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Pisces with Venus in Aquarius
Yeah, Texas to be exact. Is my grammar not good enough for any recognition in the forums or something? I can do better, I swear. :p
Between all that Pisces and Aquarius.. and that Cancer Moon (your emotions and inner self)... I can see that you probably need inordinate amounts of constant reassurance. Honestly, though - I think this is more due to your Cancer Moon than your Aqua Venus, seriously.
Let me see if I can explain this: Pisces is deep and sensitive, but tend to be aloof and self-contained, needing space and privacy and alone time. Aqua is detachment, not needing constant reassurance. Venus in Aqua need their space, need not to be smothered, seem a little cold, aloof, detached, a free-spirit. Those two are vaguely similar, right? Yup, they are. So one would think you'd be like this in your relationships... and maybe you ARE... but only until your EMOTIONS (Moon) gets involved. It's your Cancer MOON that's doing this to you, sweetheart!
Examples, but you can Google up plenty more!...
http://astrology.about.com/od/venus/p/VenusAquarius.htm>Aqua Venus in Love/Romance: "You need a lot more space than most people, and won't want to be bound up, or merge, or anything codependent like that. You're a sampler, and a friendly group-oriented person that feels more at home in a small clique. It's important to be with someone whose mind is as quirky as yours, and that won't judge your far-out ideas. You may appear aloof when dating, since the intimate encounter is at odds with your nature. But you'll respond to an intelligent, fair-minded person that lets you go off on your own most of the time."
http://astrology.about.com/od/moonsigns/p/CancerMoon.htm>Cancer Moon:
"Keywords:
intuitive, gentle, nurturing, protective, sympathetic, refined, imaginative, loyal
The Shadow Side:
clingy, critical, moody, secretive, manipulative, needy, evasive
Quality and Element:
Cardinal and Water
Famous People with Moon in Cancer:
Harrison Ford, Drew Barrymore, Jane Pauley, Kurt Cobain, Ray Davies, Mary J. Blige, Bette Midler, Farrah Fawcett, Eleanor Roosevelt, Clint Eastwood
Let me see if I can explain this: Pisces is deep and sensitive, but tend to be aloof and self-contained, needing space and privacy and alone time. Aqua is detachment, not needing constant reassurance. Venus in Aqua need their space, need not to be smothered, seem a little cold, aloof, detached, a free-spirit. Those two are vaguely similar, right? Yup, they are. So one would think you'd be like this in your relationships... and maybe you ARE... but only until your EMOTIONS (Moon) gets involved. It's your Cancer MOON that's doing this to you, sweetheart!
Examples, but you can Google up plenty more!...
http://astrology.about.com/od/venus/p/VenusAquarius.htm>Aqua Venus in Love/Romance: "You need a lot more space than most people, and won't want to be bound up, or merge, or anything codependent like that. You're a sampler, and a friendly group-oriented person that feels more at home in a small clique. It's important to be with someone whose mind is as quirky as yours, and that won't judge your far-out ideas. You may appear aloof when dating, since the intimate encounter is at odds with your nature. But you'll respond to an intelligent, fair-minded person that lets you go off on your own most of the time."
http://astrology.about.com/od/moonsigns/p/CancerMoon.htm>Cancer Moon:
"Keywords:
intuitive, gentle, nurturing, protective, sympathetic, refined, imaginative, loyal
The Shadow Side:
clingy, critical, moody, secretive, manipulative, needy, evasive
Quality and Element:
Cardinal and Water
Famous People with Moon in Cancer:
Harrison Ford, Drew Barrymore, Jane Pauley, Kurt Cobain, Ray Davies, Mary J. Blige, Bette Midler, Farrah Fawcett, Eleanor Roosevelt, Clint Eastwood
Personality Profile:
The Moon is at home in Cancer, which gives those with this sign a striking depth of feeling and imagination. Those lucky to have them in their lives can enjoy warm affection and a sense of intimacy, whether as a friend or a romantic partner. For them every encounter is meaningful, and it gives weight to all their relationships.
Each life experience is remembered as an emotional impression, and held onto forever. Their powerful memories can be woven into story, music and art in a way that pulls at the heartstrings of their audiences or loved ones. The dark side is that they??ll nurture a wound for a long time, sometimes keeping one foot firmly rooted in the past.
The Cancer Moon has a delicate sensitivity that may be kept well hidden out of protection. But they demand a lot from those they love, and might test others loyalty without revealing their own feelings. This behavior comes from a fear of being rejected or left alone that has its roots deep in the psyche.
Those with the Moon in Cancer refill the well at home, and need a solid base of unflagging support. They also need lots of solitude to calm those turbulent emotional moods they experience, as well as what they pick up like a psychic sponge from others. When all this is in place, they??ll be emboldened to show their true strength.
Life with such a complex soul as the Cancer Moon is bound to be both challenging and exquisitely rewarding. The ideal mate understands that they??re both strong and sensitive, with wild fluctuations between the two extremes. You??ll win their trust if you provide shelter when they??re vulnerable and encouragement when they??re ready to take on the world.
The Moon is at home in Cancer, which gives those with this sign a striking depth of feeling and imagination. Those lucky to have them in their lives can enjoy warm affection and a sense of intimacy, whether as a friend or a romantic partner. For them every encounter is meaningful, and it gives weight to all their relationships.
Each life experience is remembered as an emotional impression, and held onto forever. Their powerful memories can be woven into story, music and art in a way that pulls at the heartstrings of their audiences or loved ones. The dark side is that they??ll nurture a wound for a long time, sometimes keeping one foot firmly rooted in the past.
The Cancer Moon has a delicate sensitivity that may be kept well hidden out of protection. But they demand a lot from those they love, and might test others loyalty without revealing their own feelings. This behavior comes from a fear of being rejected or left alone that has its roots deep in the psyche.
Those with the Moon in Cancer refill the well at home, and need a solid base of unflagging support. They also need lots of solitude to calm those turbulent emotional moods they experience, as well as what they pick up like a psychic sponge from others. When all this is in place, they??ll be emboldened to show their true strength.
Life with such a complex soul as the Cancer Moon is bound to be both challenging and exquisitely rewarding. The ideal mate understands that they??re both strong and sensitive, with wild fluctuations between the two extremes. You??ll win their trust if you provide shelter when they??re vulnerable and encouragement when they??re ready to take on the world.
Sooo... basically, your Pisces Sun wants love and a loving relationship... your Aqua placements want you to have space, freedom, not be smothered or tied down... but your Cancer Moon is more needy and demanding, wanting a lot of reassurance and attention. Your emotions (Moon) are warring with the rest of you... you want the reassurance and security from your girlfriend, but you want the space and freedom too... and sometimes the freedom-lover breaks out.. and gets attention and affection elsewhere, telling you that you aren't getting enough at home (to satisfy your Cancer Moon, that is.) This is one of the challenges of having a Cancer Moon... reconciling your deepest emotional needs with what someone can realistically provide.. AND learning to not talk yourself into doing things (like straying) because someone's not living up to those (usually over the top) standards... esp when you overreact or do it for no REAL reason, but only what you perceive in your MIND (emotions) to be a good reason. Give yourself time to grow and become more comfortable and melded with your emotions. Cancer Moon isn't the worst thing ever, though it's certainly going to be a bigger challenge for you than maybe a different Moon would be, because it's at war with a lot of your other placements.
Hmmm... I missed one.. Libra Rising. Also detached Air. Wow, it's SO your Moon, baby.
Girl, you're young, just starting to learn about yourself and the rest of the world... and yes, the intense needs of your Cancer Moon is at WAR with the rest of your placements that wants freedom and space (and keeps going out and getting it!!!) Don't be so hard on yourself - everyone has their own unique challenges to overcome in their spiritual, emotional, astrological life. This one's yours.
Girl, you're young, just starting to learn about yourself and the rest of the world... and yes, the intense needs of your Cancer Moon is at WAR with the rest of your placements that wants freedom and space (and keeps going out and getting it!!!) Don't be so hard on yourself - everyone has their own unique challenges to overcome in their spiritual, emotional, astrological life. This one's yours.
Thank you so much for taking the time to type all that. You are so right, I demand way too much reassurance in my relationships. I thought the conflict was between my sun and venus, but the moon and venus makes a lot of sense. I do love my space and I always am off and on in my relationships, as if it's a constant battle between freedom and security. Security always wins, but it takes a second of tasting that freedom and losing that security for me to realize that. Within 5 minutes of breaking up, I will want them right back. So do you think I should like find a needy person and have an agreement that it's nothing really serious? When I was younger I NEVER felt like I needed space, so the idea that I am a detached, space-needing person is a completely recent discovery, even though I've been doing the off and on relationships for a few years now.
Also, I don't know if you can help me figure out what this means, but in all my relationships there has never been any aspects to my Venus in our synastry charts.
The on again, off again relationships ARE probably your Airy need for space AND your Cancer Moon need for security and reassurance, even if you never realized it consciously. You didn't FEEL like you needed space... but baby, you sure GOT it plenty of times, right? Then the Moon drove you back to the security... the Air pulled you back to the freedom. Seeing a pattern yet? And yes, it's partially your young age, because failed relationships happen to most of us in our youth, except maybe the most practical, grounded, studious Virgos or Caps lol... failed relationships happen to everyone.. but on again, off again and back & forth ones only happen to some people. Some of us (like me, for example) have rarely (if ever) gone back with an ex. When I'm done, I'm DONE... but my placements aren't at war with each other lol
I wouldn't even know what kind of relationship to suggest you "look for" -- cuz I know you never find what you look for... it finds you when you stop looking LOL In ALL relationships, I believe in honesty first and foremost. You need to communicate with each other, even when it's difficult. You need tolerance, patience, and understanding. It's said that as you grow and change, as you mature and evolve - your Moon starts melding more with your Sun (and Rising) to form your.. final complete persona, for lack of a better word. You will be very different 10 years from now, and even more different 10 years after that, etc etc. As your Moon melds, you may even find it doesn't have the same stranglehold on you needing/demanding so very much as it demands now... as it blends and softens with your Pisces and Aqua placements, it's supposed to balance out between the two extremes (need for security vs. need for freedom) and become something in between the two.
As for the lack of Venus aspects in your Synastry charts.. I dunno. Are you saying the Synastry charts you've done mentioned nothing about Venus? Seems odd to me.. Venus is our Love and Relationships. I would think that's important in Synastry lol
I wouldn't even know what kind of relationship to suggest you "look for" -- cuz I know you never find what you look for... it finds you when you stop looking LOL In ALL relationships, I believe in honesty first and foremost. You need to communicate with each other, even when it's difficult. You need tolerance, patience, and understanding. It's said that as you grow and change, as you mature and evolve - your Moon starts melding more with your Sun (and Rising) to form your.. final complete persona, for lack of a better word. You will be very different 10 years from now, and even more different 10 years after that, etc etc. As your Moon melds, you may even find it doesn't have the same stranglehold on you needing/demanding so very much as it demands now... as it blends and softens with your Pisces and Aqua placements, it's supposed to balance out between the two extremes (need for security vs. need for freedom) and become something in between the two.
As for the lack of Venus aspects in your Synastry charts.. I dunno. Are you saying the Synastry charts you've done mentioned nothing about Venus? Seems odd to me.. Venus is our Love and Relationships. I would think that's important in Synastry lol
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn i hate dealing with psices women who have venus aquas cuz they will use the hell outta you if they feel they can
now i do like psices women but that exp. is just somethign of another
now i do like psices women but that exp. is just somethign of another
Plenty of women will use men if they can, regardless of their sign. I wouldn't say Pisces Suns NOR Aqua Venuses to be predisposed to using people. In fact, they're both pretty much Humanitarians. Aqua more with the world at large, Pisces more with individuals. Both would need some space and are a bit detached and aloof, yes. But with this girl, it's her needy, demanding Cancer Moon at war with the rest, making her go back and forth between two extremes - and confusing the hell out of her (AND her romantic partners!)
dont take that to heart ma'am, im just saying thats a pretty bad combo b/c psices come acorss like they need pity sometimes and the venus in aqua will have them using the fudge out ya
Aqaurius ppl will too and they lie so much, dont get me wrong i like pisces women but the ones i knew with aqua venus were p.o.d. users
Aqaurius ppl will too and they lie so much, dont get me wrong i like pisces women but the ones i knew with aqua venus were p.o.d. users
Hey now I'm a pisces with a venus in aqua. I also have a merc in aqua and a moon in libra. So yea I can be rather detached.
my pisces has his moon in capricorn and venus in aquarius....it's so hard for me to deal with him sometimes cause he can be so spacey gee.
Would a Pisces Sun with an Aqua Moon be more detached than someone with a Pisces Sun and Aqua Venus?
If Moon is emotions, would it make you more detached for the Aqua to be Moon and not Venus? And Aqua mercury too!
If Moon is emotions, would it make you more detached for the Aqua to be Moon and not Venus? And Aqua mercury too!
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Sun Pisces
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Mercury Pisces
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Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
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