What are the chances of getting back together and staying together after splitting up for a year? Esp when Cap has found someone else but is having second thoughts now. Thanks for the input.
Pisces Fem and Cap Male
I HAVE A JUICY STORY TO TELL YOU, BUT I HAVE TO LEAVE RIGHT NOW BUT PROMISE TO FEEL YOU IN TOMORROW. BE SURE TO TUNE BACK IN YOUR GONNA LOVE IT. I'M A FEM FISH AND DATED A MALE CAP
Getting back together rarely works out unless there have been a whole lot of personality changes/growing up. Whatever was wrong with the relationship in the first place will still be there. If he is going through problems with his new one he is probably remembering you with rose-coloured glasses. He should be alone for a while to sort out what the hell he wants. Personally I hate to go backwards, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and goats too.
I say it could work, but you need to look at the reasons why the relationship failed in the first place. And you should be curious as to why now he wants you back as well as why you are considering it. Do you miss him and why. These are questions that I believe you should answer before you give it any more thought. I'm sure you would hate to open up something that should have stayed closed- emotionally and mentally. Good luck girl!
Thank you so much for your response, I have done alot of thinking and you're right it really is something that needs to be closed emotionally and mentally. Im going to look somewhere else. Thanks again. 🙂
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