
Aquastic007
@Aquastic
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Posted by AquasticThat's awful, don't blame yourself for "pushing" him to do it. Allow yourself to cry to feel sad for a few days. It's perfectly normal to be upset in this situation.
So I've been on and off with this pisces man, everything was going fine until when I woke up this morning, booom! he's changed his profile pic,it's him and this other girl kissing! The worst thing I have ever come ACROSS.Me and him were doing just fine. I really don't know what I did to him for him to do this to me. I wish he could have told me something. I really don't feel like talking to him right now. This is so painful I won't lie to myself. Are pisces men this horrible? what could have pushed him to do this to me.
I don't know what to do. Should I confront him or should I take this as a message to back off!?


Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11@The eleventh sign I 'm glad u got out . As for me I really don't know what to do. You are right pisce are ignorant and can take advantageg , hes taking advantage of my love for him.
Ok im not going to go on a rant on how shit Pisces are, I'm not going to waste my energy.....maybe just a little
My ex was a piscean and he used to get drunk and beat me up and take his issues out on me then cry the next morning and convince me to stay, my breaking point was walking in on him making out with a tranny on our couch lol, I laugh at it now but at the time my pride and self esteem grew arms and started to throttle me, I seriously wanted to kill myself, I left the next day with a small bag packed and left him and all my shit and never spoke to him again but not before I trashed that mother fuckers apartment lol I loved him like crazy and still to this day I have trust issues due to the way I was treated so was a small price to pay for years of mental and physical abuse.
Since then I've been a Pisces guillotine, all those fish are on the chopping block in my eyes, if I find out you're a fish WATCH OUT, I will watch you closely and f you fall out of line, I rip your head off....I know piscean folk are lovely people, they are mutable signs and like to go out in the world like a fish with narrow vision and if they see what they like they just go for it not caring if they cut someone's grass or cut in line, it's not their fault that most are ignorant and mistakenly take advantage of people, this is when karma comes into play and I am karma.
The thing is people need to be taught boundaries, I'm an Aquarian and I'm a teacher, who am I to deny the fish some important lessons
.

Posted by AquasticListen bitch I CLEANSE YOU! now move on from this, have your moment, learn your lesson and move on. You've already given him too much
@Pandora ja maybe he does'nt feel loved, cause of I'm an aquarius woman who hardly show affection. I only call him when I wanna see him or when I have something important to tell him. we don't talk everyday. But I was under the impression that we were fine so I did not see the need to affirm my love for him.
I 'm not the kind of girl who would want attention from a guy everyday. I have a life outside of the relationship. so we don't really see each other everyday.
And besides, he always expect me to initiate meeting, or going out. but he's always available when I need to see him or plans something out. He hardly comes up with plans.

Posted by AquasticIf you bring it up to him he will talk it out and make you seem like you're ignorant and a crazy person , find a way to fuck him over really badly and then cut him off and let him deal with the consequencesPosted by The_eleventh_sign_11@The eleventh sign I 'm glad u got out . As for me I really don't know what to do. You are right pisce are ignorant and can take advantageg , hes taking advantage of my love for him.
Ok im not going to go on a rant on how shit Pisces are, I'm not going to waste my energy.....maybe just a little
My ex was a piscean and he used to get drunk and beat me up and take his issues out on me then cry the next morning and convince me to stay, my breaking point was walking in on him making out with a tranny on our couch lol, I laugh at it now but at the time my pride and self esteem grew arms and started to throttle me, I seriously wanted to kill myself, I left the next day with a small bag packed and left him and all my shit and never spoke to him again but not before I trashed that mother fuckers apartment lol I loved him like crazy and still to this day I have trust issues due to the way I was treated so was a small price to pay for years of mental and physical abuse.
Since then I've been a Pisces guillotine, all those fish are on the chopping block in my eyes, if I find out you're a fish WATCH OUT, I will watch you closely and f you fall out of line, I rip your head off....I know piscean folk are lovely people, they are mutable signs and like to go out in the world like a fish with narrow vision and if they see what they like they just go for it not caring if they cut someone's grass or cut in line, it's not their fault that most are ignorant and mistakenly take advantage of people, this is when karma comes into play and I am karma.
The thing is people need to be taught boundaries, I'm an Aquarian and I'm a teacher, who am I to deny the fish some important lessons
.
As I said we are on and off , I once broke up with him for not respecting relationship boundaries, but then we then got back together to work things out. Now this!
He can be loving, and understanding when all is going well det's what made me forgive him the first time.
but this time, m too broken! iyoh! it hurts!click to expand



Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11@ The_ Eleventh _Sign if u were in my situation , how would you treetrunk him?Posted by AquasticIf you bring it up to him he will talk it out and make you seem like you're ignorant and a crazy person , find a way to fuck him over really badly and then cut him off and let him deal with the consequencesPosted by The_eleventh_sign_11@The eleventh sign I 'm glad u got out . As for me I really don't know what to do. You are right pisce are ignorant and can take advantageg , hes taking advantage of my love for him.
Ok im not going to go on a rant on how shit Pisces are, I'm not going to waste my energy.....maybe just a little
My ex was a piscean and he used to get drunk and beat me up and take his issues out on me then cry the next morning and convince me to stay, my breaking point was walking in on him making out with a tranny on our couch lol, I laugh at it now but at the time my pride and self esteem grew arms and started to throttle me, I seriously wanted to kill myself, I left the next day with a small bag packed and left him and all my shit and never spoke to him again but not before I trashed that mother fuckers apartment lol I loved him like crazy and still to this day I have trust issues due to the way I was treated so was a small price to pay for years of mental and physical abuse.
Since then I've been a Pisces guillotine, all those fish are on the chopping block in my eyes, if I find out you're a fish WATCH OUT, I will watch you closely and f you fall out of line, I rip your head off....I know piscean folk are lovely people, they are mutable signs and like to go out in the world like a fish with narrow vision and if they see what they like they just go for it not caring if they cut someone's grass or cut in line, it's not their fault that most are ignorant and mistakenly take advantage of people, this is when karma comes into play and I am karma.
The thing is people need to be taught boundaries, I'm an Aquarian and I'm a teacher, who am I to deny the fish some important lessons
.
As I said we are on and off , I once broke up with him for not respecting relationship boundaries, but then we then got back together to work things out. Now this!
He can be loving, and understanding when all is going well det's what made me forgive him the first time.
but this time, m too broken! iyoh! it hurts!click to expand


Posted by Nemilicious@Nemilicious you know sometimes when things like this happen ,one can't help but think of the most horrible things to do to the one who have broken me,not that I will do anything. NO!
really, revenge? how fucking important do you think you are lol?

Posted by MysteriousPresence
Thankfully not all Pisces men are like that. If I really like a girl, I would want to stick with her.


Posted by AquasticThe only thing you can do is cut him off completely, tell all mutual friends what he has done and what he's capable of, forgive and forget him COMPLETELY....Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11@ The_ Eleventh _Sign if u were in my situation , how would you treetrunk him?Posted by AquasticIf you bring it up to him he will talk it out and make you seem like you're ignorant and a crazy person , find a way to fuck him over really badly and then cut him off and let him deal with the consequencesPosted by The_eleventh_sign_11@The eleventh sign I 'm glad u got out . As for me I really don't know what to do. You are right pisce are ignorant and can take advantageg , hes taking advantage of my love for him.
Ok im not going to go on a rant on how shit Pisces are, I'm not going to waste my energy.....maybe just a little
My ex was a piscean and he used to get drunk and beat me up and take his issues out on me then cry the next morning and convince me to stay, my breaking point was walking in on him making out with a tranny on our couch lol, I laugh at it now but at the time my pride and self esteem grew arms and started to throttle me, I seriously wanted to kill myself, I left the next day with a small bag packed and left him and all my shit and never spoke to him again but not before I trashed that mother fuckers apartment lol I loved him like crazy and still to this day I have trust issues due to the way I was treated so was a small price to pay for years of mental and physical abuse.
Since thenot their fault that most are ignorant and mistakenly take advantage of people, this is when karma comes into play and I am karma.
The thing is people need to be taught boundaries, I'm an Aquarian and I'm a teacher, who am I to deny the fish some important lessons
.
As I said we are on and off , I once broke up with him for not respecting relationship boundaries, but then we then got back together to work things out. Now this!
He can be loving, and understanding when all is going well det's what made me forgive him the first time.
but this time, m too broken! iyoh! it hurts!click to expand


Posted by pector@Pector what makes you say that. still wondering......?
what a stupid little girl you are






Posted by AquasticI know it's hard but try to focus on yourself, forget about him and others.
@poppyseed thanks I wish I had the energy to talk to him. I hope I find strength and talk to him about it.

Posted by PoppyseedsJa hey, I will just do that from now on.Thing is I hate breaks ups, But I guess I can't ignore all this.Posted by AquasticI know it's hard but try to focus on yourself, forget about him and others.
@poppyseed thanks I wish I had the energy to talk to him. I hope I find strength and talk to him about it.
Focus on what makes you happy, heal yourself first.click to expand
Posted by AquasticBreak up is never easy on dumper and dumpee. There will be feelings of self blaming and thoughts of "what if"Posted by PoppyseedsJa hey, I will just do that from now on.Thing is I hate breaks ups, But I guess I can't ignore all this.Posted by AquasticI know it's hard but try to focus on yourself, forget about him and others.
@poppyseed thanks I wish I had the energy to talk to him. I hope I find strength and talk to him about it.
Focus on what makes you happy, heal yourself first.click to expand

Posted by AquasticSounds like you already know what needs to be done.
Ja hey ,and this guy has a lot of other issues that I deal with. I really don't need this adding to the list of issues. I 'm not perfect myself , but I never pulled a stunt this ridiculous. He's makes happy when m with and all that, but it's really not worth me suffering like this.

Posted by starwars@ Starwars m not sure if I understand what you mean by wet blanket.
im a wet blanket

Posted by PoppyseedsThe more I talk about it , the more I realise how bad it has become, and how I really need to do something about it before I go insane.Posted by AquasticSounds like you already know what needs to be done.
Ja hey ,and this guy has a lot of other issues that I deal with. I really don't need this adding to the list of issues. I 'm not perfect myself , but I never pulled a stunt this ridiculous. He's makes happy when m with and all that, but it's really not worth me suffering like this.click to expand

Posted by AquasticLOL! Contradicting yourself from the first sentence!
So I've been on and off with this pisces man, everything was going fine





Posted by Aquasticyou just said it yourself, you hardly show affection....
@Pandora ja maybe he does'nt feel loved, cause of I'm an aquarius woman who hardly show affection. I only call him when I wanna see him or when I have something important to tell him. we don't talk everyday. But I was under the impression that we were fine so I did not see the need to affirm my love for him.
I 'm not the kind of girl who would want attention from a guy everyday. I have a life outside of the relationship. so we don't really see each other everyday.
And besides, he always expect me to initiate meeting, or going out. but he's always available when I need to see him or plans something out. He hardly comes up with plans.
Posted by Aquasticyou're an idiot.
I wish you had gone through what I went through , then you would understand how it feels like to be confused! It's not a nice feeling at all to keep thinking that the other person is acting the way they acting towards you just because you might have done something wrong to them. To think there's something wrong with you when there isn't .To think you need to fix yourself just so the other person can like you more. It's called emotional abuse, very hard to come of a relationship where you are being emotionally abused cause you don't have the bruises to show it.Most people don't understand it, very quick to judge and give unthoughtfull advice .*just saying*

Posted by 69when i read her posts i feel like that too.....
OP NEEDS TO GET HER TEETH SMASHED BY A MEDIUM-SIZED ROCK
Posted by SeaGoddessanyway....Posted by AquasticEhhh how about you just not talk to him at all. Sure when you see him to get your personal belongings you should be cordial, but I would keep it to a minimum. What's the point of talking to someone who clearly didn't give a damn to talk it out in the first place ? I would just move on. He sold you dreams, men are good at that shit. Sad but true.
I am not sure how this will work out, thought I m thinking of driving to his place and talk to him.I will even pack all of his stuff in my place and return them to him.To be honest I think I keep hurting myself by staying in this toxic relationship.I know my worth and it's about time I claim it by staying away from people who don't add value to my life.I wanna do things differently for myself from now on, I wanna prove to myself that life does not have to revolve around people I "think" love me.I have a lot going on for me to even stress myself about people who behave like kids. Maybe this guy is just bitter that I hve achieved lot since he's known me , and he hasn't.I work hard for everything I have, never asked for help from men.I hope one day I will back and laugh at all this!click to expand

Posted by Aquasticyou are a fucking liar.
@Lisabethur8 you don't get to call me an idiot! no you don't know me that well. Just because I posted about my relationship doesn't give you any right to call me an idiot!
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I don't know what to do. Should I confront him or should I take this as a message to back off!?