Pisces female/Gemini male

Are there any female Pisces dating or married to a Gemini male, just wanted some insite and opinion. Thanks!

Hey Girl,

My first husband was a Gemini and probably the worse relationship I've ever had.

Certainly, not everyone is the same, but, he was a monster and complete asshole. It was funny because to his friends and family, he was the nicest person you ever want to meet, had more friends than you could imagine . . just Mr. Social Butterfly . . in private, he was a complete dickhead . . . the evil twin emerged.

My mother-in-law, and brother-in-law, are Gems and I've heard similar stories. The Good Twin and The Evil Twin . . . the evil one is reserved for their intimate partner. Not quite sure why that is, though. Everyone is different and I'm sure there's plenty of Gems who aren't like that, but, 3 that I know of, are. Sweet as homemade apple pie until you're married to them and alone with them . .

As just friends . . you can't find anyone nicer and sweeter. So, that's my experience, for what it's worth.

I have seen both of his twins, the good one most of the time, I guess that is the one I love. The bad one on the other hand I can't deal with, and it seems to be coming out more and more the longer we are together. Guess there is no way to soften up the evil side is there? I know what you mean about the Mr. Social Butterfly, and having more friends than you can imagine. I am more in depth when it comes to my feelings and loving him, but it's like lately he switches back in forth so much there is no depth to him, just shallowness. Maybe the fish and twins are just not ment to be. When I think about his actions sometimes, I can't get my brain around it. Thanks for the comments P-Angel, I really appreciate it!

No problem, girl . . good luck 🙂

used to it was horrible

Well, im married to a gemini male and i most say, it CAN be slightly difficult at times. Like when he is stressed out from an issue that has happened else where and come to a peaceful home (or place)and raise hell and viciously talk about the person or issue that has upset him, and it causes me to sometime have emotion-breakdowns over it.And when he is looking at news look it is the most hottest piece of porn ever ignore me and my problems.He can be somewhere in the house and he just sat there like there something on his mind, and when i ask him, its, "Damn , cant i just think and be alone to relax...JESUS F***ING CHRIST!!", like i've been in him face all day. I dont know if all guys act like that, or what.
However, dispite all of that, i still love him.

Ah, yes neptune girl, I know what you mean. I can say my gem has never cursed at me, called me a name or anything, but we do not live together, or see each other everyday. There are a lot of times when we have nothing at all to say to each other. When we first met almost 2 years ago, we had so much to talk about, and got a lot wonderfully, I really thought he was the one, told his mom, I was the one. But here the last 6 months, it is like we have grown apart, he has no considerations for my feelings, just does as he pleases, we get on the phone and have nothing to talk about, just dead air, and I can't handle that, I have to know what is going on, I have to be reassured. He clams and clams he loves me, but I just since there is something, I don't know what, but there is something going on. He doesn't talk about anything personal lately, just cars, and his friends and crap. I don't understand how things have gotten so bad.

YOU R SO LUCKY PISCGIRL!! you dont live w/ him, i mean, i love my husband VERY much, so much that i want 2 swing at him w/ a bat...lol. But seriously, i try to imform him that he isnt the only person w/ intellect. He trys 2 correct EVERYBODY , but when some1 corrects him, he will not say "ok, im sorry", its " I KNOW THAT, DAMN, GIVE ME TIME TO FIGURE IT OUT, GEEZ GET OFF MY BALLS". i h8 that about him.
im SO sorry that you all arent together,have u guys tryed so prayer or some a from a "doctor"?

pisces moon/ cap sun here been with gem man since the early 80's. yeah it's been a challange but, that's what ya get in just about any male/female committed relationship. it's how we learn and grow! somewhere i read gems are the "battlers" of the zodiac. watch the drinking with these guys! they can lose their inhibitions when the child in them doesn't know when to stop. takes a strong woman to deal with the "twin" stuff! but they love the security of your presence through thick and thin.

"gems are the "battlers" of the zodiac. watch the drinking with these guys! they can lose their inhibitions when the child in them doesn't know when to stop."
lol..I KNOW!!.....tripod & archer, u guys are so on point its wild.i sould say im strong to put up w/ his behind.I've got to say, things have gotten a whole lot better since then.All you need to do is be just as bold and crazy....lol.I still feel for you piscgirl and your "battler". i PRAY you guys work it out to an equal and complete understanding.Maybe you sould explain to him his actions to you and your feelings, but be just like him or/and a bit more aggressive(if he is non-abusive). For instance when he starts to dish crap at you roughly,"HEY! IM TRIED OF U AND YOUR DAMNED INSULTS, I DONT HAVE TO TAKE THIS MESS FROM YOU. WHO ARE YOU? NOTHING THATS WHAT.", and dont be afraid to become bold.Let him know!! Make sure you get your point across him and his big ego.HOWEVER if he is hitting you, you forget the words, just report him to the authority. I used to work for a organization for battered moms and children and it was some awful cases in which the women where scared to report their husbands.

OH how rude. its nice to know you too archer🙂. and thank u🙂

interesting, i see that you guys tend to have alot of similar problems that ive noticed in my relationship, albeit from the other side of the equation. as the gemini male in the relationship i can see some of the same flaws in myself, but (at the risk of falling into a long winded dissertation or knowitalledness) have a few insites into our latent tendencies (and might help in dealing with them)

for instance, the evil twin being reserved for their lover. unfortunate that it is that way but it is a GOOD indicator that he cares for you deeply. "social butterflies" by nature would indicate a sense of compassion, but in reality exists as a stimulant and a source of variety. there is no greater sea of ever changing information than exists within the human race.
in my case people were sources of information, most of which werent important enough to waste emotions on, thereby eliminating the need for the "evil twin" which seems to be drawn out in times of stress or emotional attatchment.
but for example ive been kinda down the past couple of days, for in all the years of this relationship ive managed to keep my thoughtlessness and temperment in check, but the other night i got very drunk, and got mad at her for not hugging me, such a small and tiny act, and for some reason this unleashed that beast in me, and less than a minute later she tried to hug me and i pushed her away saying "get away from me, i dont want to f-ing touch you!", i dont even remember doing this at all, but it hurt her feelings for a long while, and i had no clue.
she told me about it the next day and ive felt horrible, as i should.

argumentative and know-it-all proclivities i believe stem from the ever racing mind of the gemini, debate or argument is a good release for alot of those pent up or neglected emotions.
with me ive found a way to repress that, which is if i start to go overboard just stopping, i have to stop talking or risk blurting out things that i shouldnt say. once an argument begins it tends to escalate like an avalanche, gaining force and speed as it goes, until i end up with this loud unstoppable force boiling out of my mouth that frustrates anyone im around, including myself.
if you can get your men to just STOP (a task much easier said than done) then those negative traits should melt away as quickly and randomly as they appeared.

anyway i found what you had to say to be helpful in what NOT to do, or try not to do heh, good luck =p

"For instance when he starts to dish crap at you roughly,"HEY! IM TRIED OF U AND YOUR DAMNED INSULTS, I DONT HAVE TO TAKE THIS MESS FROM YOU. WHO ARE YOU? NOTHING THATS WHAT.", and dont be afraid to become bold.Let him know!! Make sure you get your point across him and his big ego.HOWEVER if he is hitting you, you forget the words, just report him to the authority."

thats very very good advice, though i tend to not be verbally abusive, when that does happen that would work wonderfully, since it really is usally i dont realise im being an asshole, and that would make it clear.

as for physical abuse, thats just disgusting, if that were to happen it should be reported to me, ill show em what it feels like to be on the RECIEVING end of mercurial fury, haha im always ready for a read trip =p

No, I have not had to worry about any kind of physical abuse at all, I know he would never raise a hand to me. He does drink a little, but I can drink him under the table, so that is not a threat either. We are in a long distance relationship, we live about 35 miles from each other, but talk every day and see each other once a week. I just feel sometimes like he has lost interest in me. If you have read my earlier posts you will understand what I am talking about. So when he makes me feel this way, I just withdrawl, do my own thing with my own friends and stuff, and pretend everything is ok. It's takes him a while to realize this, and comes off with, don't you miss me, or want to see me. I am not into playing games, and I refuse to be a part time girlfriend-including all that implies. If you can't at least act like you are in a relationship, and I am your girlfriend at least most of the time, then I can't justify being with him. I am the kind that needs reassurance not distance.

As a matter of fact I have been dating a crazy gemini for seven years.