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Pisces Break Up with Pisces? Confused and Unsure.
You almost just described my exact situation with my boyfriend who is also a pisces. 😢
It sounds like your just friends, your lucky your learning this now vs years down the road like me!
It sounds like your just friends, your lucky your learning this now vs years down the road like me!
You both are mistaken about Pisces ..... we don't operate as both of you fear.
We don't look for or live for absolutes .... we look for and live for experiencing moments.
We don't regret our ex-partners, and it's quite normal for us to remain dear friends, if possible.
A Pisces would be pissed off at you, if you hide from how you felt about them ... rather than put yourself in the proper perspective of realizing that you are suppose to enjoy your intimate experiences ... rather than use them to count time.
Both of you tell your partners now that you enjoyed the ride, but, the experience is over .... and walk away ... the Fish will be the opposite of pissed off, sad or hurt.
They will only be hurt if you make yourself stay once the ride was over.
How can you have been with us and not realize that when a life episode is over, we flip the switch off and then move on to the next adventure to experience? It could be a job, a conversation, a thought, an acquaintance, virtually every episode .... if it finishes, we step away and on to the next.
P-Angel is right.
Folks, if you are bored in the relationship, then why not make suggestions on how to spice it up with your partner?
I realize that the 21st century is supposedly all about equality, so why do you women nag about men "not doing enough" when you could easily get some damn motivation and come up with ideas yourself?
Surely you realize that good ideas tend to inspire other good ideas in others.
Why not take a minute, plan something spontaneous and fun this weekend or next weekend, and just go with it. Then, ask him to come up with something fun for the next weekend?
Why not rotate the weekend plan responsibilities between both parties?
Folks, if you are bored in the relationship, then why not make suggestions on how to spice it up with your partner?
I realize that the 21st century is supposedly all about equality, so why do you women nag about men "not doing enough" when you could easily get some damn motivation and come up with ideas yourself?
Surely you realize that good ideas tend to inspire other good ideas in others.
Why not take a minute, plan something spontaneous and fun this weekend or next weekend, and just go with it. Then, ask him to come up with something fun for the next weekend?
Why not rotate the weekend plan responsibilities between both parties?
The truth is that a pisces is never going to fight very hard for a relationship that is pettering out.
Does that make them self-absorbed? They are actually the total opposite, which is probably worse.
If you are the kind of person that want to fight for saving a relationship, then do it, your pisces S.O will stay with you if you need it. They will be as involved as you will want them in your life.
If you think that you are going to put the pisces through trials and oaths... forget it, it's going to be hell.
Does that make them self-absorbed? They are actually the total opposite, which is probably worse.
If you are the kind of person that want to fight for saving a relationship, then do it, your pisces S.O will stay with you if you need it. They will be as involved as you will want them in your life.
If you think that you are going to put the pisces through trials and oaths... forget it, it's going to be hell.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Am I trying to undermine P's points? Maybe. Or maybe I'm just trying to understand the nature of the truth here. Because one cannot be absolute and illusory at the same time--then again being a Pisces--maybe one can. Its all so confusing...
I see it as people operating within a system/reality. Both Virgos and Pisces do it.
If you're not on the same wavelength about that...it's impossible for us to explain it. Like listening to a mumbled radio frequency..you cannot hear it.
I read all these complaints about Virgo and I cannot see it..I can bet the Virgo in question has a system but it's not tangential with mine.
Ugh, I am rambling now.
I imagine that's why people struggle with this axis a lot.
I can imagine someone asking us what we're on about...a Pisces and a Virgo in the room.
The Pisces would drift into their mind and not answer shit.
The Virgo would throw facts at you..completely irrelevant to the discussion until you bore and go away.
Omg, we're awful.
I can imagine someone asking us what we're on about...a Pisces and a Virgo in the room.
The Pisces would drift into their mind and not answer shit.
The Virgo would throw facts at you..completely irrelevant to the discussion until you bore and go away.
Omg, we're awful.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
You are exactly right, Juke. Its all about communicating with each other about the basics. Nothing wrong with that.
Sometimes, though, P has a way of making Pisces in general seem like: "We reserve the right to pull out at a moment's notice because our moment is done." How can one ever build a foundation for a relationship on that? It's quite the "seed" to handle, would you not agree? She's been married for 25+ years so it doesn't sound like she's done that in her own life. I don't get this at all. Maybe I am reading her wrong.
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There is NO SEED that's the point. Why would you want to be around someone who is DONE with you? There's no foundation, NOTHING. Good bye. Deal with it, and be grateful you weren't strung around or having your time wasted.
Posted by Damnata
I see it as people operating within a system/reality. Both Virgos and Pisces do it.
Key word REALITY. Some people can't handle it.
Don't forget about the experience Tiz
You always forget about the experience.
You always forget about the experience.
Posted by tiziani
Reality is an illusion!
perception is everything!
/repeats his Pisces mantras before bed
...expect a lot of broken hearts with that thought process^^
...now tiz, don't confuse that with NOT opening your heart. I'm all about opening the heart, but when it's over...it's over.
You need to work harder @ flattery, Libra.
This sub par effort won't cut it.
This sub par effort won't cut it.
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