Leo woman getting married to the most amazing fish

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leonine_girl
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I'm in love with the most amazing Pisces boy, and through all our supposed differences, we are crazy about each other and even though we've just been dating a very short while, are getting married next month. We have the most awesome connection spiritually, mentally, and intellectually. The sex doesn't have sparks, but it's warm loving and comfortable. I just know he is THE ONE!! We both just wanted some perspective on our charts, and would be grateful if someone could look over em!

His

Sun 16 Pisces 09
Moon 13 Gemini 37
Mercury 1 Pisces 40
Venus 4 Aquarius 37
Mars 10 Taurus 04
Jupiter 1 Aries 08
Saturn 20 Sagittarius 37
Uranus 26 Sagittarius 25
Neptune 7 Capricorn 37
Pluto 9 Scorpio 49
Chiron 16 Gemini 35
Node 13 Aries 02
Ascendant 22 Gemini 50
Midheaven 5 Pisces 03


Mine

Sun 23 Leo 58
Moon 18 Capricorn 37
Mercury 6 Leo 28
Venus 9 Libra 42
Mars 11 Capricorn 35
Jupiter 20 Pisces 60
Saturn 3 Sagittarius 06
Uranus 18 Sagittarius 23
Neptune 3 Capricorn 12
Pluto 4 Scorpio 51
Chiron 20 Gemini 54
Node 23 Aries 44
Ascendant 10 Libra 58
Midheaven 11 Cancer 27

Pleeej Hallp Us! Thanks youse!! 🙂
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LOL @ EM... his MARS is in Taurus.. his VENUS is in Aqua (yikes! it's an epidemic! Don't drink the water!) - AND a Gemini Moon? Wow.. and this guy SERIOUSLY wants to get married THIS quickly?? Color me skeptical and totally nonplussed. He's very Airy for a Pisces, and I'd think he'd be aloof and almost detached in relationships.. I simply cannot wrap my mind around this guy wanting to get married so quickly. Between the Pisces Sun, Gem Moon, and Aqua Venus.. detachment would come SOOO easily to this guy... and I bet he can FAKE emotions like a professional actor when it suits him.

And, EM... MY Mars is in Taurus (and my Sun and Mercury are the same as his, as well).. and sex is anything but boring or same ol same ol to/with me (though my Aries Venus probably ratchets me up in this area lol). My Taurus Mars just makes me a hard worker, practical, thinking things through, willing to see the big picture and work carefully for my future plans and security, and too stubborn to give up. (Kinda typical Cap-like, really. Guess it's an Earth thing.)

Something's just not computing... something's missing.

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To the Lioness girl..
This is VERY quick indeed -- since four months ago, you were emotionally tangled up in a love triangle with a Libra man and the Cancer gf he cheats on, with no mention of a Pisces guy at all. AND it was NYE (Jan 31st) when you first came back and mentioned this guy ("(c) He was indirectly telling me how he feels, cause he hasn't really shown any signs of NOT being interested apart from the mixed signal texts." This was posted BY YOU only ONE MONTH ago!).. you were absolutely distraught over the way your new Pisces love interest has suspect dealings/flirtations and relations/rendezvous with many other women WHILE dating you, despite your objections, and you were scared to fall for him. And less than THREE WEEKS ago, he was a SLACKER who wouldn't be the go-getter YOU wanted him to be, and you were totally frustrated that you couldn't seem to build a fire under his ass and FORCE him to write an article, even though it would have been great for his career. AND this is his "first relationship".. (How old IS this guy?!!?)

The lack of sexual spark (ESP this early on, when most people are sparkin' up the place still) is kind of alarming to me. No, sex is not the be-all and end-all, it's NOT #1.. but don't believe anyone who says it's too far down the list either (except perhaps asexual or traumatized/broken people). Regular, fairly normal and healthy people enjoy sex a great deal, esp with a loving partner. When it *starts out* blas?.. it tends to go downhill from there, not improve with time.

Unless there's some urgent, pressing reason?.. like for instance, he needs an Immigration Visa, or he's pretty much broke/bankrupt and needs the security you may provide, or if the marriage will financially benefit him in some way.. like increased living expense allowance from the military etc, or increased financial aid/housing allowance for university, etc., or for a major tax-break.

There are enough red flags waving to make a rodeo bull go OUT his damn mind! Something's fishy, and you're leaving out important details, likely on purpose, so we don't all tell you how fucked up this situation is!

And you know it. Pretending it's not there and that it's not happening WON'T make it go away. This is a train-wreck coming.. you see the tracks are broken up ahead, but you're closing your eyes and going forward anyway, full speed. *TOOT* *TOOT*
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We have the most awesome connection spiritually, mentally, and intellectually. The sex doesn't have sparks, but it's warm loving and comfortable.



Posted by DAMEN VI
lol @ "the sex doesn't have sparks"
thats definetly not a good sign..how could u be completely happy with someone if the sex was weak??..cheatin will surely rear its ugly head, and since im sure he's just as unhappy as you are in bed, expect to get herpes in the near future..have a good day ma'am
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if you've reviewed what reads above, you surely would have noticed that your contradiction is ineffective and abusive.
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d some more*

Okay.. three years ago, it was a Taurus who had your heart.

Two years ago, it was a Cancer.

Just over a year later (and about 10 months ago) it was another different Cancer you'd met 2 months before.
(And at some point around here, you slept with the Libra who turned out to have a live-in Cancer gf)

Four months ago, you were still twisted up with the Libra cheater.
(And other posts around this time show you'd once briefly dated a Pisces. But not THIS Pisces. He wasn't even in the picture yet.)

OMFG YOU MOVE FAST! Do you even know WHAT you want? Why so scared to be single??

Just over ONE month ago, you started posting about this new Pisces guy, and his biggest sign of "interest" in you was that he "didn't say he was NOT interested" in you, and was sending "mixed signals" and frolicking with other chicks. So he was BRAND NEW.

Then all the posts about the Pisces and your issues this past month.. his "flirtiness" and his "slackerness" and lack of direction and drive in his career (you were harping on him about it after mere WEEKS!)
AND THREE WEEKS AGO, YOU HADN'T EVEN HAD SEX!
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Posted by leonine_girl
I love workaholic men, it's so much fun to tease them 😛

So, what do you men like in bed? My man is obsessed with my feet/belly button and wouldn't leave them alone when we're together. We haven't had sex yet, and I want it to happen in complete frenzy when we just can't hold off any longer. How do I make it perfect? 🙂



*spits out pepsi*

woah,woah,woah!!!..now let me get this right..

you claim to be in a fairly new relationship,and while your ALREADY prepared to jump on his back about his career, you haven't even gave him some cooch yet—?!! ARE U FUCKING SERIOUSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!—??!!!!

*HEAD EXPLODES*

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But in less than THREE WEEKS, your sexual relationship is already "comfortable" and "lacking spark"—

And now you want to convince us it's LOOOOVE and fabulosity and you're going to GET MARRIED IN A FUCKING MONTH?!

Your head is so far up your ass it's going to take a winch to pull it out!
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Posted by leonine_girl
I'm in love with the most amazing Pisces boy, and through all our supposed differences, we are crazy about each other and even though we've just been dating a very short while, are getting married next month. We have the most awesome connection spiritually, mentally, and intellectually. The sex doesn't have sparks, but it's warm loving and comfortable. I just know he is THE ONE!! We both just wanted some perspective on our charts, and would be grateful if someone could look over em!




Yeah none of this sounds good, to be honest. Define what that "awesome connection spriitually, mentally and intellectually" is when you just basically also explained in your own words that you don't have any common ground by neither of those definitions. Plz, do yourselves a favor and don't get married. To kick off a marriage on these grounds and in these days is just crazy. It's hard enough for couples who are meant to be.
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Not a combination that I would recommend. I am a Leo woman married to a Pisces man, we are now in the process of separating after 18 years. The combo doesn't work IMO. The no sparks sex will not work in the long run for the Leo woman and yes there may be an affair to compensate for this but i think the "not so interested in sex" pisces won't be the one who is looking for someone else to put a bit of excitement and spark in to their life. The lion is to positive and outgoing for the fish. I know quite a number of pisces both male and female and find they can be negative and introvert, always looking for somebody to mind them, which initially brings out the maternal instinct in a Leo woman, but this wears thin very soon. In my experience pisces does not have the strenght for a leo woman.
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Posted by leonine_girl

I'm in love with the most amazing Pisces boy, and through all our supposed differences, we are crazy about each other and even though we've just been dating a very short while, are getting married next month. We have the most awesome connection spiritually, mentally, and intellectually. The sex doesn't have sparks, but it's warm loving and comfortable. I just know he is THE ONE!!







Is this some kind of fucking joke?

Just a couple weeks ago, you were in here upset because he wouldn't do what you thought was best for him to do in terms of his career path.

You gave a perfect example of how you pressure him into doing what you want of him, and I'm telling you again ... he's gonna jump stream on you as soon as he gets fed up with you trying to control him.

You say here that "we" want charts done .... and certainly, that is you trying to think for him again.
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This was posted on the Leo board on January 17, 2011 .. which was only 17 days ago ..


Posted by leonine_girl
@Peri - You know the only reason I came here instead of the Pisces board was because I needed help, not some smartass sarcastic remarks. I realized the spell error, besides I am dating a writer so I KNOW his OCD about grammar/punctuations blah dee blah. I really love this guy, and he loves me too. But somewhere we aren't getting each other, and he's getting seriously hurt in the process. I need help, not sarcasm.





so, the reality is .. this Leo girl doesn't know anything ..
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"I really love this guy, and he loves me too. But somewhere we aren't getting each other, and he's getting seriously hurt in the process. I need help,"



Yes, help is exactly what you need, but, not in the form of understanding natal charts .. you need help in reality comprehension .... because once a whole picture is considered, it is found that you are apparantly trapped inside a fantasy.
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A post from January 3, 2011


Posted by leonine_girl
So, he said he loves me. I didn't realize how sensitive he really is, but he says he's just fallen into the abyss, much deeper than I am, and it just scares me, since we haven't known each other very long. I can handle the abyss, and would fall in with him, but he still continues his friendships/rendezvous with several women, even after I told him blatantly I don't appreciate it. He said they all know about his lady-love, but he still entertains their advances openly. At the same time, he's expressed his love for me more times than I can count in a few days. I just don't know what all this means. I'm scared of falling for him, I can't handle his being with other women. I'm trying to be as mature about this as possible, and am okay with friendships, but I can't handle his flirting. It makes me want to strange him for torturing me so. 😢

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You guys make me laugh, and your jealousy and envy shows through every single post.

@Ianthepisces You gotta be extremely retarded to think there is NO WORLD beyond USA!! It's a big frickin world. And I'm a qualified solicitor in the UK, and have been for over a year now. It takes six years to be exact, and I have been out of school since SEVEN yrs!!

I just shared this entire post with him on the phone and I will repeat his exact words on this "Let's go and get married right now, and we'll just post that we just got married, and these cynics can go fuck themselves. We are clearly better than them"

And I will personally say, fuck this website, and all you unhappy miserable souls! If you guys really knew us, you'd realize HE IS THE DOMINANT ONE AMONG US BOTH. He thinks we are soul mates, and maybe he's right, clearly why NONE of you understand where we come from.

I've had a bad past, but my journey has finally culminated in his arms.

I'm out of DXP for good. You people can keep ranting all you want!

Adios.
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Yes, I am that stupidly honest with him. Website is not letting me delete my account 😢 He's saying he wishes to make an account here, so he can just lash back to everyone here. He's a writer, so he may be able to put things across better. But. what's the point.

Why are you Pisces so unwilling to accept anyone else's happiness without skepticism? Why am I still here trying to explain things to all you mean people? 😢
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Lioness, if you want mollycoddling, go to www.TellMeWhatIWantToHear.com - on DXPnet, you'll get brutal truth.

SOMETHING is fishy. Newsflash, sweetie.. it's NO surprise to the Pisces here that your Fish is the dominant one, we KNOW this about ourselves. It only seems to shock the non-Fish who don't understand that a Pisces will CHOOSE to either control directly, or control indirectly, even by relinquishing obvious control. Barring drug/alcohol addictions or mental illness, the average Pisces very much "runs shit."

THAT'S WHAT I'M TRYING TO TELL YOU!

This Pisces with his Gem Moon and AQUA VENUS... he should have been an actor, not a writer -- and that combo is likely what detaches him so much from his emotions that the sex has no "spark"... it won't get better, babes. YOU wanted to be consumed by fiery passion that drove you both wild. That was three weeks ago.. and now you're willing to settle for lackluster instead? His Taurus Mars will make him want security and stability, and be determined to reach his goals. You're a goal, honey. You will enhance and stabilize his life.. something about marrying you will BENEFIT him, and he wants you to say "I Do" BEFORE you wake up from this dream! You don't have to tell US what that is.. but DO think about it for yourself. There's something in it for him, something unromantic and anything but sweet.

You've been through a lot... me mentioning your "new guy" every year wasn't to say you're a slut (cuz idgaf what consenting adults get up to in their bedrooms OR how many partners you've had).. it was to show you that you are desperately seeking LOVE.. and now this Fish has hooked you and you want so badly to finally find LOVE that you're buying this dream he's selling you.

I saw a post where you said that your charts were great together, except the Pisces-Leo Sun Signs.. WRONG. Your charts are mostly a fucking MESS together (go ahead, check into it, you'll see).. but even without those charts, just by what YOU posted this past month.. your LIVES together are a fantasy bubble and due to burst. Did he stop flirting around with other women and making you jealous yet, or is he just getting better at hiding it? Did all of your communication and differing drives/ideals problems work themselves out? Did the SPARK finally show up in your sex last night? Did he finally stop confusing you? Did you two magically wake up with different natal charts?



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Or did Mr. Pisces convince you that none of these problems or issues or concerns or fears mean as much as "LOVE".. in less than a month? He's lying. He wants something from you, and doesn't want you to come to your senses. LOVE doesn't happen in a month, but infatuation does. Undeniable attraction does. SPARK does.. oh wait, you don't have that.

Tell that Fish to buy you an engagement ring and set a wedding date for June of 2012 or something. See what he says, see if he tries to keep you from doing anything practical that makes sense, like being together for a year before running off to get married.

If it's LOVE.. you'll still be together and blissfully happy in 2012, right?


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Right?