LadyTaurean585
@LadyTaurean585
5 Years
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Well now he just got out the military and I join next month. So his hometown is New York and mines is Cali (we met when he was stationed here) and he just moved back w his mom so he can go to school for two years and until I send for him once I get settled. We have planned that once I get stationed, we would fly him out and get married and he will finish his school online. So now we are in a long distance relationship until then.
Side note (I know he has these mood swings and I know he likes to recharge, and etc) before he left we discussed this bc I wanted to make sure we are on the same page. He told me once he gets to New York, he is going to be fully devoted to dropping his surgery weight, starting his business, and finishing school, and that he will prioritize his mental health and finding his inner peace. I get on his case bc he never FaceTimes me or calls me bc he doesn’t like it, and instead he texts me. (He texts me every 15 minutes), I trust him completely but I worry it won’t work out, bc he likes to recharge a lot and is devoted to focusing on himself while we are apart, I don’t want that to end up breaking us up.
What I mean by that is, as a Taurus, I am very devoted to him, understanding of him, and I try to give him his space even though I want nothing more to be next to him. I don’t know if him getting stuck in the clouds will cause him to move on, And I can’t tell if he will get tired of me, or just lose interest.
So I guess my whole reason for this post is, how do I keep my relationship good without ruining his Pisces need to recharge and for space without being clingy, and what signs do I need to look out for that maybe he’s not really into this long distance or that he is completely devoted to me but is just working on himself while we are apart? And not to take offense to this feeling? (We are still together, I think we are going strong, we don’t have any problems and we don’t argue mainly bc he will dismiss it as he’s trying to find his peace and doesn’t want to ruin it by arguing over trivial things, and if this post sounds all over the place, it’s bc I am confused myself) any advice will help. Please and thank you!