Pisces/Aries/Cancer love triangle disaster...need

Hello,

I'm new here, and I'm a Pisces. My first relationship began with an Aries and lasted a year and a half...we fought constantly, and would break up frequently just to get back together rather quickly. These fights were mostly due to my paranoia and jealousy issues...and partly due to his pride.

After one break-up, however, I began to get to know a Cancer. He was sweet, loving and seemed to know how I felt...and care about how I felt. I got into a relationship with him...but I still harbored feelings for my ex...and he didn't make it easy because he kept coming back to me. And, then, a few times, my Aries would come to me, and we would fight...and make-up like we did before...usually physically...but I didn't want to get back with him just to get my old jealousy issues back as well.

So...I told my Cancer about my cheating...and I did, and do, feel horrible for it. But, he forgave me, and I broke up my relationship with him into a more friendly one, becuase I feared I would still make "mistakes" with my Aries. We agreed to be in a friendly relationship...but I think the Cancer still say a chance we may get back together...and this may be my fault.

But, I decided to get back with my Aries, and I told the Cancer...and he's not talking to me right now. I don't know what to do. I never meant to hurt him. I'm sorry for the long story but are there any suggestions?

Well in all honesty your relationship with this aries sounds liek a disaster and you repeatedly cheated on the cancer guy so as much as he says he forgives you, deep own he probably doesn't. So I think, and I'm just throwing this idea out there, you shoulnd't be with either of them.

2 sharks swimming in opposite directions:

Sex with the Aries is the bomb,right? They're very uninhibited and bravely perverse nothing scares them and they will try anything. Even my piscean perversions (and pisces we can get very low and very dark,right?)doesn't scare Aries,she wanted more. They can be a lot of fun,but emotionally they just don't get it.I think we're a little to sulky for them. I'm on the Pisces Aries cusp I kind of understand we're they're coming from.

It is of very great importantance to a cancer-guy that he is respected. If he cares for you, he will do anything possible and he he will be there for you every step of the way. But he needs to feel appreciated.
Although you were honest with him, he probably dislikes the fact that you were kind of too weak (they resent that sort of weakness) to refuse giving into the aries-temptation, and he will certainly feel like you betrayed him. Cancers don't like that (nobody does 😉). They are nice personalities, but don't mess with 'em, 'cause they will turn into true ice lollies!!
Let him be for a while, but don't even think about getting back with him as long as your interest goes out to aries-man.. 'Cause the first time he might have accepted there being another man, the next time he will turn into a verrrrry green monster and might even try to get back at you :-s

Good luck, and gr?tz, mini *

This Pisces male does not mix well with any Aries.
Oil & water.
My past relationships with Cancers were beautiful things.
We understood each other,on many different levels.
Something an Aries can never do.
You'll never be able to really open up and bare your soul to any Aries.
And Piscean water does not quench an Arian's fire!
Acts more like gasoline.
Things may look great on the surface with this Aries,but dive deeper,if you dare,and you'll find nothing but a lifetime of unhappiness.
Stick with those water & earth signs.
They understand,appreciate,nuture & provide fertile soil for us fish to grow.