Pisces and flirting

i like this Pisces woman, she is soo flirty, not just with me but with everyone, i know she doesnt mean it to be flirting it is just what comes naturally to her, its just how she is, is this normal for pisces?

I don't think were naturally flirty...if we are we don't mean it...Not being funny but men just love Pisces women!!!
Well any Pisces lady I know anyway..

oh i know, that what i saying you dont mean to flirt but to anyone else you are flirting, she gets nicknamed the heartbreaker by her friends cos sooo many men have fallen for her but none have ever suceeded to win her heart about from the guy she is with now, who is Libra on cusp of scorpio.

i wish she'd leave him for me tho, so wrong i know!

I wouldn't consider Pisces women naturally flirty ... however, it is natural for us to give attention to people, and others would interpret this differently then how we mean it to be.

This is one of our gifts .. we have the ability to give our full undivided attention to another person, and when we do this, the other person is left feeling like they are the only person in the world because when we encounter a person who needs attention, nothing distracts us and they get our complete focus, sincerely for their benefit.

To the reciever .. they would likely interpret this as being flirty, or into them on an attraction level. But, ususally, it's not an attraction of that kind .. it's just .. we concern ourselves with people in need, and most people in need encounter ignorance because most people generally don't want to be bothered with shit that's not their own.

So, yes, it's normal for Pisces .... it's just not intended the way most people interpret it.

Well its kinda wrong but if u fel that strongly about her...I dunno you should be able to tell realistically if you have any sort fo chance with her. havign said that from my point of veiw and the pisces ladies i know if shes with this guy she really likes him don't think us pisces settle. So you could be trying to fight a loosing battle!!!!!

There's something else to consider here ...


She is partnered with a man, and you've said before on the Virgo board that you and her have kissed a couple times, and have gone out on dates.


Any person, regardless of gender or zodiac sign, who is partnered with no intentions of leaving this partner, while openly flirting, dating and kissing another person >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> is a cheater, a player.


And I'm not sure that you have fully comprehended this, ami .. for your focus is all about capturing her heart. Certainly, I understand about attractions and having a desire ... but, also, there is the logical, rational part of the brain that interjects the emotional heart, and this inner voice shouldn't be ignored because it's there for a reason.


If she would "play" with you betraying her man .. then she would "play" another person betraying you, if you succeeding in capturing her.


Think about that ..... seriously ... for your own sake .....

I TOTALLY agree with both of your comments, and i know if i think about it logically then i know nothing will happen, i know if she is willing to cheat with him then she is anyone, a cheater never changes its spots as they say.

so it is something i have considered, and i know the kind of person that she is i could never have anything more then a fling, she is too straight for that, even though she has told me she is scared to sleep with me once because she knows she will get addicted and she has pictures of two women in her bedroom - what kind of straight person does that?

i just think she is perfect, she is funny, caring, sexy and we get along great we have only known each other a month and i feel like i have known her forever.

i also think i want what i cant have which bums me out.

"she has told me she is scared to sleep with me once because she knows she will get addicted and she has pictures of two women in her bedroom"


ami .. this is a manipulation to get you hooked on her, for attention.

A Pisces person is basically non-sexually-oriented .. meaning, we would embrace a person we love, regardless. Certainly, we desire certain genders, and if asked our orientation, we would say: straight, gay, or whatever our preference is ... however, if our soul was connected to another person, regardless of gender, race, age ... we would embrace this love, unconditionally of those labels.

Additionally, a Pisces doesn't get addicted to a person in the flesh, we get addicted to the idea, to the fantasy. So, if she has pictures of women, then this fantasy already exists.

You're being drawn in ... fooled. Your best bet is to back away from her before you take the hook, and your heart suffers. Because I'm telling you as sure as I'm sitting here .. a Pisces female is NOT afraid to sleep with a woman, if this is her desire .. period.

i have thought that it is a manipulation thing i have gone over that in my head, i know she likes the attention and i dont believe anything will come of it. but yet i cannot drag myself away from her, she text me last night, she is going on holiday, she text saying she is excited for her holiday, asked how i was, then said she will miss me.

i gave my friend advice the other day on women which i know was right, when you seem interested in someone it makes them loose interest because the chase is over, its not exciting anymore, so i told him to play it cool, dont be the first to text leave them to chase, and it worked. yet i can never seem to take my own advice, is that normal?