Pisces men and their moms

When Mr. Pisces heads up to OH, he's always telling me about his mom cooking for him and the like. He told me last night one of his shoe laces broke and his mom put the new lace in. She also sews on his buttons when he's there if needed. Apparently he enjoys spending time with her too as they went to the County fair together Mon night (he goes up every two weeks for about 3-5 days at a time, so this is not like a once a year visit where they rarely get to do something together. I am suspecting that they traditionally go to the fair together every year). I teased him the other day about getting to his mom's around lunch time and his mom having a PB&J sandwich ready for him w/ a glass of milk. He chuckled and said 'Yup, my momma takes good care of me'.

I think it's sweet, I just don't think I've ever met an adult man who still has such a connection/relationship with their mom.

So, my question is, are Pisces men typically momma's boys?

Posted by deemnsout4ever
haha...nah,my little bro is a Pisces, and our Mother gave no special treatment to any of us,although she did tend to fall for his lies and bullshit when he'd play the victim etc,etc...she still does to this day,but he's calmed down with the elaborations of truths too....🙂

Not how your mom treated him, but how is your bro toward your mom / how close is he relative to you or your other siblings?

nah. mama's boys are the trademark of the cancer male. i'm sure any male could be if the mother was a very good one that was also compatible in personality. maybe he has cancer moon?

every couple of weeks and spends 3-5 days at a time? honestly i think that's too much of a mama's boy for my taste. don't get me wrong here. i love a guy that has a great relationship with his mom (family in general) but that is a LOT of time spent with mommy as an adult male. this is coming from a woman with a son. i love my son dearly but i would not want him spending that much time with me when he's grown. i would be happy with spending a day with my son out of an entire month. as long as the communication is regular (say email exchanges) then i am happy. in actuality i would expect to see him even less often than that.

My Pisces was a total Mamma's Boy!!!!! He spoke to his Mom on the phone EVERY single day SEVERAL times a day. He takes all of his vacation time to visit her and eventually plans on relocating back to his hometown just so he can be close to her. When he visits her they hang out together and she totally babies him. He once told me that if I ever met his Mom that she would be the final say in whether or not I was a keeper. If Mom doesnt like you.... it's too bad for you!!!

So, it sounds familiar to me. I actually found it a little strange myself. Im close to my Mom but it went a little beyond that. I understand he respects her and loves her, but it was a bit overboard.

He takes all of his vacation time to visit her and eventually plans on relocating back to his hometown just so he can be close to her.

Mr. Pisces has said the same thing... when he's retires in a few years he moving back home and going to build his own place so he can be near mom.

When he visits her they hang out together and she totally babies him.

Sounds identical!

He once told me that if I ever met his Mom that she would be the final say in whether or not I was a keeper. If Mom doesnt like you.... it's too bad for you!!!

Mine hasn't said this... but I could hear him saying something like that. He has said I'd like his mom though.

It's not reserved for just Pisces men LOL It's any man who truly loves and respects his Mom and wants to be close to her.

My Libra is the same way with his Mom (a strong-willed, proud, independent Leo Lioness!) They fight like cats and dogs sometimes, but they are beyond close, esp since his Dad died four years ago and my Libra sold his house and moved back in to help Mom almost 3 years ago. SOOO close that it drives his older sister (and only sibling) absolutely whack-job crazy - she doesn't understand it, calls him Mama's Boy and spoiled rotten and a kiss-ass, even though he pays HIS bills and helps Mom with hers when she needs it. (Which is rare - she works too.)

We all live close to Mom, I'm only about 6 miles from her house. But the sister rarely sees or even talks to her, same for my Libra's three young nieces. But my Libra... He talks to Mom every single day on the phone, sometimes two or three times. Sometimes important convos, but usually just chit-chat. He mows her lawn, snowblows her driveway, fixes things around the house. We painted her ceilings, washed her walls, helped her hang new drapes and completely change her decor... because she wanted to change it, and we wanted to help. He changes her oil, helps her get or move things into or out of storage. We go out to dinner with her once in awhile, but usually two nights a week, we have dinner at Mom's. We watch TV with her, play cards with her. She goes to my Libra's softball games, and his quad race at the Fair, and his demo derby. She came here yesterday morning before work, so she could sit and have coffee with us.

I adore his feisty, outspoken Mom, and she openly and loudly adores me. (I believe that's a first for my Libra!) She's never really even liked most of the girls he's dated, and she's never been quiet about it. They say that a lot of boys end up "marrying their Mother" - choosing a woman that is a lot like their own mother... and he has LOL I am A LOT like his Mom, sometimes eerily so, and sometimes he'll say, "Oooookay, Cinda!" because I'm acting or sounding like her. (Her name is Cinda - isn't that beautiful?! I love it, personally.)

I love my Mama's Boy, love that he loves his Mom like that. 🙂

I could be one of the biggest mamas boys that ever lived if I allowed it. My mother (also a Pisces, but with Cancer rising) is extremely smothering. The amrchair psychologist in me says it's because she feels guilty about a lot of the things that happened to me as a child and doesn't want to accept that I've grown up and apart from her since then. To this day she goes into panic mode when she doesn't hear from me for a couple days (how DARE I live a life of my own!) and then complains that we never talk longer than 10 minutes (maybe, just maybe if she would stop calling me long enough for something to happen that I could tell her about...).

Our relationship has gotten better in the year since I got laid off and had to move back home, but she still can't seem to not take it personally that her 28 year old son is capable of living a life without her intervention... aren't parents supposed to want their kids to be independent?