Pices Men are horrible my advice to all ladies "stay away!" (Page 2)

no one is this stupid.

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Posted by Aquastic
@Tiziani thanks , I really need to know why he did this. I will talk to him when I have cooled off.I don't wanna find myself screaming at him cause I won't get answers.

I wouldn't ask someone why they did it. They have their reasons. That just leads to stories and more confusion.

My friend taught me to simplify things by simply asking the other person: what can I do more? and are there things they need from elsewhere they're not getting from me?

And really nothing more than that. Those 2 questions only. No big stories and no long winded talks.

It doesn't take much effort to ask, and it doesn't take much effort to give an answer. Even if the answer is "nothing" or "I don't know".

What does take effort is just keeping to your side and keeping your emotions on an even keel. So yes that takes some time but in the long-term, cutting people off and not speaking to them every time you get burnt is like living in a bubble. Eventually it's not that big a deal anymore and you square away your business with each other privately when the time is right for both to be open again.

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and you enable people.

like enable "bad relationships".

there is a reason why people CUT people off.

but i've yet to see you in a good relationship so you shouldnt talk.

@busyeyes88 But talking to him would help

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Posted by Aquastic
@Tiziani thanks , I really need to know why he did this. I will talk to him when I have cooled off.I don't wanna find myself screaming at him cause I won't get answers.

I wouldn't ask someone why they did it. They have their reasons. That just leads to stories and more confusion.

My friend taught me to simplify things by simply asking the other person: what can I do more? and are there things they need from elsewhere they're not getting from me?

And really nothing more than that. Those 2 questions only. No big stories and no long winded talks.

It doesn't take much effort to ask, and it doesn't take much effort to give an answer. Even if the answer is "nothing" or "I don't know".

What does take effort is just keeping to your side and keeping your emotions on an even keel. So yes that takes some time but in the long-term, cutting people off and not speaking to them every time you get burnt is like living in a bubble. Eventually it's not that big a deal anymore and you square away your business with each other privately when the time is right for both to be open again.

and you enable people.

like enable "bad relationships".

there is a reason why people CUT people off.

but i've yet to see you in a good relationship so you shouldnt talk.

You would never see me in a good relationship because that's my business. Not yours.

Give up trying to steer a thread in your direction, unless these issues are about you.

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hm ok.

but it steers in your direction.

look at how OP jumps when you talk.

Posted by Aquastic
@Tiziani you the best! the most profound advice ever! To dump/ignore a guy when things get rough isn't the best or even the only option ,I can't keep on running away from my problems. So I am going to take your advice and run with it! thank you once again!

you can't even give the guy what he needs, and you said it yourself.

what makes you think you can change.

if he were smart, he'd have dumped you already. cold.

@Tiziani I really can't wait to talk to him now. I hope he explains to me why. I hope he opens up and tell me what I can do more, cause that would set me free. and I wanna do it face to face.I will give you feedback.

@69

number one: I am not sensitive, there better things to be sensitive about in life than your useless comments
Number two: why are you still commenting if my post is bullbutter?
Number three: GET A LIFE! and post your own stuff.NXA!
number four: YOU ARE BITTER! and u are , don't even hide it!

Be prepared to accept the real answer is you can't do anything. All options are on the table. And frankly, I'd only ask when you know you're in a position to do so. Not hurt, upset, defensive, etc. That's just a vicious circle that never ends.

@Tiziani noted!

Posted by 69
"yeah dear I wonder why you put out that picture on facebook, you know, the one where you were tonguing another girl, just after we had our standard 'on and off' sessions?"

COME ON, WHY ARE YOU STILL ALIVE?

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the OP is too much....

it's to the point of i can't handle anymore!!

until i'm busting up loling at her shenanigans.

Posted by Koniucha

Posted by Aquastic
@69

number one: I am not sensitive, there better things to be sensitive about in life than your useless comments
Number two: why are you still commenting if my post is bullbutter?
Number three: GET A LIFE! and post your own stuff.NXA!
number four: YOU ARE BITTER! and u are , don't even hide it!

Don't get worked about people like that. They come to this site to be assholes to people. There is a lot of negativity here, as you can clearly see.

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@koniucha, people are not this dumb though..

they type out what they did wrong in their relationship and they KNOW it...

but they still act as if they are in the wrong?

fine if she feels her man is in the wrong but she hasnt accepted her own wrongs either.

no one is perfect

but she hasn't accepted that about herself.

we get emotionally heated up because it can't be this ridiculous.

Calm down, folks. Go to Starlover's "New Moon in Aquarius" and rejoice!

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@69

number one: I am not sensitive, there better things to be sensitive about in life than your useless comments
Number two: why are you still commenting if my post is bullbutter?
Number three: GET A LIFE! and post your own stuff.NXA!
number four: YOU ARE BITTER! and u are , don't even hide it!

Don't get worked about people like that. They come to this site to be assholes to people. There is a lot of negativity here, as you can clearly see.

@koniucha, people are not this dumb though..

they type out what they did wrong in their relationship and they KNOW it...

but they still act as if they are in the wrong?

fine if she feels her man is in the wrong but she hasnt accepted her own wrongs either.

no one is perfect

but she hasn't accepted that about herself.

we get emotionally heated up because it can't be this ridiculous.

Exactly. No one is perfect. But you are coming off that way.

I don't know what your issue is or care really, but you are being very rude.

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if POLITENESS is all you care about, konicha, instead of aiding or helping the OP with your polite words of wisdom, .....

well it seems to me, personally that being polite is more IMPORTANT to you.

Posted by Koniucha
But I guess that is normal around here, so whatever.

you're right no one is perfect.

we can't all be perfect. *sigh*

So, you are seriously in here telling us that you can't be arsed to show you care to a partner ... and then come whining when this partner decides to take you up on your indifference, and find someone who actually cares to show that they like him?


Are you really that daft? Like, you really don't get it?


You deserve what you've earned ... and you've earned to be tossed aside

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@69

number one: I am not sensitive, there better things to be sensitive about in life than your useless comments
Number two: why are you still commenting if my post is bullbutter?
Number three: GET A LIFE! and post your own stuff.NXA!
number four: YOU ARE BITTER! and u are , don't even hide it!

Don't get worked about people like that. They come to this site to be assholes to people. There is a lot of negativity here, as you can clearly see.

@koniucha, people are not this dumb though..

they type out what they did wrong in their relationship and they KNOW it...

but they still act as if they are in the wrong?

fine if she feels her man is in the wrong but she hasnt accepted her own wrongs either.

no one is perfect

but she hasn't accepted that about herself.

we get emotionally heated up because it can't be this ridiculous.

Exactly. No one is perfect. But you are coming off that way.

I don't know what your issue is or care really, but you are being very rude.

if POLITENESS is all you care about, konicha, instead of aiding or helping the OP with your polite words of wisdom, .....

well it seems to me, personally that being polite is more IMPORTANT to you.

I do like being polite. Thank you for noticing.

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lol i know. you must have some libra. or strong 7th house.

Posted by lisabethur8
women like you kind of piiss me off.

^^^^^

Posted by Aquastic
@Lisabethur8 you don't get to call me an idiot! no you don't know me that well. Just because I posted about my relationship doesn't give you any right to call me an idiot!

Oh, you're more than idiot .... you're an idiotic moron.


And you deserve to be called that ... because that is what you are.



You purposely act like he's not worth much to you ... and then turn around and cry foul when he decides to find something meaningful in his life.


You deserve to be treated like an option ... because that is the energy you put out there and expect him to tolerate. He's mirroring you, and you can't handle it.


that makes you an full fledged idiot.

lol how I don't care about them comments anymore!, I wish people could go back to their bubbles.

Posted by Aquastic

I really don't know what I did to him

what could have pushed him to do this to me

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maybe he does'nt feel loved, cause I'm a woman who hardly show affection.

I only call him when I wanna see him or when I have something important to tell him.

I did not see the need to affirm my love for him.

I 'm not the kind of girl who would want attention from a guy

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The answer to your question is "yes" ... Pisces people are this horrible, considering your definition of horrible is to toss a person like you to the curb.

Pisces people are looking for a meaningful relationship ... we're not looking for a common bitch who couldn't care a less about developing mutual trust and respect.

oooookaaaaaaaaaaaaay! P-Angel we heard you ! now shut-up!

Posted by Arielle83
ewww ya he's lame.

don't even bother showing you care at all.

she didn't bother to show him she cared, at all .... that's why he decided to step away from her

good for him, I say ..... now he is free to go find a woman of value

but if he wanted the relationship to work he should have shown me too. And my profile was that of me and him until today when he changed his.

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I am not sure how this will work out, thought I m thinking of driving to his place and talk to him.I will even pack all of his stuff in my place and return them to him.To be honest I think I keep hurting myself by staying in this toxic relationship.I know my worth and it's about time I claim it by staying away from people who don't add value to my life.I wanna do things differently for myself from now on, I wanna prove to myself that life does not have to revolve around people I "think" love me.I have a lot going on for me to even stress myself about people who behave like kids. Maybe this guy is just bitter that I hve achieved lot since he's known me , and he hasn't.I work hard for everything I have, never asked for help from men.I hope one day I will back and laugh at all this!

Ehhh how about you just not talk to him at all. Sure when you see him to get your personal belongings you should be cordial, but I would keep it to a minimum. What's the point of talking to someone who clearly didn't give a damn to talk it out in the first place ? I would just move on. He sold you dreams, men are good at that shit. Sad but true.

anyway....


girll....you look like Alyssa Sharpe with that "pose" with your hands over your mouth like that.

Saw Alyssa Sharpe's Facebook profile a week ago when linked from her YouTube. lol and her pose is just like that.

she has pisces rising. 😄

you must have some libra.

that's my go to ! I seriously only feel like I can take a pic if my hand is somewhere on my damn face. I just can't help it . been doing it since I was a child.
I only have Jupiter in Libra that's as Libra as I get haha

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that's interesting! well, depending on your chart formation, it could be your dominant sign. Steve Jobs only has aquarius mercury but aspects and chart formation makes him dominant aqua. But he's not stellium aqua, so his other planets express other energies. Thought that was cool to note!

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I am not sure how this will work out, thought I m thinking of driving to his place and talk to him.I will even pack all of his stuff in my place and return them to him.To be honest I think I keep hurting myself by staying in this toxic relationship.I know my worth and it's about time I claim it by staying away from people who don't add value to my life.I wanna do things differently for myself from now on, I wanna prove to myself that life does not have to revolve around people I "think" love me.I have a lot going on for me to even stress myself about people who behave like kids. Maybe this guy is just bitter that I hve achieved lot since he's known me , and he hasn't.I work hard for everything I have, never asked for help from men.I hope one day I will back and laugh at all this!

Ehhh how about you just not talk to him at all. Sure when you see him to get your personal belongings you should be cordial, but I would keep it to a minimum. What's the point of talking to someone who clearly didn't give a damn to talk it out in the first place ? I would just move on. He sold you dreams, men are good at that shit. Sad but true.

anyway....


girll....you look like Alyssa Sharpe with that "pose" with your hands over your mouth like that.

Saw Alyssa Sharpe's Facebook profile a week ago when linked from her YouTube. lol and her pose is just like that.

she has pisces rising. 😄

you must have some libra.

that's my go to ! I seriously only feel like I can take a pic if my hand is somewhere on my damn face. I just can't help it . been doing it since I was a child.
I only have Jupiter in Libra that's as Libra as I get haha

that's interesting! well, depending on your chart formation, it could be your dominant sign. Steve Jobs only has aquarius mercury but aspects and chart formation makes him dominant aqua. But he's not stellium aqua, so his other planets express other energies. Thought that was cool to note!

How does one find that out ?? Because I swear most days I don't feel or act like a pisces. When I was young I definitely did. But now that I'm older I feel things have changed dramatically

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go to astrotheme.com or astro.com, and you can see your pullen

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by Aquastic
So I've been on and off with this pisces man, everything was going fine until when I woke up this morning, booom! he's changed his profile pic,it's him and this other girl kissing! The worst thing I have ever come ACROSS.Me and him were doing just fine. I really don't know what I did to him for him to do this to me. I wish he could have told me something. I really don't feel like talking to him right now. This is so painful I won't lie to myself. Are pisces men this horrible? what could have pushed him to do this to me.

I don't know what to do. Should I confront him or should I take this as a message to back off!?

Good idea. Stay away... They will waste your years whilst they "make up their minds" on/off all the time. Secretive and indecisive. Opinionated. One I had an aqauaintance with for 10 years. He would come in and out of my life randomly sending a text message or an email!

Last year Dec I had had enough. We were supposed to meet for Xmas drinks but I heard nothing. Told him that I wished him all the best but I don't to know him any more and that I have deleted all his details and not to EVER contact me again as I do not want his friendship. I then proceeded to delete everything. I also had to block another pisces in the same manner.

I have also had to get rid of a long term pisces girl friend/ a cancer girlfriend and my scorpio girl friend from school. I can't deal with their energy.

Don't waste any more of your time... You are an air energy and he is water energy. They don't go together well. Hell, water doesn't even seem to go with earth energy and supposedly they should!!!!

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you can't deal with water energy either?? (from you saying you got rid of pisces/cancer/Scorpio gf) 😕 you make no sense.

It's a fair call, people drown in water signs, I know what it's like.

Thanks @ busyeyes88

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@lisabethur8

Is this real —
Omg I swear I hate Capricorns the most and after coming to this site I just keep finding out how Capricorn I really am
Capricorn is dominant
Pisces came in rank 2
Aquarius 3
Scorpio 4
And Libra rank five lol so you're right I do have a lot of Libra
This is kind of cool I definitely have to keep researching this stuff

well i have capricorn, and asteroids, ect and i like capricorns, not all but i've had best friends who are cap sun and the family members i have who are cap suns i love, even my husband's mother.

so i dont know why you dont.

i love their hard working, stability and ambition.
i dont hate any sign though.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Pisces men are worst then Virgo men! Probably the worst sign to date!

They act like women no man in them

Date one Virgo man and he does look very feminine.

The Pisces I'm still dating looks very masculine but deep down emotional and cries like woman. It's a good thing to have emotions, the bad part is he is rejecting his emotions and causing conflicts. If he embrace his emotions and use it as motivation it will be good

Posted by dewiklaessen1991
@The_eleventh_sign_11 to be honest my ex was a Cancer with Pisces moon and this behavior sounds very familiar my ex tried to choke me headbutt me once he punched me in my stomach even kicked me and afterwards he would cry and say I don't wanna lose you this is never gonna happen again... It's that a Pisces thing? My ex was extremely jealous always wanted things his way manipulative and emotional blackmailing.
If he had money i could only spend on himself where as if I had money it felt like he was jealous because then he would give me the yeah you have money now and I can't pay my bill etc and then while I already didn't have much my money got spend and was gone.

Had terrible 5 years of my life at the last moment when we broke up he twice told me to commit suicide and I told him here's a knife go outside no blood in my house I know it sounds hard but I was tired he didn't think about me only himself selfish asshole.

I still hate him after we broke up he made promises like always and not keep them he left me with a lot of shit while he gets away with everything.

I don't know if it's necessarily a Pisces thing but it's definitely water element territory I also had an ex who was a cancer and I'm very familiar with this shitty behaviour and jealousy, it's cute at first till it gets real, my ex cancer was abusive as well, he burnt me with a cigarette and left a scar on me, throughout the relationship I could never forgive him thank god he ended up kicking me out of the house because he just started a new job and couldn't take the stress, but the funny thing is he still wanted to be with me lol.
Something I notice about piscean men is they can't deal with their own inadequacy and become jealous and shitty when they have no money and make you feel obliged to pay when all they do s spend on themselves, I'm not superficial whatsoever, he said he would paint me a picture for my birthday and I was so excited, instead the coin bought me scratchies.....they are niggers if they have too much water in their chart you better have a lot of earth in yours to keep your head above the water so you don't drown,

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
This is the meme that I posted lol

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There's einstein, steve jobs and there's a serial killer, all was a pisces.

Please stop condemn all pisces bad just because some pisces bad. people are different no matter what is their sign.

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Pisces men are worst then Virgo men! Probably the worst sign to date!

They act like women no man in them

What makes us worst?

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fish can't get past all that sand in her vagina

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Pisces men are worst then Virgo men! Probably the worst sign to date!

They act like women no man in them

Now that u mention it. Virgo men also suck! they are the most heartless people.

I actually met this pisces man same day I broke up with a virgo man. I thought it was fate cause my relationship with a virgo was also horrible. cause things were sweet with the pisces man at the beginning of the relationship. Little did I know I attracted a looser!

Back to the The Virgo man, he made me pregnant and advice that I do abortion, when I refused , he was no where to be found! my child is 5 years now and he is begging me to get back with him now that he's rich. He does not give a fuck about his child!

I think it is funny that everyone thinks you can use a chart/sign... to understand why someone is doing something. You can't it is only about what the person is doing with there energy and basically how consistent. Yes some charts have harder lives but still it is all about either a person develops and becomes more aware then just reacting on primal emotions.

So it is not Pisces sun or any other sun sign... It is the taste in men and lack of holding them accountable.

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@Piscesmoon2 why are you still here then? It's interesting for people to share stories about certain signs. you might be right , you might be wrong>

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Posted by Aquastic
@poppyseed thanks I wish I had the energy to talk to him. I hope I find strength and talk to him about it.

I know it's hard but try to focus on yourself, forget about him and others.

Focus on what makes you happy, heal yourself first.

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I wouldn't bother if I were in your position.
I'd throw his stuff away and block him on everything and not give him the satisfaction of any kind of reaction. That's what he wants, all the drama and rage etc, then he'll find a way to play the victim. *Rolls eyes*

Walk away with your head held high.

@MadMarchRam ....too late, I called him yesterday, just when I was about to statrt a conversation, he told me he can't talk cause his chilling with his new girlfriend. * my heart*! ever see me with a pisces guy again , please cut my toes!

I was really broken inside, but funny enough my tear wouldn't come out, I guess this man dried me up!

the girl moved in with him. and I did not know cause we've been spending time at my place a lot lately

All the signs were there now that sit down and reflect back, but I chose to ignore them thinking we were meant to be because of how coincident we met. In my heard I kept thinking we would work it out, I just need to fix my hair , hit the gym, be more fun and happy around him and his friends, and not take any negative advice from friends. Everytime something went wrong I would blame myself and he would also say that I don't call him, I don't visit him, but he also never use initiate the calling.

well, look at me now!

I love Pisces men and women. Pices men though, yeah. treetrunk those guys.

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Posted by einrikspisces
There's einstein, steve jobs and there's a serial killer, all was a pisces.

Please stop condemn all pisces bad just because some pisces bad. people are different no matter what is their sign.

einstein and steve jobs were terrible people.

and a serial killer?

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i was shocked about Steve Job's personal life. He was married to a Scorpio sun, but he cheated on her and had an affair, a baby on the side with the other woman. The entire story is on Wikipedia. And on online biographies. Not every pisces sun male is gonna be the epitome of a good husband material. But in real life, i'm glad to know of two who are the epitome of an awesome husband material.

Also, Einstein? jeeez.. he was not good in personal relationships, but he was awesome with that E=MC square.

Posted by RamOfPeace
I love Pisces men and women. Pices men though, yeah. treetrunk those guys.

one of my faves is Adam Levine. lol

Yeah good way of expressing your anger towards someone in your life.

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Pisces men are worst then Virgo men! Probably the worst sign to date!

They act like women no man in them

Now that u mention it. Virgo men also suck! they are the most heartless people.

I actually met this pisces man same day I broke up with a virgo man. I thought it was fate cause my relationship with a virgo was also horrible. cause things were sweet with the pisces man at the beginning of the relationship. Little did I know I attracted a looser!

Back to the The Virgo man, he made me pregnant and advice that I do abortion, when I refused , he was no where to be found! my child is 5 years now and he is begging me to get back with him now that he's rich. He does not give a fuck about his child!

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you keep looking at "signs" as if they are the reason they aren't good relationship material.

it's the individual, the person themselves who aren't good relationship material. Even trine suns dont work out and break up too, so it's NOT about that either...it's about two people understanding eachother emotionally, and respect.

you dont respect this guy, we already know that. And it's Obvious he dont respect you or else all this would never have happened.

So you're just bleeding it out.

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Posted by Aquastic
I was really broken inside, but funny enough my tear wouldn't come out, I guess this man dried me up!

Perhaps search for a Gemini, Libra or Sagittarius? I hear Aquarius is more compatible with those three signs.

Ja it's about time I get myself a new man. This time I will make sure is of those signs you mentioned.

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Is this a joke?

Posted by Aquastic
@MadMarchRam ....too late, I called him yesterday, just when I was about to statrt a conversation, he told me he can't talk cause his chilling with his new girlfriend. * my heart*! ever see me with a pisces guy again , please cut my toes!

Theoretically that's the best thing he could have done. Now you know, what a heartless, excuse of a man he is you should be able to cut him off and start the healing process.

If he ever does get in touch again, please for your own sake just ignore him.

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I was really broken inside, but funny enough my tear wouldn't come out, I guess this man dried me up!

Perhaps search for a Gemini, Libra or Sagittarius? I hear Aquarius is more compatible with those three signs.

Ja it's about time I get myself a new man. This time I will make sure is of those signs you mentioned.

Is this a joke?

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lol

i was about to quote that but she hid it.

hilarious.

she's a PUPPET. whoever says what will be GOOD for her, she follows like a puppet on a string....as if she has no soul or heart. 😆 heehee.