Pisces soulmate?

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Hey guys, need your advice on how to proceed with my current situation.

I found my Pisces man on tinder (I’m Aquarius) while he was visiting my country, we met in a bar with friends (his buddy and my girl friend) and hit it off immediately. I felt instant connection, we were deeply engaged in conversation but I called it a night pretty early leaving him hanging there. He texted me the next day before leaving back home admitting he’d want to hang more with me. We stayed in touch for 2 months texting and doing video calls. Things got flirty and hot. He suggested for us to meet, we picked a date, he was about to book his ticket and then disappeared. I didn’t want to come off as needy/clingy so I didn’t reach out. 2 months later he got back like nothing happened, we rekindled out flirtationship and all of a sudden he booked a ticket to come visit me (9 hour direct flight btw just for 3 days). It was a magical weekend. We’ve had insanely beautiful (both physical and mental) connection. Couldn’t stop talking and staring at one another, he pressed all the right buttons, connected on so many levels (shared interests, similar beliefs). Unbelievable chemistry and profound intellectual match. He seemed confused as he was leaving cause none of us expected this rendezvous to be this bloody good. He was totally smitten, gentle, caring, couldn’t keep his hands off me, showered me with kisses and etc. We didn’t make any specific plans cause he’s visiting his family for winter holidays, then got a schedule full of business trips so we couldn’t find any time slot to plan something special for the two of us. Which now leaves me questioning this entire situation. He keeps in touch (in his usual manner like sometimes we text in a witty and funny way then he may disappear for a few days but always responds if I reach out first) but I’m very impatient and I wanna know what’s coming next. I’ve never felt such intense emotional connection before, he feels like a soul mate (we would gaze into each other’s eyes for hours smiling and not speaking and even this felt divine) so I would really love to give this a chance. What should I do? Let things fall into place by itself or I can influence the situation somehow?
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Good point! Thanks for a different perspective



Posted by Arielle83

You’re lusting and he’s on a pedestal because you felt limerence with someone.

Your mind is attracted and now your body wants him. You desire him more because he’s unattainable. He even disappeared and you were still intrigued.

The mystery of the sudden connection, unattainable contact, fantasy text messages that are feeding the ego are all things that make you think “soulmate”.

The reality is you’re basing a connection on fantasy because you don’t know this person day to day, so you imprint ideals on him.

You desire him and most likely fantasize a lot.

Plus”soulmates” don’t usually stay around. They teach you something though.

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Thanks for the advice!

If a girl admits her interest won’t it scare you Pisces guys away?

I noticed that whenever he wants to prove something to himself (such as he’s not a flakey boy) he puts a lot of effort into it. You guys seem to like that kind of challenge



Posted by rmactavish

Pisces guy here.

Look honestly speaking, we do this thing of coming off all at once and then suddenly disappearing or halting things...not because we have lost interest, but something else came up that required our attention as well.

And if we do care about someone/something we always come back, and so did he. So I think there is a chance here with you and him.

But then again, he's in a different country, which is a huge negative point here.

I would say just straight up tell him you're interested in him and want to make things serious with him, and want him to be more consistent in giving his attention to you. If he cares then he will.

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ar!

He keeps in touch, he’s still on my radar. Shoots me playful texts and stuff. No certain plans though. We briefly discussed when we’re gonna see each other next, he suggested to wait until spring (!) when he comes to Europe with friends (the idea I don’t like). I said “he’ll make it happen if that’s what he wants or find excuses” to which he replied that i know him pretty well now and suggested I can come see him anywhere I want.

I do hate uncertainty more than anything in this world. Especially when it comes to men.

Should I lay low and wait what happens next or you guys like when girls take initiative in their hands?

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Posted by BrookeDavis

Thanks for the advice!

If a girl admits her interest won’t it scare you Pisces guys away?

I noticed that whenever he wants to prove something to himself (such as he’s not a flakey boy) he puts a lot of effort into it. You guys seem to like that kind of challenge



Posted by rmactavish

Pisces guy here.

Look honestly speaking, we do this thing of coming off all at once and then suddenly disappearing or halting things...not because we have lost interest, but something else came up that required our attention as well.

And if we do care about someone/something we always come back, and so did he. So I think there is a chance here with you and him.

But then again, he's in a different country, which is a huge negative point here.

I would say just straight up tell him you're interested in him and want to make things serious with him, and want him to be more consistent in giving his attention to you. If he cares then he will.


Yes we do. Sorry for the late reply I don't use Dxp much and especially around holidays.

Any late update on the situation with your Pisces guy?

And btw Happy New Year.
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year!! (It didn’t appear in my original message for some reason)

Posted by rmactavish

Posted by BrookeDavis

Thanks for the advice!

If a girl admits her interest won’t it scare you Pisces guys away?

I noticed that whenever he wants to prove something to himself (such as he’s not a flakey boy) he puts a lot of effort into it. You guys seem to like that kind of challenge



Posted by rmactavish

Pisces guy here.

Look honestly speaking, we do this thing of coming off all at once and then suddenly disappearing or halting things...not because we have lost interest, but something else came up that required our attention as well.

And if we do care about someone/something we always come back, and so did he. So I think there is a chance here with you and him.

But then again, he's in a different country, which is a huge negative point here.

I would say just straight up tell him you're interested in him and want to make things serious with him, and want him to be more consistent in giving his attention to you. If he cares then he will.


Yes we do. Sorry for the late reply I don't use Dxp much and especially around holidays.

Any late update on the situation with your Pisces guy?

And btw Happy New Year.
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sucks! But you’re seem to be right. I’m just a hopeless romantic who wants to believe I can make it work.
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Posted by BrookeDavis

Happy new year!

He keeps in touch, he’s still on my radar. Shoots me playful texts and stuff. No certain plans though. We briefly discussed when we’re gonna see each other next, he suggested to wait until spring (!) when he comes to Europe with friends (the idea I don’t like). I said “he’ll make it happen if that’s what he wants or find excuses” to which he replied that i know him pretty well now and suggested I can come see him anywhere I want.

I do hate uncertainty more than anything in this world. Especially when it comes to men.

Should I lay low and wait what happens next or you guys like when girls take initiative in their hands?

Posted by rmactavish

Posted by BrookeDavis

Thanks for the advice!

If a girl admits her interest won’t it scare you Pisces guys away?

I noticed that whenever he wants to prove something to himself (such as he’s not a flakey boy) he puts a lot of effort into it. You guys seem to like that kind of challenge



Posted by rmactavish

Pisces guy here.

Look honestly speaking, we do this thing of coming off all at once and then suddenly disappearing or halting things...not because we have lost interest, but something else came up that required our attention as well.

And if we do care about someone/something we always come back, and so did he. So I think there is a chance here with you and him.

But then again, he's in a different country, which is a huge negative point here.

I would say just straight up tell him you're interested in him and want to make things serious with him, and want him to be more consistent in giving his attention to you. If he cares then he will.


Yes we do. Sorry for the late reply I don't use Dxp much and especially around holidays.

Any late update on the situation with your Pisces guy?

And btw Happy New Year.


I think you should lay low. But honestly speaking, I really don't think there's a point in going after this guy or making this 'thing' work cuz he's probably seeing other girls out and you would have other options as well, and there's no certainty when or where are you guys gonna meet.
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Posted by BrookeDavis

Hey guys, need your advice on how to proceed with my current situation.

I found my Pisces man on tinder (I’m Aquarius) while he was visiting my country, we met in a bar with friends (his buddy and my girl friend) and hit it off immediately. I felt instant connection, we were deeply engaged in conversation but I called it a night pretty early leaving him hanging there. He texted me the next day before leaving back home admitting he’d want to hang more with me. We stayed in touch for 2 months texting and doing video calls. Things got flirty and hot. He suggested for us to meet, we picked a date, he was about to book his ticket and then disappeared. I didn’t want to come off as needy/clingy so I didn’t reach out. 2 months later he got back like nothing happened, we rekindled out flirtationship and all of a sudden he booked a ticket to come visit me (9 hour direct flight btw just for 3 days). It was a magical weekend. We’ve had insanely beautiful (both physical and mental) connection. Couldn’t stop talking and staring at one another, he pressed all the right buttons, connected on so many levels (shared interests, similar beliefs). Unbelievable chemistry and profound intellectual match. He seemed confused as he was leaving cause none of us expected this rendezvous to be this bloody good. He was totally smitten, gentle, caring, couldn’t keep his hands off me, showered me with kisses and etc. We didn’t make any specific plans cause he’s visiting his family for winter holidays, then got a schedule full of business trips so we couldn’t find any time slot to plan something special for the two of us. Which now leaves me questioning this entire situation. He keeps in touch (in his usual manner like sometimes we text in a witty and funny way then he may disappear for a few days but always responds if I reach out first) but I’m very impatient and I wanna know what’s coming next. I’ve never felt such intense emotional connection before, he feels like a soul mate (we would gaze into each other’s eyes for hours smiling and not speaking and even this felt divine) so I would really love to give this a chance. What should I do? Let things fall into place by itself or I can influence the situation somehow?


First, know for sure if the connection's genuine or, if it's just one of those compatibilities where it starts off all wonderful. Find out his birthday and compare his natal chart to yours. Also, look uphill eastern astrology animal to yours. **If his chart proves very compatible to your own, then the connection is pure and could carry through for the long term with effort on boths' part **and, he's worth pursuing. If the charts look bad--hit Tindr and start over.
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y is insanely perfect on so many levels. Omg!

But we’re both laying low. If he can’t see what’s in front of him and doesn’t make a move I don’t think anything will change if I pursue him.

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Posted by BrookeDavis

Hey guys, need your advice on how to proceed with my current situation.

I found my Pisces man on tinder (I’m Aquarius) while he was visiting my country, we met in a bar with friends (his buddy and my girl friend) and hit it off immediately. I felt instant connection, we were deeply engaged in conversation but I called it a night pretty early leaving him hanging there. He texted me the next day before leaving back home admitting he’d want to hang more with me. We stayed in touch for 2 months texting and doing video calls. Things got flirty and hot. He suggested for us to meet, we picked a date, he was about to book his ticket and then disappeared. I didn’t want to come off as needy/clingy so I didn’t reach out. 2 months later he got back like nothing happened, we rekindled out flirtationship and all of a sudden he booked a ticket to come visit me (9 hour direct flight btw just for 3 days). It was a magical weekend. We’ve had insanely beautiful (both physical and mental) connection. Couldn’t stop talking and staring at one another, he pressed all the right buttons, connected on so many levels (shared interests, similar beliefs). Unbelievable chemistry and profound intellectual match. He seemed confused as he was leaving cause none of us expected this rendezvous to be this bloody good. He was totally smitten, gentle, caring, couldn’t keep his hands off me, showered me with kisses and etc. We didn’t make any specific plans cause he’s visiting his family for winter holidays, then got a schedule full of business trips so we couldn’t find any time slot to plan something special for the two of us. Which now leaves me questioning this entire situation. He keeps in touch (in his usual manner like sometimes we text in a witty and funny way then he may disappear for a few days but always responds if I reach out first) but I’m very impatient and I wanna know what’s coming next. I’ve never felt such intense emotional connection before, he feels like a soul mate (we would gaze into each other’s eyes for hours smiling and not speaking and even this felt divine) so I would really love to give this a chance. What should I do? Let things fall into place by itself or I can influence the situation somehow?


First, know for sure if the connection's genuine or, if it's just one of those compatibilities where it starts off all wonderful. Find out his birthday and compare his natal chart to yours. Also, look uphill eastern astrology animal to yours. **If his chart proves very compatible to your own, then the connection is pure and could carry through for the long term with effort on boths' part **and, he's worth pursuing. If the charts look bad--hit Tindr and start over.
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Posted by BrookeDavis

Compatibility is insanely perfect on so many levels. Omg!

But we’re both laying low. If he can’t see what’s in front of him and doesn’t make a move I don’t think anything will change if I pursue him.

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Posted by BrookeDavis

Hey guys, need your advice on how to proceed with my current situation.

I found my Pisces man on tinder (I’m Aquarius) while he was visiting my country, we met in a bar with friends (his buddy and my girl friend) and hit it off immediately. I felt instant connection, we were deeply engaged in conversation but I called it a night pretty early leaving him hanging there. He texted me the next day before leaving back home admitting he’d want to hang more with me. We stayed in touch for 2 months texting and doing video calls. Things got flirty and hot. He suggested for us to meet, we picked a date, he was about to book his ticket and then disappeared. I didn’t want to come off as needy/clingy so I didn’t reach out. 2 months later he got back like nothing happened, we rekindled out flirtationship and all of a sudden he booked a ticket to come visit me (9 hour direct flight btw just for 3 days). It was a magical weekend. We’ve had insanely beautiful (both physical and mental) connection. Couldn’t stop talking and staring at one another, he pressed all the right buttons, connected on so many levels (shared interests, similar beliefs). Unbelievable chemistry and profound intellectual match. He seemed confused as he was leaving cause none of us expected this rendezvous to be this bloody good. He was totally smitten, gentle, caring, couldn’t keep his hands off me, showered me with kisses and etc. We didn’t make any specific plans cause he’s visiting his family for winter holidays, then got a schedule full of business trips so we couldn’t find any time slot to plan something special for the two of us. Which now leaves me questioning this entire situation. He keeps in touch (in his usual manner like sometimes we text in a witty and funny way then he may disappear for a few days but always responds if I reach out first) but I’m very impatient and I wanna know what’s coming next. I’ve never felt such intense emotional connection before, he feels like a soul mate (we would gaze into each other’s eyes for hours smiling and not speaking and even this felt divine) so I would really love to give this a chance. What should I do? Let things fall into place by itself or I can influence the situation somehow?


First, know for sure if the connection's genuine or, if it's just one of those compatibilities where it starts off all wonderful. Find out his birthday and compare his natal chart to yours. Also, look uphill eastern astrology animal to yours. **If his chart proves very compatible to your own, then the connection is pure and could carry through for the long term with effort on boths' part **and, he's worth pursuing. If the charts look bad--hit Tindr and start over.

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Check your charts out. Also check out your north and south nodes. Even if it is a soulmate connection, so many things cold stop the two people from coming together. timing, a fear of becoming increasingly intimate and raw with someone else, etc. Sometimes we settle for someone with less of a connection just to avoid opening up.