Please help! I'm not sure if my new piscean co-worker is flirting (seriously or otherwise) with me or not. He and I chat easily, laugh a lot and share many of the same interests. He asked me to write down 20 of my interests and then asked to read the list. I had all some pretty personal things written down and now I've noticed that he'll refer to them in suble ways. Like one day, he and I were sitting under the apple tree at work having lunch when he stared off dreamily and said quietly--isn't it beautiful? I like to take a nap and then go for a swim and then go for a long walk (all things I'd said I love doing) Also, he compliments me (appearance, intelligence) and often tells me that he's going to strip naked and run around to "de-stress." The other night, while driving to a conference, our hands met near the gear-shift in his truck and his hands travelled over mine for several seconds (neither of us pulled away). Then this moment ended and that was it. The thing is: he has a "significant other." He says they've been together 10 years and are "trying to figure out where they're heading." They've only just started living together. He rarely mentions her. What's going on here.Sorry for this lenghty tale, but I'm very confused. I'm very attracted to this man but try not to show it. Am I reading too much into this or is something going on? I don't want to hope if there's no hope to be had. I can be pretty naive about such things. Thanks for any insights.
