Pisces man affraid or unwilling to commit?

You’re trying to manipulate him by telling him you’re going on this date. All you’re really doing is pissing him off and pushing him to date other girls. What you need to do is tell him ur standards. Fuckbuddies isn’t good enough for u and you need to stop. Then go on this date without telling him because you want to date this other guy, not because you want to use him to manipulate ur friend into a relationship.

Playing the jealousy card doesn’t work on men the same way it works on women. Don’t do it.

Lol..........

To manipulate or to be manipulated

That is the question

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LOL the jealousy card is not going to work on this man. It will piss him off and he will say "fuck it". Do they get jealous? Yes. But they will not give you the reaction you are looking for. They also mirror people so if you're telling him you're going on a date with another man you are telling him that you are not interested in him. I've dated a lot of Pisces men and they are not easy to understand. The mistake I made with my latest failure is letting my ego/pride get in the way when he asked me what I wanted and I didn't tell him exactly what I wanted so now we are in dating limbo again until I can sit down with that slippery fish M.F. and tell him exactly what I want from him.

My advice...stop having sex with him. If he hasn't commited to you in 5 years he is never going to commit.

Posted by 1996Virgo21

Hey everyone,

So I have known this pisces male for +/- 5 years. We have always had chemistry and a few years ago we had sex once, we fooled around a bit but since this summer we have seen each other more than once a week, we're having sex and also hanging out, going to the beach and going out together etcetera.

Now the last time we went to a party I met a guy who was interested in me and we planned a date, so I told my pisces friend about it and he was downtalking on this guy. We both came to an agreement, well, we both told eachother how we wouldn't exactly be turned on if one of us would have sex with anyone else. I told him that I was going on a date with this guy and not going to have sex with him. He isn't cheering me on to go on this date, quite the opposite. So Pisces also told me that if he doesn't hear from me after the date finishes, that he would go on tinder and swipe for new girls. lol.

I want more, and I have dropped big hints to pisces about that. Still, he doesn't act on it. Infact, he told me that when two people are having sex there is no way it can turn into a relationship. He either is manipulating this all to have it his way, or he does like me but isn't ready to clearify that to me.

I first didn't want to post anything on here, because I know I could just ask him, but I want to be careful here, see pisces has been my friend for so long.

A few days ago we were at the beach, having wine at a bar and he would just random grab my hand and hold it. These little things he does have caused me to get feelings for him. But he is clearly not seeing us go anywhere. I don't want to lose a friend, and I really enjoy our sex, but I don't want him to only get to use me for his liberation.

What's up with this back and forth behaviour. He doesn't mind seeing me 3-4 days a week, for a moment it felt like we were actually dating already, but we're not. What on earth do I do with this... I hope you can advise me!

why the fooling around 5 years ago didnt go somewhere? was it the same situation as now?

Go find someone else

Another FWBs authors crying the blues 😒

This shi* is being REAL sickening. STOP putting sex before standards and you'll reap a better outcome.

Posted by 1996Virgo21

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by 1996Virgo21

Hey everyone,

So I have known this pisces male for +/- 5 years. We have always had chemistry and a few years ago we had sex once, we fooled around a bit but since this summer we have seen each other more than once a week, we're having sex and also hanging out, going to the beach and going out together etcetera.

Now the last time we went to a party I met a guy who was interested in me and we planned a date, so I told my pisces friend about it and he was downtalking on this guy. We both came to an agreement, well, we both told eachother how we wouldn't exactly be turned on if one of us would have sex with anyone else. I told him that I was going on a date with this guy and not going to have sex with him. He isn't cheering me on to go on this date, quite the opposite. So Pisces also told me that if he doesn't hear from me after the date finishes, that he would go on tinder and swipe for new girls. lol.

I want more, and I have dropped big hints to pisces about that. Still, he doesn't act on it. Infact, he told me that when two people are having sex there is no way it can turn into a relationship. He either is manipulating this all to have it his way, or he does like me but isn't ready to clearify that to me.

I first didn't want to post anything on here, because I know I could just ask him, but I want to be careful here, see pisces has been my friend for so long.

A few days ago we were at the beach, having wine at a bar and he would just random grab my hand and hold it. These little things he does have caused me to get feelings for him. But he is clearly not seeing us go anywhere. I don't want to lose a friend, and I really enjoy our sex, but I don't want him to only get to use me for his liberation.

What's up with this back and forth behaviour. He doesn't mind seeing me 3-4 days a week, for a moment it felt like we were actually dating already, but we're not. What on earth do I do with this... I hope you can advise me!

why the fooling around 5 years ago didnt go somewhere? was it the same situation as now?

No it wasn't the same, it was very on and off with contact. We would just hang out or have drinks, with other friends too. Now it's more often, and just the two of us.

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Pandora: "why the fooling around 5 years ago didnt go somewhere? was it the same situation as now?

OP: No it wasn't the same, it was very on and off with contact. We would just hang out or have drinks, with other friends too. Now it's more often, and just the two of us."

so it was him who didnt follow throu 5 years ago as well? did you want him that time? what is the real story behind this reunion?

So Why isn't the conversation of being together come up? What do you mean he doesn't want more? Have you even asked? Have you admitted that you are possibly looking for a relationship now, since you feel like it's heading in that direction and you're getting confused about the dynamics? Have you asked him his thoughts on what both of you are willing to give?

Clear communication is necessary in this type of situation. It should be reevaluated when things start getting blurred. If he doesn't want to be with you then it will be clear to either continue, if you'rte fine with it or stop seeing someone and date someone as a potential boyfriend.

But if you guys are seeing each other more often anyways and going out on dates and doing stuff like a couple, and only having sex with each other, what does a title mean?