pisces male-and love?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Unregistered on Sunday, July 14, 2002 and has 5 replies.

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@Unregistered
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Im a taurus fem in love with a decent pisces male,,very cool uncomitting, BEST freind,but (including sexual benefits). I want marriage,,,he says Im JUST hes best freind but hes very very attached, moved in downstairs apt? how do i catch this fishy? with OUT scaring him off?

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i have said a few things in the past bout relationships and he just said we friends,, we look a house together, estdinner and make love , almost daily,,
he dont go far when he does go ride his bike,, im afraid to talk relationship we are both too scarred, to let go, but im sincere and would never hurt him,,, u think hes JUMP at that,, he has tested me,, I am what i say.. dont get it—

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@Unregistered
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As long as you keep giving him the benefits of a relationship without actually comitting to one, he is having his cake and eating it too and he will go along with it until he either gets bored or something better comes along. In my experience and observation when someone says they don't want a relationship what they really mean is that they don't want one with YOU. Why do you want to catch a fish who shows you no respect. Sometimes we are our own worst ememies and think we want a particular person when in fact we want human contact and the feeling of being loved. By attaching yourself to him you are preventing the chance of a real possibility coming into your life. Find other ways to spend your spare time and he will either drift away or he will realise he does love you and commit to something more. Of course by then you may have found someone much better so it will be his loss. Always remember, you can't make someone love you and if it isn't right then you don't really want it.

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i do agree with u in what u say,, luckly for me,, its TIME for change,, new job and career moves are on the way.. he knows this taurean is fixing to MOVE on.pos fly away even
due to circumstances,, with or with him..as any man they want their cake and eat it too,,, but,, this lady is fixin to make her move and have all the necessary tools to do it,, sorry for him
if he dont care,, frm what hes told me Im a jewel compared to his ex'ses, I hope he dont miss the boat,,, cause we get along great,,,but as u say cant force LOVE...