Intuitively Disabled

Notice how the Pisces RARELY asks questions in here (or real life, for that matter) about relationships .. it's endless, the amount of people who come in here and inquire as to why this, why that, what was meant by this, he said this, she did that, blah, blah .. every once in a great while, one of us will ask questions on another board about a person .. but 99% of the time, we ask no questions about how to read a person we're into.

Perhaps, in a way, this makes us disabled .. certainly, being intuitive has it's good points .. but, there's nothing left to figure out ..

.. people are pretty boring rather quickly .. thier all predictable. There's nothing new to learn about another person after the first encounter, in most cases .. sucks, in a way.

Out there somewhere is the person who's gonna leave me guessing .. a mystery.

Completely spontaneous with ever changing views and opinions .. that's my man.

The Virgo is too predictable for me .. same shit, different day .. mechanical, routine, systematic .. BORING

Aqua's, huh? That's what kris said .. so far, every person I've ever met .. I had them nailed inside 20 minutes ..

.. where oh where are you? I'm getting old sitting here, time is running out, my love.

There all on other boards asking questions...i.e. aqua board

You definitely need to meet an aqua P-angel.

Looks to me as though DK is the one talking .. he's not a Fish, is he?

No DK is reclaiming the board , he's an aqua.

I think aquas ask less about relationship woes...because we really dont do relationships well or at all.

Actually Lady, one time about 10 years ago, or so .. I did.

He was looking for someone single .. I was married .. but, he definitely had my attention. It's just that you Aqua's won't attach yourself to feelings and this here fish can't handle that .. feelings define me.


"He's my lil one's dad..Now he is right where I want him, if I want him, but I don't.."
See, that makes him too predictable, to easy ..

I want someone who can mix it up .. leave me guessing at every turn, yet, also knows when it's time to cuddle me because my emotions have gotten the better of me, he'll be protective, yet, allows me freedom to express in my own way.

All these other women in here who aren't sure about mixed signals, not knowing whether they've secured a man and pulling their hair out .. never happens to me. I suspect most Pisces are the same way ..

I'll push, prod, tempt .. extremely engaging. I'm looking for the person who will stand up to me and push back, but, not with anger, rather, delighted that somebody isn't going to just sit there like a "door-mat" with a lead around their neck.

I respect the man who will make a stand in front of me and not let me control him. One who knows that I'm capable of directing myself .. I'm not looking for answers to a problem ..

Where is he?

Yeah, I noticed .. it's because Scorp took over, isn't it?

It's a contest, lol

He's really cool, too .. haven't really talked to him (DK) much, but, he seems really sweet.

Well, scorps didnt take over...
Aquas are just resting, our milestone was strenuous ya know

DK's exploring DXP...a little too much...but he's cool

...archy on the other hand is spam.....

Solitas you need to refer to a posting between me and PP (PrettyPisces) where I talked about how I desire change but change in experiencing new things on an adverturous level.

I agree with Notso's statment as well about Virgo and Pisces. Maybe that's why we usually end up not getting along. Darn shame though really.

I say that in that I was talking about that's the kind of change that most Pisces desire not just my own. I think I am right in speaking for my kind on this.

That's easy for you to say, Solitas .. because everybody is new to you, still.

There are patterns to personalities .. there aren't that many.

For you guys, getting to know somebody is a new thing .. imagine if you had to spend the rest of your life doing the same thing over and over and over .. nothing to explore, nothing to find ..

You can't imagine walking in a Pisces shoes .. nobody can. Yes, something new can be projected onto others .. but, you know .. people want to find things out for themselves, they don't want someone to sit there, already aware of the outcome and just humoring you while you make your journey .. and that's how it feels.

I guess you guys do want to be figured out .. don't we all?
That's what I'm talking about, lol

The getting to know you stage is only overextended on your part .. that is what I'm talking about .. it's all new to you, it's old to us .. personalities aren't original.

Now, attitude .. that's original .. what's it gonna be?
The same old, same old .. just a different day?
Fire away .. that's attitude.

To have a nice girl for you is great .. however, if she's a Pisces, she will soon tire and swim away .. people aren't understanding the Fish .. we shake things up because if we don't .. we're bored with you. Call it drama, call it whatever you want .. we have to have new stuff too, you know, and if your not making it happen, we will.

Men would think that the Piscean female would just be content to sit back and be nice and have a routine .. would you? Would any of you want that? Tens years later, same shit for us, while everything is still new to you to experience in life?

Pretty damn unfair to expect that of anybody .. you wouldn't allow it for yourself.

If you don't want women to all dramatic and shit, then don't let him get bored with you. Mix it up .. make it happen.

Solitas .. what you said .. I've already done all that.

Somewhere .. out there .. there's a man for me who will have the ability to read me, my expressions, my tone, my mood, my everything .. and he'll know when it's time to shake up my spirit and get me entralled in something to learn, just as, he'll know when I'm stuck in a rut, he'll know when I'm totally captivated and allow me to delve deeper into whatever it is that has my attention .. he'll know me, just as I will know him and engage him, encourage him, interest him .. what you guys propose is for us to sit back and be tickled to death that YOU are finding new things in life to enjoy, eventhough we aren't feeling it with you .. no thank you, that's not living .. that's only existing while you live.

My man is going to keep me interested in learning new things with him .. not watching him as he's enjoying.

He's there .. somewhere .. he's open to possibilities and not stuck within a closed mind .. that much, I know.

So, the solution to the Pisces being disabled socially because of their intuition is by tapping into what moves her/him .. such as music, maybe fiction .. the imagination.

That is uncharterd territory .. the mind will never stop thinking stuff up. If a Pisces is left to live a life with no partner who can dream with her .. she'll act it out .. what you call drama.

Dream with her, share it with her .. wrap her in world of make-believe from time to time and it will fulfill the void of needing to experience new things.

"Question is, do you have the courage for it? Could you go sky-diving or take a trip to NYC or Los Angeles on a whim?"


Yeah .. if I trust that the man knows how to protect me. In fact, I'd rather do something without planning .. set plans set a person up to have a miserable time because you have expectations .. nothing is set in gold, there will always be glitches, so inevitably .. people are dissappointed. However, spur of the moment things always turn out beautiful because nothing is expected, except togetherness.

To first start off with trying to date someone, I would likely want to go to somewhere familiar .. it also has to do with something else, though, at least for me. The last thing I want is to have to control .. I can't stand a passive man who will sit and wait for direction. I'll test that .. I'll want to always do things my way to see if he is going to make a stand for his likes and dislikes, or just always go along with the flow. If he always concedes and I get my way .. I'll leave.

Solitas .. what you say about your Pisces is dare-devil kind of stuff .. if we think we are being left out in the open and not protected by you .. we sure aren't following you anywhere .. that appears wreckless.

That's what you get for thinking.

Spoken by someone who is single and in real-life experiences, has nothing to compare this to, rather, someone elses say-so, lol

I've been with the same man longer than you've been alive ..

You know nothing about real men, only boys.

Sorry, solitas .. that's what I get for paying attention .. that response was my mistake.

Here's my response to that .. that's not manipulating from my perspective, rather seeing what you are expecting of me. Just like, you saying that a woman isn't courageous if she won't go somewhere on a whim. You are expecting of her and if she doesn't want to do those things, then your position changes on how you view her .. no different.

I don't want a passive man .. how else is one suppose to know that?

I'll test it .. every woman will test, just as every man will test .. you pass the test or fail. It's called considerations to dating.

You need to learn that .. especially if your going to date. People have considerations, conditions to what they want and don't want in a potential partner. People will feel you out .. see how you will respond.

Message posted by: solitas777 on 3/14/2007 3:44:38 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.34

Push them into an exciting, new, and dangerous situation and see how they react. That is exactly what the Aries will do for the pisces.



That is a test to see how they will respond, or react ..

I may be late but HELL yes Solitas I would love to go on weekends trips at a whim and whatever else you suggested- uh the skydiving, now that this just aint a Pisces thing but I don't know too many people SIGN ASIDE who would be so quick to just jump in and do that, lol- I guess this depends on the indiviual and not a characteristic Pisces trait as I thought😢

I know, right?

Just taking off on a whim .. go sailing, or skiing, swimming in the gulf with the dolphins, sky diving, drive to NYC to take in a show and have a romantic evening in a luxurious hotel where you get pampered, scaling down a mountain side .. all on the spur of the moment .. sounds like the perfect mate, doesn't it?

Solitas .. in theory, that sounds right, "Communication is one of the most important factors in a partnership". However, a Virgo doesn't communicate his desires, that is, until he is dis-satisfied, then he's heard, very loud.

Years and years and years of dealing with one, leaves a person no other choice except to put things out there and see what kind of a reaction comes from it because if asked how he feels, or what he wants or likes .. he's silent until hell freezes over.

How nice it would be to be with a man who will actually state his mind, so we could share our life together, instead of having to direct everything, making ALL decisions. I hate it .. with a passion.

Archer .. I hear ya .. I know they are perfect for my kind .. however, I'm too forward for them .. not lady enough .. too mean. But, what they aren't comprehending is that I live within my environment .. nice makes nice.

my Virgo is a son-of-a-bitch and so am I .. that's why we're seperating .. I just can't handle him anylonger .. my true Piscean nature is yearning to come out again.

"I heard it was scarier than bungee jumping."

I don't think it's scarier than bungee jumping. After all, you do not face with a chance that your brains would flush out of your eye holes.

lol, Haffo

I want an aries.

nah notso, you dont want a virgo...you spent too much time on that board.
And another scorp!! That would be a movie I want to watch.

😛
never pay for anything, that you could easily get for free...movies and ass!


no, once upoon a time I wanted a virgo...DY made it sound soooo pretty....but then you see someone like branh, and you think again....

Lady_M and Notso...

You both know who do you really like though...

It's ME!

Virgo's are whiny though...you fell like saying, "Shut The Fuck Up, suck it up, you lil' Bitch!" 🙂


Yes Haffo, you got me there 🙂

spent too much time with Sagi archy luv.

Message posted by: notso07 on 3/14/2007 6:20:23 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.13
""...you fell like saying, "Shut The Fuck Up, suck it up, you lil' Bitch!"""


hahaha....LMFAO!!



You know who/what am talking 'bout 🙂

LOL!

I only speak the truth.

All men need to be handled with care to be honest, they have just as many issues as women...people are just blinded by stereotypes.

DY makes everything sound wonderful eh 🙂

...I dont want a baby man though....

LOL arch, I might have to eat my words.

Aries are DIFFICULT for no reason...I have an aries dad and bro


I dont go on the aries board, your list will be short. LOL

LOL arch, true.

Men are simple creatures...but still have all that emotional woe.

Sharing is Caring 🙂

I'd take solitas..actually I had no idea he's an aries, he sounds like a baby man on here for pisces chick.

Sure you can borrow him...wait is Guru GA...because I think he's only Archer's...for now...

well I mean baby man as in whiny guy...wussy..too emotional.etc...


But you know the term actually comes from my lil cousin, he's 6 (virgo)
When him and his mom went to the grocery store one day, They saw the midget bag guy
And him and his lil' bro
bust out with
"Mommy, Mommy...Look at the "baby man"!!....

Lol, it was so embarrassing, they kept repeating it over and over in front of the guy and other shoppers
All my aunt could do was laugh.
We go to hat store alot too.

I wouldnt mind nicodemus, though libra superficiality sucks.

Message posted by: notso07 on 3/14/2007 6:52:05 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.13
so, babyman = girly man?


not necessarily girly, but just too much work
its offensive to girls 😉

No no, DK is too young for me.
I like'em a lil seasoned..just a lil bit

Alcheme, smalcemy...she cant stop me.
Although he was getting too much attention.
I dont like guys that every other girl likes
I might have to leave bling because of it 😢

well JD is the only guy I truly liked as a man.

I still love Bling though...notso's dilusional.
I like the mysterious type.

Yeah he would notso. I hope to find a guy so evovled in the future.

Now for the guys I'd like to put on his ass is Prime, V62, and Branh!

JD is an evolved Scorp...not like those other scorps.
Bling is a Libra 🙂

LOL, notso you dont know that! Im not what I seem on DXP...

Thats exactly why I would put him on his ass arch....him branh and V62...all rubbish men!