KatetheCat
@katethecat94
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Need MAJOR Advice: Pisces man is frustrating
Pisces are unknowable, they may be passive agressive, super sensitive, do other stuff with other people on a whim....you can't count on them ultimately.
The Pisces man threads are ALWAYS the same.. It starts to get comical when logging in on dxpnet.
I don't have to read the all the text, just some keywords like ''out of the blue appears/disappears'' ''confused'' ''unstable'' etc
Like how in the world they all are so steretypical lol. And my biggest question - who are these women who finally get them into stable relatioship? 😄 Does it even exist?
Or Pisces men just do not offer that classical dynamics of man-woman relationship. Maybe some chill bohemian chicks are best for them. U know the girls who are not looking for a guy who will provide safeness, stability and future plan but rather some unexpected flow and silly poems.
I don't have to read the all the text, just some keywords like ''out of the blue appears/disappears'' ''confused'' ''unstable'' etc
Like how in the world they all are so steretypical lol. And my biggest question - who are these women who finally get them into stable relatioship? 😄 Does it even exist?
Or Pisces men just do not offer that classical dynamics of man-woman relationship. Maybe some chill bohemian chicks are best for them. U know the girls who are not looking for a guy who will provide safeness, stability and future plan but rather some unexpected flow and silly poems.
An invisible Fish is a distracted Fish, he appears to have way too much going on over on his side of the globe. That's probably why he's not even realizing he's disappearing so much.
Either way, it's just not the time for you two to be contemplating rolling around like weasels on the grass.
Either way, it's just not the time for you two to be contemplating rolling around like weasels on the grass.
Posted by kaseke9
The Pisces man threads are ALWAYS the same.. It starts to get comical when logging in on dxpnet.
I don't have to read the all the text, just some keywords like ''out of the blue appears/disappears'' ''confused'' ''unstable'' etc
Like how in the world they all are so steretypical lol. And my biggest question - who are these women who finally get them into stable relatioship? 😄 Does it even exist?
Or Pisces men just do not offer that classical dynamics of man-woman relationship. Maybe some chill bohemian chicks are best for them. U know the girls who are not looking for a guy who will provide safeness, stability and future plan but rather some unexpected flow and silly poems.
ME TOO!!! my best friend is a Scorpio who nailed her Pisces. like sh etells me how perfect he is for her and he has never done the disappearing act or any of the "typical" asshole pisces traits.
frankly I DONT GET IT
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowexactly.
An invisible Fish is a distracted Fish, he appears to have way too much going on over on his side of the globe. That's probably why he's not even realizing he's disappearing so much.
Either way, it's just not the time for you two to be contemplating rolling around like weasels on the grass.
even though both of us need time to take care of few things. I find it odd that my Pisces finds if difficult to express emotions to me or be straightforward with me on this.
Alot of people have shit going on more than him and still have a time for a relationship.
im not begging him to be with me. I just find it odd when he told me " i am cold like that." but continues to ask me out and going out of his way to see me. how can someone be cold and emotionless to the people they are interested in? (he told me he is)
it doesnt make sense to me.
even if the time isnt right, if someone likes someone or is interested in them they would show signs.
Posted by katethecat94Different situations affect different people in different ways. Something that would totally crush your spirit might not affect me in the slightest, and vice verca. So don't jump to conclusions if you don't have all the info.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowexactly.
An invisible Fish is a distracted Fish, he appears to have way too much going on over on his side of the globe. That's probably why he's not even realizing he's disappearing so much.
Either way, it's just not the time for you two to be contemplating rolling around like weasels on the grass.
even though both of us need time to take care of few things. I find it odd that my Pisces finds if difficult to express emotions to me or be straightforward with me on this.
Alot of people have shit going on more than him and still have a time for a relationship.
im not begging him to be with me. I just find it odd when he told me " i am cold like that." but continues to ask me out and going out of his way to see me. how can someone be cold and emotionless to the people they are interested in? (he told me he is)
it doesnt make sense to me.
even if the time isnt right, if someone likes someone or is interested in them they would show signs.click to expand
He's not "cold and emotionless", he sounds like me. He's shielding his emotions because he's a lot more sensitive than you know. I didn't tell the man I've been in love with for almost 3 years how I feel because I was terrified of his rejection. Yet on the outside, I'm his rock. Whenever he's needed comfort, he's shown up at my doorstep at the weirdest times of the day & night.
But when he kept grilling me about why I was so withdrawn from him a few weeks back, the floodgates opened and I just bared my very soul to him. That day he met a different me, the me he'd never seen before, the innermost me.
Your Fish IS showing you signs "continues to ask me out and going out of his way to see me.". It's just your idea of showing interest is different to his. He's a shower, not a teller. Like me.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by katethecat94Different situations affect different people in different ways. Something that would totally crush your spirit might not affect me in the slightest, and vice verca. So don't jump to conclusions if you don't have all the info.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowexactly.
An invisible Fish is a distracted Fish, he appears to have way too much going on over on his side of the globe. That's probably why he's not even realizing he's disappearing so much.
Either way, it's just not the time for you two to be contemplating rolling around like weasels on the grass.
even though both of us need time to take care of few things. I find it odd that my Pisces finds if difficult to express emotions to me or be straightforward with me on this.
Alot of people have shit going on more than him and still have a time for a relationship.
im not begging him to be with me. I just find it odd when he told me " i am cold like that." but continues to ask me out and going out of his way to see me. how can someone be cold and emotionless to the people they are interested in? (he told me he is)
it doesnt make sense to me.
even if the time isnt right, if someone likes someone or is interested in them they would show signs.
He's not "cold and emotionless", he sounds like me. He's shielding his emotions because he's a lot more sensitive than you know. I didn't tell the man I've been in love with for almost 3 years how I feel because I was terrified of his rejection. Yet on the outside, I'm his rock. Whenever he's needed comfort, he's shown up at my doorstep at the weirdest times of the day & night.
But when he kept grilling me about why I was so withdrawn from him a few weeks back, the floodgates opened and I just bared my very soul to him. That day he met a different me, the me he'd never seen before, the innermost me.
Your Fish IS showing you signs "continues to ask me out and going out of his way to see me.". It's just your idea of showing interest is different to his. He's a shower, not a teller. Like me.click to expand
I guess you are right! I cant argue with that.
so if you were in my shoes, how would you deal with this?
am i making the right choice of just playing it cool and focusing on myself and not text him much (treat him the way he treats me)?
Posted by katethecat94Well you're a Taurus with Pisces moon & Libra rising, so there's alot of emotion there. You're a neurotic freak lol, as opposed to being a Fish with a Virgo moon like me, who can snap your neck & not bat an eyelid. My Pisces sun might feel bad later but my Virgo moon will nip it in the bud fast enough 😄Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by katethecat94Different situations affect different people in different ways. Something that would totally crush your spirit might not affect me in the slightest, and vice verca. So don't jump to conclusions if you don't have all the info.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowexactly.
An invisible Fish is a distracted Fish, he appears to have way too much going on over on his side of the globe. That's probably why he's not even realizing he's disappearing so much.
Either way, it's just not the time for you two to be contemplating rolling around like weasels on the grass.
even though both of us need time to take care of few things. I find it odd that my Pisces finds if difficult to express emotions to me or be straightforward with me on this.
Alot of people have shit going on more than him and still have a time for a relationship.
im not begging him to be with me. I just find it odd when he told me " i am cold like that." but continues to ask me out and going out of his way to see me. how can someone be cold and emotionless to the people they are interested in? (he told me he is)
it doesnt make sense to me.
even if the time isnt right, if someone likes someone or is interested in them they would show signs.
He's not "cold and emotionless", he sounds like me. He's shielding his emotions because he's a lot more sensitive than you know. I didn't tell the man I've been in love with for almost 3 years how I feel because I was terrified of his rejection. Yet on the outside, I'm his rock. Whenever he's needed comfort, he's shown up at my doorstep at the weirdest times of the day & night.
But when he kept grilling me about why I was so withdrawn from him a few weeks back, the floodgates opened and I just bared my very soul to him. That day he met a different me, the me he'd never seen before, the innermost me.
Your Fish IS showing you signs "continues to ask me out and going out of his way to see me.". It's just your idea of showing interest is different to his. He's a shower, not a teller. Like me.
I guess you are right! I cant argue with that.
so if you were in my shoes, how would you deal with this?
am i making the right choice of just playing it cool and focusing on myself and not text him much (treat him the way he treats me)?
click to expand
Unless you can directly influence his life to the point where you can resolve or get rid of whatever is distracting him so much, there's really nothing you can do especially in long-distance relationships. Because you're just gonna get more of the same.
You want someone who's emotionally available. And he's not. So he's not the one for you. So you'll have to go radio silent for a while, while you try to get used to the idea of not having him in your life. Because that's the best way you'll be able to move on. Even if he texts or calls, don't respond. I know it's far easier said than done, but it's what you'll have to do in order to get over him.
Because "it" is never going to happen. You want him to be someone he's not. For better or worse, it's all him. It's who he is. All those little bits & pieces make up a whole. And you can't change the whole.
Posted by katethecat94Scorpio/Pisces is a very special instant and magnetic connection so no wonder your friend didn't have your problems.Posted by kaseke9
The Pisces man threads are ALWAYS the same.. It starts to get comical when logging in on dxpnet.
I don't have to read the all the text, just some keywords like ''out of the blue appears/disappears'' ''confused'' ''unstable'' etc
Like how in the world they all are so steretypical lol. And my biggest question - who are these women who finally get them into stable relatioship? 😄 Does it even exist?
Or Pisces men just do not offer that classical dynamics of man-woman relationship. Maybe some chill bohemian chicks are best for them. U know the girls who are not looking for a guy who will provide safeness, stability and future plan but rather some unexpected flow and silly poems.
ME TOO!!! my best friend is a Scorpio who nailed her Pisces. like sh etells me how perfect he is for her and he has never done the disappearing act or any of the "typical" asshole pisces traits.
frankly I DONT GET ITclick to expand
If a Pisces man wants to be with someone he's sincere and straightforward. He does not disappear.
You should definitely wait on him for another 3-4 years of your life! Who knows maybe year 7 will be the magic number and he'll stop taking you for granted.
^^^this was sarcasm^^^
Your a placeholder until he meets 'the one'.
Your a placeholder until he meets 'the one'.
Posted by katethecat94
my plan right now is to focus on myself like i always do.
Posted by NappTuneto be honest he does seem like a loner
It sounds like to me he doesn't know how to take lead of a relationship. The whole disappearing and coming back then not asking more questions to get to know you sounds like social anxiety as well. ?
he says he has friends
but he told me he has never been in a relationship before
he could be either insecure or shy or he lets the idea of his inexperience with girls get into his head
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI just would like to thank you for your honesty and help!Posted by katethecat94Well you're a Taurus with Pisces moon & Libra rising, so there's alot of emotion there. You're a neurotic freak lol, as opposed to being a Fish with a Virgo moon like me, who can snap your neck & not bat an eyelid. My Pisces sun might feel bad later but my Virgo moon will nip it in the bud fast enough 😄Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by katethecat94Different situations affect different people in different ways. Something that would totally crush your spirit might not affect me in the slightest, and vice verca. So don't jump to conclusions if you don't have all the info.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowexactly.
An invisible Fish is a distracted Fish, he appears to have way too much going on over on his side of the globe. That's probably why he's not even realizing he's disappearing so much.
Either way, it's just not the time for you two to be contemplating rolling around like weasels on the grass.
even though both of us need time to take care of few things. I find it odd that my Pisces finds if difficult to express emotions to me or be straightforward with me on this.
Alot of people have shit going on more than him and still have a time for a relationship.
im not begging him to be with me. I just find it odd when he told me " i am cold like that." but continues to ask me out and going out of his way to see me. how can someone be cold and emotionless to the people they are interested in? (he told me he is)
it doesnt make sense to me.
even if the time isnt right, if someone likes someone or is interested in them they would show signs.
He's not "cold and emotionless", he sounds like me. He's shielding his emotions because he's a lot more sensitive than you know. I didn't tell the man I've been in love with for almost 3 years how I feel because I was terrified of his rejection. Yet on the outside, I'm his rock. Whenever he's needed comfort, he's shown up at my doorstep at the weirdest times of the day & night.
But when he kept grilling me about why I was so withdrawn from him a few weeks back, the floodgates opened and I just bared my very soul to him. That day he met a different me, the me he'd never seen before, the innermost me.
Your Fish IS showing you signs "continues to ask me out and going out of his way to see me.". It's just your idea of showing interest is different to his. He's a shower, not a teller. Like me.
I guess you are right! I cant argue with that.
so if you were in my shoes, how would you deal with this?
am i making the right choice of just playing it cool and focusing on myself and not text him much (treat him the way he treats me)?
Unless you can directly influence his life to the point where you can resolve or get rid of whatever is distracting him so much, there's really nothing you can do especially in long-distance relationships. Because you're just gonna get more of the same.
You want someone who's emotionally available. And he's not. So he's not the one for you. So you'll have to go radio silent for a while, while you try to get used to the idea of not having him in your life. Because that's the best way you'll be able to move on. Even if he texts or calls, don't respond. I know it's far easier said than done, but it's what you'll have to do in order to get over him.
Because "it" is never going to happen. You want him to be someone he's not. For better or worse, it's all him. It's who he is. All those little bits & pieces make up a whole. And you can't change the whole.click to expand
even though i am sensitive and emotional the bigger part of me is rational and i can get over someone like him easily. i just needed a lil of what goes on inside a pisces head.
thank you so much 🙂
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