one final question..

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by destinysmellslikefish on Monday, August 28, 2006 and has 13 replies.

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@destinysmellslikefish
20 Years

what should i do to ask her for one more meeting, just to give her a pressie, its a thing i got to do, i cant move on other way.. just these 2 more hours and then i can say my farewell.. still she is like ignoring me,

so what can i do or say to let her hear me out once more? tell me ya fishes, puh-leeeez *the puppiest eyes*

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@catfish36
20 Years500+ Posts

Destiny,

You're a deeply caring and romantic soul; such souls suffer harshly in love. But, you're not weak, or hopeless; you're strong, thoughtful and resilient. Find new realms of experience that are positive and satisfying. The bond you feel is sacred, and not so easily relinquished. Understandably, you're going to mourn. I am not going to be dismissive by saying you're young; pain is pain regardless of your chronological age.

Give yourself a little time and distance. And then, if you truly feel you must deliver your letter, then do so with a loving, open heart and set her free.

Again, there are Virgo board members who have grappled with similar affairs. Hopefully, they can offer better guidance.

Good Luck D. I?m rooting for you and your Pisces.

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@destinysmellslikefish
20 Years

will send her some pure optimistic mails i guess.. then ask her to hear me out once more, give her the letter, and then hug her tight kiss on the forehead and say goodbye, since as i told her before i am happy when she is.. and she always can lean on me, but, if a future without me is what she has chosen i got to accept that i guess

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

I always find such situations strange.

Getting acquainted with people should be a natural process. Things have to come by "themselves"! I hate situations like "what I need to do?" or "what if he/she gives me wash-off?" etc etc.

Guys/gals, where do you find those people? Are they falling from the sky? Don't you have any other kind of connections between them before letting them come that closer?

If you ask me about internet dating, well it's some kind of joke.

If you would have the kind of connection that I've described above, you would surely find a method to come closer rather than begging for advise here.

Btw; Begging for advise? Excuse me, where is your dignity? Self respect? Do you find begging good enough for such things? What are you afraid off? Rejection? Hell, I fear no rejection at all! Nobody will come out of the corner and bite your ass. Got rejected? Fine, let her know that she needs to fuck off first. What kind of man are you? You fear of being rejected? Fuck it! There are thousands in the row? Who gives are fuck about only one?

Get over with this crap dude.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

He's almost 19 and talking about destiny. If he's so broad to talk about his destiny today, then he should heed my advise.

Or better stop talking about what his destiny gonna be today.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

I will be honest here;

I don't respect people who try to get involved with women seriously at this age. I see them as stupids.

What could a person know about life at this age? Deciding your destiny? Stupid enough for that ah?

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@destinysmellslikefish
20 Years

never did that to be honest.. and hell the life only awaits me and i am aware of that, and still, if you feel something you simply feel it.. sorry but its they way it is, un-ha un-ha thats the way... im not saying my life will be over when i fail this one thingie, i am just saying i got to try till the end, and let it end the way it will.. the only effect which will come out will be an experience learned.. one to help me understand others in general for the future..

hell i know i will get burned a lot of times.. and hell i will trip over and fall to mud many times, still.. i will always pick myself up, look around, and just smile on how silly i was to trip over again, and then again, when i see someone falling just like me, i will run to them, help them stand up and smile on the mistakes they made, cause .. cause life is just too precious to waste it with swearing each and every single time you fall.. the sooner you move on the better... and i just have to end it this way.. sorry if i offend you with it in any way.. but i am death stubborn in such cases, i simply got to do it... and thats where it ends

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@catfish36
20 Years500+ Posts

We never know how much time is alloted to us on this planet. And I don't think he needs or wants your respect. He's a heartsick guy trying to find some answers to help him cope. He's not trying to crack the code to the Rosetta Stone. For him right now this is important; eventually he'll understand the answer has to come from within. Were you an expert at 19? Or just home jerking off. '-)

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@gee-kron
20 Years

mate sounds fkd...sorry ... you only got beggin on your side now... or... you got to do something to football boy ... assasinate... it s your right...she is yours

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@Tau75
19 Years

Corner her - She will run.
Confront her - She will freak out.

Advise:
Ignore her.

Remember she is a fish.