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naz01
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Please don't judge me but i am confused about my married pisces manager. Shes has been always smiling at me i find her always visible during break times always glancing at me. but lately Shes kind of strange kind of ignoring at times. she was suppose to train me but she dint asked someone else to do it even though she trained someone else that very same day. could someone explain to me cause i know she is happily married. she would always comment on my fb now that has stopped. i find her attractive but i know Shes married. please tell me what's up with the way she is behaving. thanks please don't give nasty comments thanksPlease don't judge me but i am confused about my married pisces manager. Shes has been always smiling at me i find her always visible during break times always glancing at me. but lately Shes kind of strange kind of ignoring at times. she was suppose to train me but she dint asked someone else to do it even though she trained someone else that very same day. could someone explain to me cause i know she is happily married. she would always comment on my fb now that has stopped. i find her attractive but i know Shes married. please tell me what's up with the way she is behaving. thanks please don't give nasty comments thanks
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P-Angel
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She is probably looking and smiling at all of you ... you just have a crush, so therefore have yourself believing it's only you she looks at.

she assigns other people to do work, such as train a person, because delegating work is what a manager does.

If you have to be trained, then this likely means you are new to the situation ... and therefore haven't been there long enough to even know her personality well enough to know how she "acts" in any situation.


Why does someone have to tell you things like this?

Can't you figure it out for yourself? If others can figure it out, if all others around you can figure it out ... then why can't you
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Nefer
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Wow.. so every guy I look at or smile at.. esp guys I work with.. or comment on his FB.. or train or don't train him for his job.. I must be flirting and encouraging his little secret crush.. and he should figure that since I'm a Pisces, it probably has to do with astrology when I smile at people.. so he should go on the WWW and ask a roomful of strangers what's up with ME smiling and looking at people, cuz I'm already spoken for? God damnit, I must be a cheating whore -- cuz I smile at and look at EVERYBODY! -_-

How about what's up with YOU being so hot and bothered over your MARRIED BOSS LADY.. that you read into situations like this, as if she's doing something wrong, and you are blameless and helpless to control yourself and not think inappropriate thoughts about a woman you shouldn't be fixating on cuz she's not available. Now, if chica grabs your ass or calls you into her office and locks the door and says, "DO ME!"... that's encouragement. Smiling and looking at you when she's around you is not.

Umm.. YES, I judge you. Your little crush has you thinking there's something inappropriate or encouraging about her simply interacting with you on a very basic, human level. Which makes you a little stupid and a lot delusional, and your Leo arrogance is showing. Might want to tuck that back up, Ramjet.

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Nefer
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Oh, P.S.... If she's backed off even normal, basic interactions lately, clearly no longer comfortable with commenting on your FB or being around you much, even to the point of assigning someone else to train you so she doesn't have to be around you like that.. ignoring you at times... that's NOT secret code for anything and NOT encouragement. It's obvious that she's picked up on your infatuation and you're creeping her the fuck out with your bullshit crush, and she DOESN'T want to encourage it.
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Nefer
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Also... I feel straight up AMUSED at this... you are clearly determined to see her behavior as encouraging/flirting.. cuz really, did you READ what you WROTE??

If she looks at you, smiles at you, talks to you... she's obviously interested in you, even though she's married.

But if she STOPS doing those things... she's obviously interested in you, even though she's married.

Seriously? No, SERIOUSLY?! :/
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cloudyminded
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Posted by Nefer
Also... I feel straight up AMUSED at this... you are clearly determined to see her behavior as encouraging/flirting.. cuz really, did you READ what you WROTE??

If she looks at you, smiles at you, talks to you... she's obviously interested in you, even though she's married.

But if she STOPS doing those things... she's obviously interested in you, even though she's married.

Seriously? No, SERIOUSLY?! :/



what... seriously? yes seriously.
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Nefer
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OMG! That's the same rejection I got in that thread too!! Apparently, my new fabulous haircut (sans greys even!) didn't fool the thread bouncers! *sad face*

My life is a fantastic circus of happenstance.. a dizzying array of kaleidoscope experiences for me to savor. I feel joy and contentment in mundane, everyday matters as much as I do in fun, exciting ones. I'm in love with life.

Seriously, I am FOREVER smiling.. at everyone and everything. It feels good to spread my infectious joy.. I just never knew my constant, radiant, happy smile was probably slaying men right and left, encouraging their inappropriate fantasies and making them think they could "have" me behind my Libra's back!

I should be locked up.. I'm dangerous :p
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Nefer! Dear lord. Are you ok? Seriously, one should not be experiencing this much joy. Perhaps you've been slipping these in your drinks....



Lena, your friggen thread exploded.... I don't have the patience to read it all.... Give me the gist...

I imagine in to be something like this:

User #1 - We're young and AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!
User #2 - YAY US!!!!!! Those old fogies don't know nothing.
User #3 - Uh huh, Uh huh. They smell like moth balls.
User #4 - Shit, who's gonna buy us beer?

You shoulda let Nefer in.... she's got the gooooooood drugs.
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shellshocker
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All the above could be true... BUT, I know ALOT of flirty Fishes who will admit to it. Hell, the Pisces I hang with is a terrible flirt and told me straight up. So it is possible that this guy is not imagining anything.

He should just enjoy the flirtation, don't take it too seriously and leave it at that... I think he's feeling guilty because he is uncomfortable with the situation.

Basically, if your boss is flirting with you regardless of sign... you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.

I've been in this position before. I changed jobs.
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Posted by Nefer
I just never knew my constant, radiant, happy smile was probably slaying men right and left, encouraging their inappropriate fantasies and making them think they could "have" me behind my Libra's back!



You know, I used to think it was my smile and then someone told me it might have been my wardrobe....

http://media.photobucket.com/image/i fuck on the first date/ryanjohnsonewu/Cartoons/2837563e.jpg?o=0" target="_blank">
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Nefer
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Oh definitely, shellshocker.. I'm a flirt. I flirt and enjoy it, but it doesn't mean I'd cheat OR take it beyond flirting -- even if single. Flirting is flirting -- fun, exciting, makes people feel good. I have no problem with flirts (my Libra is an incorrigible flirt!), maybe cuz I have no Scorp planets in my chart haha

HOWEVER.. me looking at or smiling at someone at work IS NOT flirting. This Leo guy has not said ONE THING that I can consider flirting/encouragement by any stretch of the imagination. He's only spoken of normal, regular human interactions people have with other people in their day to day lives. If she HAD done anything REALLY flirty.. he'd have already mentioned it directly in his OP, or in his posts right after when he was getting defensive over P-Angel telling him he was misreading shit. He HASN'T mentioned anything like that, cuz she's DONE nothing like that. She's been friendly and smiley.. and now she's not. So assuming she WAS flirting.. why'd it stop? And why would stopping mean she's MORE interested and not LESS interested now? If I STOP flirting with you.. I'm straight up NOT interested in you anymore, even if I used to be.

So maybe I'm projecting, but as a Pisces woman.. I smile at and talk to everyone, it's not special when I do it to you... but if I feel a need to tone down or stop my basic interactions with someone.. esp to the point of ignoring or avoiding someone at times.. it's NOT because I'm interested in them.. it's because I'm NOT interested, and THEIR interest is creeping me out and making me feel uncomfortable and I'm wanting to maintain a bit of distance.

Maybe this Leo guy thinks girls show interest by avoiding someone, like a third grader would. He sounds quite young :/
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Nefer
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Posted by Nefer
I just never knew my constant, radiant, happy smile was probably slaying men right and left, encouraging their inappropriate fantasies and making them think they could "have" me behind my Libra's back!



You know, I used to think it was my smile and then someone told me it might have been my wardrobe....

http://media.photobucket.com/image/i fuck on the first date/ryanjohnsonewu/Cartoons/2837563e.jpg?o=0" target="_blank">
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That's my favorite shirt! Every time I wear it to the bar, I get free drinks all night! :p
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shellshocker
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Posted by Nefer
but if I feel a need to tone down or stop my basic interactions with someone.. esp to the point of ignoring or avoiding someone at times.. it's NOT because I'm interested in them.. it's because I'm NOT interested, and THEIR interest is creeping me out and making me feel uncomfortable and I'm wanting to maintain a bit of distance.




lol! I can just imagine the vibe he must be sending out for her to full stop like that.
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Nefer
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Going to expand on something a little:

"She's been friendly and smiley.. and now she's not. So assuming she WAS flirting.. why'd it stop? And why would stopping mean she's MORE interested and not LESS interested now? If I STOP flirting with you.. I'm straight up NOT interested in you anymore, even if I used to be... OR I've realized your interest goes beyond flirting, which is somewhere I'm not going to go when I'm already taken, so I pull back to NOT encourage you further.
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Nefer
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Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Dude, definitely don't smile, don't even make eye contact.... he might think you're coming onto him for more....

Just hand him this number.... Ladies if you don't know this number you NEED to. Now. Memorize it. Tatoo it on your hand if you have to.

Call it Nefer. Give it a test run. IT IS HILARIOUSNESSNESSNESS.....Seriously.



It's those ~Magical Powers~ we (Pisces?) chicks have.. guys think if we smile, it means we wanna bang-bang, so they make a pass! lol

So do guys wanna bang EVERY chick THEY look at or smile at or talk to.. wait.. WTF am I saying?! This is GUYS we're talking about! That was a really stupid (rhetorical) question with a really obvious answer, so ignore it. *foreheadsmack*

And HAHAHAHAHAAAA! I saved two numbers (cuz the hotline with the impersonal greeting, the one they record a VM on, not knowing the VMs get posted on the website.. that's the bomb!).. wish I'd known them last summer for Mr. Creepy Persistent Drunk Guy who kept badgering me (and my friends) one Girls Night Out. We actually had to get bouncer intervention to end THAT one!
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Posted by Nefer

So do guys wanna bang EVERY chick THEY look at or smile at or talk to.. wait.. WTF am I saying?! This is GUYS we're talking about! That was a really stupid (rhetorical) question with a really obvious answer, so ignore it. *foreheadsmack*




*facepalm* LOL!!!!!!!!!!

My Pisces ex DID bang everything he looked at, smiled at, shared oxygen with.... his penis gets more action than a toliet seat at a bar during happy hour.
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cloudyminded
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Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
*popping in just to say quickly......

CLOUDY!!!!!!!!!! NEFER!!!!!!!!!!!! LENA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I wub ewe guys so much. 🙂

Some of my all time favorite fishies. Regardless of the OP and subject matter of this thread this room is straight up full of fishy goodness.

http://photobucket.com/images/pisces% 20love" target="_blank">



aw i
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Do you know I was just about to come in here and bust your ass for not telling me you love me back—? I have been crying in my Cheerios for the last 20 minutes.... 😉

I know. The name effing blows. Buuuuuuut I vowed long ago not to close my account and open a new one.... or hide my posts. I've never done either. Name sucks. I know. Some people call me GemsRa.... sucky nickname, but it works in a pinch.

Anyhoo.... How are you boo boo? I've been missing you!
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Posted by naz01
Now where did i say she is attracted to me? all i asked is what's up with the behaviour? read before you make stupid repliesNow where did i say she is attracted to me? all i asked is what's up with the behaviour? read before you make stupid replies. She only acts this way towards me especially the Facebook comments considering that she has over 700 fb friends





It seems that your issue with repeating yourself when you write is much more serious than other people's issues with reading.


If she was into you, and you knew her feelings for you .. then you wouldn't have had to create this thread in the first place because you would already know why she is behaving the ways she is because it would have been explained to you when you told you how she felt.

So, this means that your next post about her emailing her feelings to you didn't happen at this point.

And, according to how she acts, according to what you wrote .. it would conclude that she never emailed you with how she feels about you ... and that you only said that "lie" to us in an attempt to strengthen your position, which of course, if it were real then the truth would be able to stand on its own.
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P-Angel
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Posted by naz01
Thought i would let you know that she emailed me about her feelings for me thanks for all your advice 🙂Thought i would let you know that she emailed me about her feelings for me thanks for all your advice 🙂





Of course, this is a fabrication.

You can lie about this and the non-Pisces could be gullible enough to believe it .. however, I know for a fact that the number one way that a Piscean female shows feelings for a man is by giving him her undivided attention, she will put him on top priority, and devote herself to him.

That is how a Piscean females hooks men ... her aim in making him believe that he is the man of her dreams, doesn't waver until she has him.


And you've described the exact opposite .... so again, others might believe your lies ... but, I know better, and no matter what you say contrary ... I know you're lying.


Why do people do that, anyway?

Do they feel so puny in their real life that they have to make up shit about how much they are wanted?
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Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Do you know I was just about to come in here and bust your ass for not telling me you love me back—? I have been crying in my Cheerios for the last 20 minutes.... 😉

I know. The name effing blows. Buuuuuuut I vowed long ago not to close my account and open a new one.... or hide my posts. I've never done either. Name sucks. I know. Some people call me GemsRa.... sucky nickname, but it works in a pinch.

Anyhoo.... How are you boo boo? I've been missing you!



Holy shit, I love your avatar/film strip!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Thanks! Reminds me of..... What I'm not getting, lol. Guess I should be smiling at more guys... Leo guys. 😉
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Nefer
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Hmm.. I was just going to call bullshit on his claim that she emailed him to confess her deepest feelings to him (just in time for him to come back here and tell us we were wrong, so wrong, to tell him he was reading into shit cuz he's crushing on a married woman, too!) As if that shit is even remotely likely!!

...But it looks like my fellow Pisces already had this one. *curtsies*

naz, you're lying to try looking better to us. You KNOW you're lying.. but I want you to know that *I* know you're lying too. Hope your married boss fires your creepy ass - she DOESN'T like you! Toodles!
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