold shoulder.

How does that look? Think it'll pull on some heart strings?

It think it would, it comes across as sincere and i believe she wouldnt be texting you unless she still cared. But why send it? what do you want to happen truthfully?

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TRUTHFULLY and I mean this from the very core of my being, I want HER to be MINE and only MINE. I want to share the same love we had for each other at one point in time. With that response I was thinking maybe she can see I still have a burning passion for her and not feel fear to reciprocate.

Or am I just being creepy now...? Gah fuck my brain.

I think that your right in your assessment of Pisces. I can't deny being friends with my exes, and still caring about them, or about my male friends, or even innocently and somewhat unintentionally flirting with men, or women even, although i feel like i am just being nice, chatty and fun. I know that it may come off as more to others. Even if those things are true, those feelings NEVER measure up to the feelings I hold for my man. I think that there are two sides of the coin...

The freedom loving, empathetic and human-relationship-understanding nature of the Pisces woman, and the part that loves, loves her man deeply and passionately to the very end of her being. I think that most of us Pisces ladies are incredibly loyal, but we also have to be loyal to ourselves, and try our hardest not to lose ourselves in others, since that's quite common with our sign because we DO allow ourselves to go so deep with our partners. If we give ourselves completely to our significant others.. We will have none left for ourselves.. And may end up resenting them in the end.

I think to be with a Pisces girl, you gotta be open to both sides of the coin.

Altho Scorpio and Pisces go so well as they understand each others emotional natures, i think it's hard for scorpio to accept that he can never own her, but truly you can never own anyone, ya know?

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Posted by XanderEmpyre
I don't know if it would work out between us if we do ever decide to get back together but fuck I just want another experience like the one I had with her (of course before the negative stuff) and so far I haven't been able to find it. No matter how many girls I've dated. I've decided to text her in the wee hours of the morning and surprise her with this text. An end all be all if you will. What do you think? Good idea?

I enjoyed reading your text. I'm sure you're just being friendly, but as you should recall, I will never be "just" friends with you. I'll always love you immensely and feel as if you are a part of me, but at some point you lost my trust. Idgaf if you think I'm coming on too strong right now. I mean this shit just as I did each and every time I told you I love you. If you choose to ridicule me for this, go ahead but know ur the only girl I've ever explained too why they are getting the cold shoulder.

How does that look? Think it'll pull on some heart strings?

It think it would, it comes across as sincere and i believe she wouldnt be texting you unless she still cared. But why send it? what do you want to happen truthfully?

TRUTHFULLY and I mean this from the very core of my being, I want HER to be MINE and only MINE. I want to share the same love we had for each other at one point in time. With that response I was thinking maybe she can see I still have a burning passion for her and not feel fear to reciprocate.

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I hadn't read that when I typed this:

"Altho Scorpio and Pisces go so well as they understand each others emotional natures, i think it's hard for scorpio to accept that he can never own her, but truly you can never own anyone, ya know?"

Interesting, but I think I know scorpios well.. So I could easily guess that you want her to be YOURS. :p 🙂

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Posted by XanderEmpyre

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Posted by XanderEmpyre
I don't know if it would work out between us if we do ever decide to get back together but fuck I just want another experience like the one I had with her (of course before the negative stuff) and so far I haven't been able to find it. No matter how many girls I've dated. I've decided to text her in the wee hours of the morning and surprise her with this text. An end all be all if you will. What do you think? Good idea?

I enjoyed reading your text. I'm sure you're just being friendly, but as you should recall, I will never be "just" friends with you. I'll always love you immensely and feel as if you are a part of me, but at some point you lost my trust. Idgaf if you think I'm coming on too strong right now. I mean this shit just as I did each and every time I told you I love you. If you choose to ridicule me for this, go ahead but know ur the only girl I've ever explained too why they are getting the cold shoulder.

How does that look? Think it'll pull on some heart strings?

It think it would, it comes across as sincere and i believe she wouldnt be texting you unless she still cared. But why send it? what do you want to happen truthfully?

TRUTHFULLY and I mean this from the very core of my being, I want HER to be MINE and only MINE. I want to share the same love we had for each other at one point in time. With that response I was thinking maybe she can see I still have a burning passion for her and not feel fear to reciprocate.

I hadn't read that when I typed this:

"Altho Scorpio and Pisces go so well as they understand each others emotional natures, i think it's hard for scorpio to accept that he can never own her, but truly you can never own anyone, ya know?"

Interesting, but I think I know scorpios well.. So I could easily guess that you want her to be YOURS. :p 🙂

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I think that is what he meant and understand exactly where he is coming from. Ive been there and it is hard, i wish you the best and truly hope it works out.

Posted by LouLore
I think that your right in your assessment of Pisces. I can't deny being friends with my exes, and still caring about them, or about my male friends, or even innocently and somewhat unintentionally flirting with men, or women even, although i feel like i am just being nice, chatty and fun. I know that it may come off as more to others. Even if those things are true, those feelings NEVER measure up to the feelings I hold for my man. I think that there are two sides of the coin...

The freedom loving, empathetic and human-relationship-understanding nature of the Pisces woman, and the part that loves, loves her man deeply and passionately to the very end of her being. I think that most of us Pisces ladies are incredibly loyal, but we also have to be loyal to ourselves, and try our hardest not to lose ourselves in others, since that's quite common with our sign because we DO allow ourselves to go so deep with our partners. If we give ourselves completely to our significant others.. We will have none left for ourselves.. And may end up resenting them in the end.

I think to be with a Pisces girl, you gotta be open to both sides of the coin.

Altho Scorpio and Pisces go so well as they understand each others emotional natures, i think it's hard for scorpio to accept that he can never own her, but truly you can never own anyone, ya know?

Very eloquently stated. You've put some things in perspective. Thank you awesome pisces lady.

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Posted by LouLore

Posted by XanderEmpyre

Posted by Fire-Water

Posted by XanderEmpyre
I don't know if it would work out between us if we do ever decide to get back together but fuck I just want another experience like the one I had with her (of course before the negative stuff) and so far I haven't been able to find it. No matter how many girls I've dated. I've decided to text her in the wee hours of the morning and surprise her with this text. An end all be all if you will. What do you think? Good idea?

I enjoyed reading your text. I'm sure you're just being friendly, but as you should recall, I will never be "just" friends with you. I'll always love you immensely and feel as if you are a part of me, but at some point you lost my trust. Idgaf if you think I'm coming on too strong right now. I mean this shit just as I did each and every time I told you I love you. If you choose to ridicule me for this, go ahead but know ur the only girl I've ever explained too why they are getting the cold shoulder.

How does that look? Think it'll pull on some heart strings?

It think it would, it comes across as sincere and i believe she wouldnt be texting you unless she still cared. But why send it? what do you want to happen truthfully?

TRUTHFULLY and I mean this from the very core of my being, I want HER to be MINE and only MINE. I want to share the same love we had for each other at one point in time. With that response I was thinking maybe she can see I still have a burning passion for her and not feel fear to reciprocate.

I hadn't read that when I typed this:

"Altho Scorpio and Pisces go so well as they understand each others emotional natures, i think it's hard for scorpio to accept that he can never own her, but truly you can never own anyone, ya know?"

Interesting, but I think I know scorpios well.. So I could easily guess that you want her to be YOURS. :p 🙂

I think that is what he meant and understand exactly where he is coming from. Ive been there and it is hard, i wish you the best and truly hope it works out.

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Whoops. What I was trying to add to that quote post:

Oh I know I wasn't putting any blame or ridicule on him, or anyone for feeling that way. I'm a very possessive person myself, but try and reason with myself in moments I'm feeling possessive. It Is hard, I know. :/

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Posted by LouLore
I think that your right in your assessment of Pisces. I can't deny being friends with my exes, and still caring about them, or about my male friends, or even innocently and somewhat unintentionally flirting with men, or women even, although i feel like i am just being nice, chatty and fun. I know that it may come off as more to others. Even if those things are true, those feelings NEVER measure up to the feelings I hold for my man. I think that there are two sides of the coin...

The freedom loving, empathetic and human-relationship-understanding nature of the Pisces woman, and the part that loves, loves her man deeply and passionately to the very end of her being. I think that most of us Pisces ladies are incredibly loyal, but we also have to be loyal to ourselves, and try our hardest not to lose ourselves in others, since that's quite common with our sign because we DO allow ourselves to go so deep with our partners. If we give ourselves completely to our significant others.. We will have none left for ourselves.. And may end up resenting them in the end.

I think to be with a Pisces girl, you gotta be open to both sides of the coin.

Altho Scorpio and Pisces go so well as they understand each others emotional natures, i think it's hard for scorpio to accept that he can never own her, but truly you can never own anyone, ya know?

Very eloquently stated. You've put some things in perspective. Thank you awesome pisces lady.

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For sure. And hey, thank you also, because I've never even really thought about myself, or my relalationship with my scorp in this way, until you inspired those thoughts in me.

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Posted by LouLore
I think that your right in your assessment of Pisces. I can't deny being friends with my exes, and still caring about them, or about my male friends, or even innocently and somewhat unintentionally flirting with men, or women even, although i feel like i am just being nice, chatty and fun. I know that it may come off as more to others. Even if those things are true, those feelings NEVER measure up to the feelings I hold for my man. I think that there are two sides of the coin...

The freedom loving, empathetic and human-relationship-understanding nature of the Pisces woman, and the part that loves, loves her man deeply and passionately to the very end of her being. I think that most of us Pisces ladies are incredibly loyal, but we also have to be loyal to ourselves, and try our hardest not to lose ourselves in others, since that's quite common with our sign because we DO allow ourselves to go so deep with our partners. If we give ourselves completely to our significant others.. We will have none left for ourselves.. And may end up resenting them in the end.

I think to be with a Pisces girl, you gotta be open to both sides of the coin.

Altho Scorpio and Pisces go so well as they understand each others emotional natures, i think it's hard for scorpio to accept that he can never own her, but truly you can never own anyone, ya know?

Very well said. I couldn't have said it better myself 🙂

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You were in my last thread about this girl. You said you had the same aspects as her. Hypothetically if you received a text like the one I posted earlier how do you think you'd respond? I know it's won't be the same but I'm just curious.

Here's our charts if you don't remember


Here's hers (time not known)

planet sign degree motion
Sun Pisces 21??35'28 in house 4 direct
Moon Scorpio 14??02'00 in house 1 direct
Mercury Pisces 15??38'33 in house 4 retrograde
Venus Aries 20??00'39 end of house 5 stationary (R)
Mars Cancer 12??03'59 in house 8 direct
Jupiter Libra 12??04'07 in house 11 retrograde
Saturn Aquarius 24??31'08 in house 4 direct
Uranus Capricorn 21??20'41 in house 3 direct
Neptune Capricorn 20??40'43 in house 3 direct
Pluto Scorpio 25??28'10 in house 1 retrograde
True Node Sagittarius 16??09'23 in house 2 retrograde

Here's mine

planet sign degree motion
Sun Scorpio 15??32'27 in house 10 direct
Moon Aries 14??05'42 in house 3 direct
Mercury Sagittarius 7??27'16 in house 11 direct
Venus Sagittarius 22??58'42 end of house 11 direct
Mars Cancer 24??48'32 in house 7 direct
Jupiter Libra 5??40'37 in house 8 direct
Saturn Aquarius 12??15'09 in house 1 direct
Uranus Capricorn 14??54'54 end of house 12 direct
Neptune Capricorn 16??38'24 in house 1 direct
Pluto Scorpio 22??34'29 in house 10 direct
True Node Sagittarius 22??02'02 end of house 11 retrograde

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Posted by XanderEmpyre

Posted by LouLore
I think that your right in your assessment of Pisces. I can't deny being friends with my exes, and still caring about them, or about my male friends, or even innocently and somewhat unintentionally flirting with men, or women even, although i feel like i am just being nice, chatty and fun. I know that it may come off as more to others. Even if those things are true, those feelings NEVER measure up to the feelings I hold for my man. I think that there are two sides of the coin...

The freedom loving, empathetic and human-relationship-understanding nature of the Pisces woman, and the part that loves, loves her man deeply and passionately to the very end of her being. I think that most of us Pisces ladies are incredibly loyal, but we also have to be loyal to ourselves, and try our hardest not to lose ourselves in others, since that's quite common with our sign because we DO allow ourselves to go so deep with our partners. If we give ourselves completely to our significant others.. We will have none left for ourselves.. And may end up resenting them in the end.

I think to be with a Pisces girl, you gotta be open to both sides of the coin.

Altho Scorpio and Pisces go so well as they understand each others emotional natures, i think it's hard for scorpio to accept that he can never own her, but truly you can never own anyone, ya know?

Very eloquently stated. You've put some things in perspective. Thank you awesome pisces lady.

For sure. And hey, thank you also, because I've never even really thought about myself, or my relalationship with my scorp in this way, until you inspired those thoughts in me.

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I'm glad to be of help but don't get too lost in thought! Pisces are susceptible to confused thoughts and emotions because of the complexity of their deep nature. Though you are lucky because if you ever find yourself in that kind of predicament your scorp is perfect for healing of such ailments. Good luck to you both.

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Lol P

Are you shaking your head at the last thing he said about us Pisces? Or something other in the thread.

I was gonna day something in response to what he said and then just left it be rather.

Just that Pisces can get caught up in thoughts.. But I think that only happens when we aren't focusing on something.. And with my responses to this thread I was focused, and not lost.. Inspired.. Not confused.

But scorpios can ground when the Pisces is off getting lost in thought, perhaps worrying, I do agree.

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Cosign.

Something seems off about his story. Can't quite put my finger on it. Or put it in words. Just an intuition about the credibility of his story.