Pisces girl's, Why would you ignore someone if....

Last year I met this Pisces girl and we clicked fabulously, we had an amazing connection we had very intense conversations all the time, I would get lost in her eyes and I really felt like i could trust her, our relationship just continued to grow and it was Christmas time last year, and I got her a gift to surprise her and she really like it, and also We made plans to the movies together it was something i was so looking forward to her, she's was at the time 2 years older than me so I really had to work hard to get her attention, and then it happened... We planned the movie thing and I went to go work out and I came back to my phone and she said she couldn't go something came up, it really killed me, because i know she was always very busy so, I know I wouldn't get this chance again for awhile and then we didn't get to see each other for like a week,and I wasn't mad at her at all for canceling our plans she was very apologetic, and I said that i totally understood, after that week our relationship was just never the same, it lost that intensity, I did everything i could, to win it back, I really did like her, I got her gifts, I complimented her, I always listened and put her needs before mine, We had some very good times, but i could never get back that intensity and at the end of the year she was a senior last year on the last day I would ever see her, I was upset she was leaving, but i held back my feelings, I always held back my feelings around her, but she made me feel like nothing she is like oh what grade are you going to be in next year?, she acted like she didn't know me at all, after all we were through she acted like it was nothing , I don't understand what i did wrong,, we haven't talked since and she hasn't talked to me since either, I don't know i was so offended , i did everything i could for her and she never really returned it, what did i do wrong? do you think i should try to talk to her? oh and i forgot to add she use to be in our school musicals and i would go to everyone just to support her, I would go out on intermissions just to tell her how amazing she was and I gave her a hug every time too. I just don't know what I did wrong, after our relationship went down hill anytime i would be far away she would look with this intense look from far away... I made sure i apologized anytime i though i hurt her feelings I even asked her if i was annoying her and she always said no, It's been 7 months since we last talked do you think i should

continued from last post , Should i try to talk to her again or no?

Posted by aPiscesPrincess
Sorry she's doing this to you 😢 The only reasons I would (and have) ignored someone before, is if they wouldn't take no for an answer. And so to get the point across that I'm not interested in being with them is by avoiding them. I've had that happen where some guys are so persistent and even after I keep letting them know I can't be with them they still persist, so then I just have to completely avoid them. I hate doing that though, because I don't like hurting others feelings, but I also have to look out for myself too.

You could try to talk to her one more time, but if she still acts the same and doesn't seem to return your feelings or tries to avoid you, then you have your answer.

hmm I don't know.. she only ignored me sometimes, and I asked so many times, am annoying you?, she never said yes, and I gave her many chances, do you think she still thinks of me at all for her birthday i got her an amethyst bracelet because i know she liked purple and blue, I would of got her anything, I know material things aren't important, but i put so much thought into that gift, and i remember she loved it, do you think she would respond if i sent her a message on facebook?, i deleted her number recently because i was upset, and she said she got a new number she never went out of her way to give it to me and i didn't ask, i really am at a loss, i don't know what to do...

The writing is pretty clear.. for whatever reason/s, she is no longer interested in you and has communicated such by her clear* indifference. It definately takes two willing, passionate, (unfickle) minds to make it work.. Let this door close, so a much better, more suitable one can open for you at some point in your life. Learn from it and it won't be in vain .. G/luck

Hmm Well thank you that is what I though i just wanted to confirm it, thank you everyone, for taking the time to type such detailed answers.

Posted by Pesca2
i read your story; it makes me sad because strangely enough pisceans sometimes choose the exact opposite of what is good for them. for instance you are probably the "just too good to be true" guy. the nice boy, the honest boy....hmmm. later on we do appreciate the nice ones 🙂

i hope all works out well for you!!!

Every woman does this...this is not a pisces thing it is a "platonic" type of situation.

I feel bad for you b/c you sound like such a nice guy but I do believe that she is not interested in you like you are in her. I hate to admit it but I have done that when I know a guy is into me and it isn't reciprocated. I don't like to hurt people's feelings either but sometimes if I don't think they can just be friends and they keep pursuing me I will start to ignore them. I will get overwhelmed with it and I do it less with maturity but I can tell that you both are young.

I also agree with 25thdecan in that you shouldn't be giving gifts like that unless you know the feelings are mutual or you are in a relationship b/c that is costing you money and may be overwhelming her. She probably just didn't want to hurt your feelings and that is why she hasn't tried contacting you or telling you. That is when you need to see the other signs like body language and that she doesn't or hasn't initiated anything with you. There are many nice women you will meet and I know you may feel like she was the 'one' but obviously she wasn't which means there is one out there for you that will feel the same and appreciate your sweetness!
🙂

Hmmm, you are interested in a Leo, Libra and now a Pisces. Maybe you should focus on liking one girl at a time. Not that you can't date a few at a time but I don't buy you liking each of them so much as you write on your posts. They could be sensing a lack of sincerity on your part. Plus, girls talk to each other. "Oh, __ hit on you too?"

Kinda takes the wind out of your sails.

Posted by Mistery
Hmmm, you are interested in a Leo, Libra and now a Pisces. Maybe you should focus on liking one girl at a time. Not that you can't date a few at a time but I don't buy you liking each of them so much as you write on your posts. They could be sensing a lack of sincerity on your part. Plus, girls talk to each other. "Oh, __ hit on you too?"

Kinda takes the wind out of your sails.

The Libra i am interest in now, the Pisces girl was last year and i was more curious to see what i did wrong and the leo is a while back i juts had some unanswered questions.