Pisces shut off (Page 2)

Librascorp80 · 2018-03-07T16:27:15Z

Posted by Librascorp80 Posted by EvatheDiva52 Posted by Librascorp80 I have been losing my mind the past 2 months ! Let me try & explain ~ Me & my pisces guy has been together for 4 years & have 3 yr old twin boys together . He was my dream come true . We both fell hard for each other . Things was good for awhile , but he began his drill Sargent duties ( we are a military family ) which made him stay away from home a lot with the brutal hours he worked & I am left to raise my twins . Stress kicked in .. on both our parts & we began to fight a lot but always made up, but in Jan we began to fight more & he started sleeping in the other bedroom we haven't had inimacy since Jan ..I have tried to make up with him but he shut it down . Last night I tried I come out and ask him do you want to end this do you not love me anymore tears starting swelling in his eyes and he shut Down and will not tell me anything .. I need advice here desperately ... why is he so withdrawn and why does he refuse to talk about what he wants or anything to do with our relationship. I am about to go nuts !!what can I do ?? How do I make it better ? Doll first of all I AM Piscean. Second of all, I work for the Army; Joint Base San Antonio Fort Sam Houston. He is a DRILL SERGEANT! He's the one waking up at 4:30 in the morning running and singing caton w/the troops! A Military wife has respect, understanding, takes on the responsibilities at home while the Military Husband/man/Drill Sergeant takes care of business for the Army. By now you would have understood what those duties are at home for you; while he takes care of his. He FELT as if you were strong like he is as he has to concentrate and have an "Army day" 365 + 1 day for leap year. Your Military MAN bleeds GREEN! Your Military man wears his uniform EVEN on the weekends! I hate to shout at you, but yeah, you did wrong in fighting w/your Military man. I WISH you could take off your shoes/flip flops/tennis shoes/stilettos and walk in his COMBAT boots for one day! You'll come back home with your arms ready to hug him and tell him you totally understand what his day entails. He has his CO to report to, he has suspenses, rosters to submit, he has Soldiers he has to mentor when the come to him for advice, he has sexual harassment cases he has to take care of, he has to pass his PT test twice a week, he has A-Z to take care of, etc, etc, etc, etc! Okay, so I said my peace. Now, about making up with him. Write little notes for him to read (you're a grown up woman; I don't have to do the play by play w/you). Go to the PX/Commissary and buy a pail w/Miller Lite (Bud) whatever the fuck he drinks, has candies, etc., and leave it in his vehicle before he drives of to the BASE. Dress up on a sexy black teddy w/perfume on and go over to him on the couch and SEDUCE him! 🤗 cyber hugs! Love, Eva DAMN I miss my Judge Judy gif!! 😡 I know military life. I was a 68 whiskey for 8years & served over seas hon. I get it. As for womaning up I did just now with blunt straight to the point conversations. He said he does want to work on the relationship & doesn't want to alone click to expand I’m sorry to hear about the update. Tbh it sounds like he doesn’t want to work on it, so time to do what’s right for you. Having some space away to re-evaluate what you both want sounds like a good idea. Even if he’s against it. He can’t have his cake (having you and the kids around) and eat it too (ignore you for months). Good luck I hope things go well for you🙂

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